My name is Eniola, I have been dating my boyfriend for over one year nw and ever since then i havent in any way be a burden to him, the only thng he bought for me is a 3500N ring, I havent spent up to 1K of his money. The problem with him is that he is nt a type of guy that call his gf, I've always being the only one calling and if i decide not to call him he wil get angry wit me as if his life depends on it. Also he has never come to my house since we have started dating the only excuse he gives is that he has no 200N t.fare, I am tired of being the only one going to his plc, I tell lies to my mum just to go to his plc and this has been going on for over a year, I feel guilty abt telling lies to my her. I love my bf so much but i dnt know how to deal with his anger problem, he has been snubbing me since some days nw because I told him I cnt cm to his plc today because of my dad's birthday. He doesnt know how to say SORRY even when he knows he is the one at fault. I am confused abt whether or not to end the whole thing. His he doing like this because we met on 2go? Or is that how how guys treat their GFs?

First of all ... Go and study to show thyself APPROVED!

How old r u? I think u should rather focus on ur studies than peddling with fire that'l consume ur future & dreams!

first of all turn your back and take six strokes of the cain...
oya sit down so you met on 2go no that is not important.

He has not visited you in a year does he even know where you live?

He is getting angry because you did not visit him on your Dad's birthday. like seriously ? you deserve more than this young lady

GET OUT NOW !

That's wat happens when every teenage girl want to have boyfriend. Next will be 'please help my heart is broken, am pregnant my bf say it's not him' etc mschew

24 strokes of d cain for u gurl,gerrooouut now before God go change hin mind.

Hi dear, can you do me a favour? Now, I want you to do away with that boy, delete your 2go and FACE YOUR STUDIES!!!

All these teenagers with their wahala.

Is there no way i can change him?

Ma dear dnt mind dem jawe.
Bt seriously d guy neva enta ya house 4 ova a year and dsnt called ?
Thats what we called 2go Love.

yomalex: first of all turn your back and take six strokes of the cain...
oya sit down so you met on 2go nut that is not important.

He has not visited you in a year does he even know where you live?

He is getting angry because you did not visit him on your Dad's birthday. like seriously ? you deserve more than this young lady

GET OUT NOW !

LoL!!! Give the gurl a break shez jez in a stupidity phase it will pass

@OlamiB, the responsibility of changing that kind of man boy is not in your hands. From what you have said here, the guy is taking whatever you share for granted. I doubt if he has a clear cut direction for his life yet and you seem to be so much in love not to see this. Its good you have asked for advice, at least that shows you know something isn't right in your relationship.

A responsible guy won't treat his girlfriend that way. Pls give him a break, face your studies and free your mind. A man that deserves you will come along. Don't put yourself in a tight corner.

Op!delete ur 2go,facebuk,twitter,watup,phone no,email,bb,house no,return his 3500gift by ups.4get him
carry ur bible and buk start to follow God wit prayer & fasing.
I am serious! Op!delete ur 2go,facebuk,twitter,watup,phone no,email,bb,house no,return his 3500gift by ups.4get him
carry ur bible and buk start to follow God wit prayer & fasing.
I am serious!

Lol 2go love seriously that shii stupid anyways do like everyone is saying del all your social network app on your phone and study

OlamiB: My name is Eniola, I have been dating my boyfriend for over one year nw and ever since then i havent in any way be a burden to him, the only thng he bought for me is a 3500N ring, I havent spent up to 1K of his money. The problem with him is that he is nt a type of guy that call his gf, I've always being the only one calling and if i decide not to call him he wil get angry wit me as if his life depends on it. Also he has never come to my house since we have started dating the only excuse he gives is that he has no 200N t.fare, I am tired of being the only one going to his plc, I tell lies to my mum just to go to his plc and this has been going on for over a year, I feel guilty abt telling lies to my her. I love my bf so much but i dnt know how to deal with his anger problem, he has been snubbing me since some days nw because I told him I cnt cm to his plc today because of my dad's birthday. He doesnt know how to say SORRY even when he knows he is the one at fault. I am confused abt whether or not to end the whole thing. His he doing like this because we met on 2go? Or is that how how guys treat their GFs?

I just have to quote you girl. I know peer pressure could be hard to deal with, especially seeing your friends flaunting their boyfriends at your face. I know you're at that stage in your life when you feel grown up and your hormones are at alert YET you can keep off from boys. Girls of your kind get used and abandorned. . .the experiences are bitter and if you don't want emotional trauma, leave that boy and every boy that comes your way until you've a career and you're financially alright and not you complaining about N1,000 probably given to him by his parents. Act wisely!

OlamiB: Is there no way i can change him?

SMH

never try to change a man..

If that man truly loved you, then he would find a way to get the fare to visit you.

thareta:
LoL!!! Give the gurl a break shez jez in a stupidity phase it will pass

lol

All I see is a girl ranting cos her BF does not buy her fancy things. That is really what is bothering her and not that he has never come to visit her.

@ op you attract the kind of person you are .


if you are a cheap ass girl,its certain you will attract an ego drunk broke ass guy,there is no 2 ways about it so the solution to your problem starts with dumping the boy first (i refuse to call him a man because he doesnt have the characteristics of a man from all indication)



after dumping him,fix your mind on things that will develop you in making you grow from being a girl with lack of self esteem to be a better and stronger woman.you are a teenager from the look of things,if you are in school,face your books,if you are learning a hand skill,face it and leave little,unserious minded boys alone.moreover buying a ring is not a sign of COMMITMENT or SERIOUSNESS.commitment and seriousness is more proven in character than in ring.aimoye ring by the way the era of using ring to get into a woman's thighs has passed gone are the days when all a man has to do to get into your vagina was buying a ring and putting into your finger so that you will believe he is serious.my dear,the the ring is just decoration.it is as good as earing,bangle or any piece of jwellry.




Tactics to get into vagynas change my dear


yours was RING and most likely sweet talking.meanwhile the anger is just a ploy to keep you under fear so he will keep on shinning your congo FREE OF CHARGE,UNHINDERED AND AT any time he likes thats another guise if you are not careful and you remain with him,he will step up to beating and comming to beg you with flowers and sweet crap with another sizzling night of OSHO FREE

Lemme assume ur post is 100% true.
Ignore him. Dump him.
Ladies are to be appreciated. If he doesnt treat u like a lady, then, he doesnt deserve u.

Mynd_44: All I see is a girl ranting cos her BF does not buy her fancy things. That is really what is bothering her and not that he has never come to visit her.

money has never been my problem with him. I was not raised with the mentality that i should collect money frm a guy cos m dating him. My parents are always there for me financially.

Hmmmmmmmn

Ehya,he must be her first luv But girl dat guy is taking ur luv for granted.u either face ur studies or u will end up wit sumtin u will regret

OlamiB: Is there no way i can change him?

I can give u some tips... but u have to be sure he loves u. I wish I could discuss with u outside Nairaland. I understand what u re going through pele. take heart..

Rdduite: How old r u? I think u should rather focus on ur studies than peddling with fire that'l consume ur future & dreams!

Somebody is asking u something bothering her,u'r here forming I too knw. Did she say she don't read her book?..
Na so u dey read,na him u still dey as u dey
I beg go mob river

OlamiB: Is there no way i can change him?

Seriously did you just ask that question? I'm forced to ask how old you are?

1st of all, you can't change a man and the only reason why you asked that question is because your "lust" that you called love has blinded you from seeing the reality.

My dear move on fast and drop that guy. He is a pest not a lover and you should stop wasting your time. If you were my sister I will spank you now! Don't be stuwpid

*yawns

Even during my time as a teen,I no mumu like this.Go and read your book since you not intelligent, and as well can't handle a relationship*
*jumps down from bed.

kayClt: Ehya,he must be her first luv But girl dat guy is taking ur luv for granted.u either face ur studies or u will end up wit sumtin u will regret

he is actually

OlamiB:
he is actually

sorry dear... just take it easy

rigormortis: YOU GUYS MET ON 2GO?.....................HOW ROMANTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Very romantic

Me I dnt undstn which one isdont listen 2 boys cz u r in ur tenage age nd cz u r stil in skkl.pls hw many of u went thru uni witout a bf. Who said tenagers can't find tru love. Op dat guy aint right for u period

OlamiB:
he is actually

awwwwwwww i undastand u dear but take it frm me,first luv don't always end up to be d best luv.