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How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by thankyou247(m): 2:03pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
I'm a cool guy but people especially ladies are seeing it as shyness. Although i feel shy somethings to approch ladies. Now i have made up my mind to STOP being that shy guy they used to know. How do i overcome My shyness please? i need una help ooo. [Please moderator, front page material] 1 Like |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Afam4eva(m): 2:18pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
You're contradicting yourself. Are you shy or is it just people thinking you're shy whereas you're cool. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by thankyou247(m): 2:28pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Afam4eva: You're contradicting yourself. Are you shy or is it just people thinking you're shy whereas you're cool. Okay, am shy and i need help. |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by badmeat(m): 2:49pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Socialise more!build your confidence by making the first move to make friends n introduce yourself |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Abbey2sam(m): 3:48pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Smoke Egbo and drink plenty alomo bitter It will help You can tenk me later 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by thankyou247(m): 4:55pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Abbey2sam: Smoke Egbo and drink plenty alomo bitter U never see guys wan dey smoke weed wey no fit dey toast women too. is no go area 4 me 1 Like |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Tuso(m): 5:20pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
thankyou247: I'm a cool guy but people especially ladies are seeing it as shyness. Although i feel shy somethings to approch ladies. Now i have made up my mind to STOP being that shy guy they used to know. How do i overcome My shyness please? The fact dat u r cool doesn't make u shy..dat is ur personality..dey see u shy cos u r not aggressive like desperate guys If u want 2 meet real ladies..don't change ur cool nature..i no most pretty ladies who find dis attractive Its only silly immature girls who see it as shyness |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Haywhymido(m): 5:46pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
bad meat: Socialise more!build your confidence by making the first move to make friends n introduce yourselfthumbs up my guy. Dat actually broke mine.Try to av d i don't care attitude abt hw people feel(gud or bad) abt u. Just live ur life lyk u r nt going to c tomorrow 1 Like |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Haywhymido(m): 5:52pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Tuso:b4 u c dat mature gal dat wil undastand n lyk u as u r ,ur black private hair go don turn grey. Most gals lyk bad guys. It only wen dey wnt to marry dey turn to cool guys. |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by eightsin(m): 6:07pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Abbey2sam: Smoke Egbo and drink plenty alomo bitter Hehe...this got me laffing... I'm nt too sure bout d weed bt d alomo part real die. |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 8:20pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
@op, last wk sunday was when i broke D jinx, if U see a girl/lady dat U like, just approach her, and say anything(nah wetin i do and i collect number), my own problem is i don't know what to say when i call her, i just ask how she's faring and daz all. Any help pls!!!!! |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by benkings(m): 8:26pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by benkings(m): 8:26pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
funi thread with some shy quys.....why shall i shy? |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by tobechi74: 9:03pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
A slap cures shyness |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Dsage1: 9:37pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Odedoyin25: @op, last wk sunday was when i broke D jinx, if U see a girl/lady dat U like, just approach her, and say anything(nah wetin i do and i collect number), my own problem is i don't know what to say when i call her, i just ask how she's faring and daz all. Any help pls!!!!! I quite understand where your problem lies, many guys has pass through this stage at one point in their lives. When speaking with a girl on phone,you always run out of words or simply don't know what to say after wellbeing blablabla? After you say 'hello' or whatever,if you call her at night, ask about her activities during the day or about her weekend if you call on sunday/monday. You can also tell her you see a girl look so much like her blablabla(just to keep the conversation going),then you may ask how she normally spend her times during the day or weekend and if she don't mind you taking her out during her leisure time. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
That was once my problem.. I attended a seminary(minor)..rili affected me.. Solution: jus try being funny for no reason somtymz..associate freely..try migglin wit both sexes nd trow out jist dat wil make evry1 talk... Through dis u know their thoughts nd interest.. Jus b free...u may end up bcomin a NOTICE-ME |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Odedoyin25: @op, last wk sunday was when i broke D jinx, if U see a girl/lady dat U like, just approach her, and say anything(nah wetin i do and i collect number), my own problem is i don't know what to say when i call her, i just ask how she's faring and daz all. Any help pls!!!!! 9ce joke.. |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
thankyou247: I'm a cool guy but people especially ladies are seeing it as shyness. Although i feel shy somethings to approch ladies. Now i have made up my mind to STOP being that shy guy they used to know. How do i overcome My shyness please? As a MALE, shyness is not normal. You came fully PIMPED. You are already strong, fearless, brave, courageous & daring. Your ancestors fought deadly battles & killed wild animals. You are the descendant of champions and warriors. You weren't born shy - you learnt the nonsense. You don't need many tips to stop being shy. Just stop mastúrbating. ONLY. Inside, you have the complete template on how to not be shy & attract chics. You have that 'skill' on lock-down. Your ancestors from millions of years ago till now were the best seducers, the most confident, the boldest and the fittest marrafakers (genetic). They were not shy and timid - so you cannot not be like them. Not masturbáting and the resultant konji will bring your dormant ANIMAL DRIVES to the fore...and shut down the 'logical' part of your brain responsible your shyness. The same thing alcohol does (but not recommended). Not masturbáting will resurrect these sleeping abilities that you already 100% possess. It skyrockets your confidence, corrects your body-language, fixes your eye-contact and resurrects your natural aggression. Dials your SUB-COMMUNICATION and puts your animal magnetism on turbo - the things that get the girls in the first place. Have you ever seen a drunk but shy guy? Never happens. How about hórny and shy? Never happens too. You need to see a hórny he-goat. He is not thinking "look at that she-goat, am shy, how do i approach her?" NO! He's thinking, "Uhmmm yummmy! look at that hot she goat!", "she's going to have my babies", "I have to tap that a**!" He has an urgent message in his testes and he will climb a fence to deliver it, if need be. He is 100% ready to pass through a battle front or walk through the desert. In that state of reproductive urgency where is shyness going to come from? You can abstain for a week or two first. The results should convince you to fully quit. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nomski0(f): 11:54pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
kizmartino: That was once my problem.. Wow. What made you leave |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 12:05am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Try and be confident. Shyness can be endearing, but don't let it get the best of you. It's much better to be confident. Walk tall, stand tall; fear no one. |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by switdil(f): 12:12am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Use bra to cover ur face when u see a lady Dat should do |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 11:06am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Nomski0: cux i wanted to marry yuh *jux kidin* *dnt get me wrong* t'was a minor.seminary(azin..secondary sch stuff) bck @thread...o.p b ur sef |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Omolola1(f): 11:21am On Oct 09, 2013 |
feel free |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
kizmartino:you really think dat i'm joking? I swear i'm damn serious. |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
D sage:thumbs up man, i go try dis ur cheat when nxt i call her |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by thankyou247(m): 1:46pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
guys i dey thank una ooo, i really dey get help now and i believe i overcome it as quick as possible. i know lots of you here hav pass that shyness level, but make una at least help other guys like us get to ur level, so all those [toilet yash] ladies no go dey use us dey form. Ones again, thankyou247. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Odedoyin25: thumbs up man, i go try dis ur cheat when nxt i call her seriosly,u makin me go.. anytin u do..dnt 4get to b ursef..b real...let her love u 4who u are..wedar shy or not.. Jux b ursef.. |
Re: How Do I STOP Being That Shy Guy? by djeezy(m): 2:55pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Richfella:Hahaha, very hilarious. You made good sense, I hope he adheres to your post but not strictu sensu. @Op, just let go of that self consciousness and self defeating thoughts like "hope am gonna impress her" oh I'm not looking too good" bla bla bla. Turn on that Trey songz charm and be a man. Don't be afraid of failing, if a girl turns you down, it shows you a way that won't work and that is good. It gives you experience. Always keep the conversation going by talking about the day or things she'd be interested in. And Quit talking about education and gospel shits, time to start talking dirty to them. |
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