mu2sa2: l am 100% convinced that any man who finds himself in a situation where sexual thoughts come over him on the sight of his daughter is mentally sick.

Afam4eva: Make your friend dey there dey advertise her b00bs and curves for her father and hope that since he's biologically related to you, there's no way he will try anything. Conji is no respecter of persons and human beings were not explicitly created not to feel sexually attracted to people they're related to. That's why people have to know where to dray the line. The reason why your friend's father has started having sexual feelings for your friend is because he has seen too much and the thing has torched his brain and even if his head tries to control those feelings, that 1diot between his leg won't allow that. Let her just draw thw line chikena.

Chregor: The man involved is her dad,right?
Then she's got to confront him first furiously to register her displeasure at the incidence as well as threatening to involve mum, if she ever senses such advances.
This is a clear case of incest.
I hope it's real, because , it's too serious for a joke#swinging_my_head_@_the_folly_dat_engulfs_the_world

kattyagbagidi: Thinking....... Prayers and also if posible she shd stay off house may b with family members or hostel. chai. End time dad.

Ruq: God pls control this konji, no matter how attractive once its blood i can't just imagine maybe when man was young and without profound thought you wouldn't mind but with reason, intuition and other fuckin reasons your brain tells you NO. But we're in a world where they can make anything seem normal.

But this is your daughter Na!!!!.

Zikdik: Y'all self-righteous peeps,eh? Some teenage bosoms na killer (esp. the big,tender,fresh,firm and juicy-looking ones). Wetin I dey talk sef? Let's get serious.
Puberty comes with self-consciousness. Most teenage girls can't bear to look at their n.udity (as they have been taught from childhood that doing so is dirty), talkless of allowing others do so. What kind of a teenage girls bares her bosoms without a "bra" in the presence of a grown up male(forget the dad factor) ?
Also,wetin she find go the man room? "slept off in her dad's room" (my guess,probably nude) sounds very dodgy to me. Abi,na one room apartment dem they stay? Was she drugged or something? What was she doing there that made her fall asleep and prevented her from making her way to her room?
Ok.Advice.
1) Your dada is human. If you are endowed,save that for the guys out there. You don't have to rub it in on the poor,old man.

2) Look for an elderly member of your dad's family that is RELATIVELY sensible and you can RELATIVELY trust. Don't tell your mum for now. You might wreck a union that has lasted two decades(maybe more).

As an afterthought,

3) Come to me ~winks~. Let's examine those features that would incite incest in a man for his own daughter.

fumisko: am so confused on how to advice my best friend (shes abt 19). shes been looking down for some weeks now and has been trying to cover up yesterday i walked into her room and found her bed soaked with tears. she had to open up.

I was so lost that i had no words to tell her. her story: shes very close to her dad since she can remember and as she grew up he could enter to use the toilet and he can still enter her room while shes dressing, undressing like its no big deal and shes got the best dad in the world i can say so cause i know him(hes so caring and all that).

According to her she sometimes sleep off in her dad's room like maybe they were jisting and it becomes so late and she is so sleepy. about two years ago she said she started noticing her father would give her longer hugs than usual or smack her bombom playfully when shes passing by or look at her burst like when she isnt wearing a bra at home maybe at night and that his hand would rest on her bosom if he wanted to hug her like if he came back from work. but she dint feel anything was wrong, she thought since they were close it wasn't any big deal.besides its her dad. but about 2 months ago she slept off in her dad's room one night and woke up from someone touching her and she realized it was him. she said she had to remind him over 9 times pleading that it was wrong before his brain could calm his desires at that point in time. he later apologized and told her he would never hurt her and had already started seeing a psychologist about his attraction to her. he also told her to keep it away from his wife so their blissful home can remain blissful. my question.

Is it actually normal for some men to get attracted to their growing teenage daughters?

Secondly whats her behavior towards him meant to be like? is it that he needs help and she should see it as such or he needs to be dealt with?
also she wants to know how she can try to behave normal like it never happened since he has started seeking help over the unlawful desire.

How can she stop him from wanting her and what if she actually gets Molested? what should she do? i know her mum knows they are so close but expecting such from him is unbelievable. it sounded like she was lying to me because that guy seems too good. but its true.

how can i help?

alutacontinua: I GIVVUP ON THAT ORGAN CALLED P*ENIS!!!
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alutacontinua: I GIVVUP ON THAT ORGAN CALLED P*ENIS!!!
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alutacontinua: I GIVVUP ON THAT ORGAN CALLED P*ENIS!!!
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fumisko: am so confused on how to advice my best friend (shes abt 19). shes been looking down for some weeks now and has been trying to cover up yesterday i walked into her room and found her bed soaked with tears. she had to open up.

I was so lost that i had no words to tell her. her story: shes very close to her dad since she can remember and as she grew up he could enter to use the toilet and he can still enter her room while shes dressing, undressing like its no big deal and shes got the best dad in the world i can say so cause i know him(hes so caring and all that).

According to her she sometimes sleep off in her dad's room like maybe they were jisting and it becomes so late and she is so sleepy. about two years ago she said she started noticing her father would give her longer hugs than usual or smack her bombom playfully when shes passing by or look at her burst like when she isnt wearing a bra at home maybe at night and that his hand would rest on her bosom if he wanted to hug her like if he came back from work. but she dint feel anything was wrong, she thought since they were close it wasn't any big deal.besides its her dad. but about 2 months ago she slept off in her dad's room one night and woke up from someone touching her and she realized it was him. she said she had to remind him over 9 times pleading that it was wrong before his brain could calm his desires at that point in time. he later apologized and told her he would never hurt her and had already started seeing a psychologist about his attraction to her. he also told her to keep it away from his wife so their blissful home can remain blissful. my question.

Is it actually normal for some men to get attracted to their growing teenage daughters?

Secondly whats her behavior towards him meant to be like? is it that he needs help and she should see it as such or he needs to be dealt with?
also she wants to know how she can try to behave normal like it never happened since he has started seeking help over the unlawful desire.

How can she stop him from wanting her and what if she actually gets Molested? what should she do? i know her mum knows they are so close but expecting such from him is unbelievable. it sounded like she was lying to me because that guy seems too good. but its true.

how can i help?

Phder: Ok. 19yo sleeping in her dad's room is really weird. Can't remember that last time I hugged my dad/mum sef... It's a busy life, stop being the parents pet and get busy with your life.

vislabraye:

See ur advise ?? So her father is human abi ? If ur sister sleeps on ur bed will U feel something similar ?
Don't give dat kind of advice Oh.

patrickdarlins: may d lor show u his mercy.....fire allover ur body...dat demon dats speaking tru u.....

modele2: I dont understand why people fail to apply simple details of modesty and separation. Why should she be sleeping in her dads room at that age? Why should he even come into her room anyhow? Why should she be scantly dressed in the house? After inviting the devil we start shouting.

When i was unmarried my father NEVER once came into my room, he calls me from far. Those are little details of modesty and respect for the other person. At an age i would not even allow my husband bathe my daughter, infact the guy would not even agree sef......Please she should use common sence and apply modesty with her dealings with her father. No more night gists, no more entering of room e.t.c. Next time she should give him a dirty slap when he becomes fisky.

maasoap: Islam has stated it specifically in the holy Qur'an how fathers should related to their daughters right from the childhood to adulthood. May be they are not Muslims or the father doesn't follow the dictates of the holy Qur'an. Thank God I'm a Muslim.