McLincolnGuzit: Am just like ur guy......though my pee is that am introvert i dnt know how to pet ladies!

Finegrl: Hi evry1. Am Ibukun by name. I nd ma bf av been dating 4 mor dan a year nw. Bt d problem i av wit hm is dat he doesnt knw hw 2 pet a gal. He shout ova little tinz, alwaz monitoring ma movement. Talkz to me anyhw witout respect. He is too hot tempered. D most anoying tin abt hm is dat he alwaz cal me by ma name. I expect hm 2 gve me a pet name. Bt weneva i tel hm,he wil bounce on me nd start shouting. He mkes me cry alwaz. Bt[b] one tin i love abt him is dat i dont lack anytin. Weneva i ask hm 4 money or anytin, he provides it 4 me.[/b] I dnt wanna leave hm coz i love hm xo much nd i knw he loves me too. D only problem is dat he doesnt knw hw 2 pet me. I guess daht ws d way he ws brought up. Plz i nid ur advice. Wat do u tink i can do 2 change hm? Am i 2 teach hm or wat? D problem is dat he doesnt listen 2 me. Am alwaz wrong weneva i say sumtin. He is d only persn dat is right. He claims 2 knw evrytin nd alwaz prove me wrng. Plz hlp #sad

raydatluvs: U don't lack anytin now why try changing him.pple come in packages and dats his!accept it dat way

Jamey Maxwell: Datz how some pipo are. They don't know how to get romantic at all.
I don't fink bekauz he provides moni for yhu datz y u shud love him.
Love hz to bii much more dan dt
But hw kan he be making a Fine Gurl like yhu cry nah.

Khalessi: Hmmmm if he doesn't know how to pet a girl then change to dog or cat

Lovexme:

The highlighted part is the only reason you love him I reckon

Olly barbie219: R u sure u rily luv him? Or u jst lyk d fact dat he provides ur every need?....tink again sis!

dahmie2013: Na wa o! Women&money sha! Nw he gives u money, d problem is pet name chaiii! But remember dere's no perfect man o! U can't have ur cake, eat it & xpect 2 have it as a snack later. Isorite!

JoktyJohn: If Zone A is this hard then Zone B will be..? It will be shrewd to leave him and if you think you can cope z all about your heart choice.

bad meat: Well,he gives u money!he doesn't pet u,,are u not Luckydo you know hw many women that needs a man dat can't get one?abegiiii

Khalessi: Hmmmm if he doesn't know how to pet a girl then change to dog or cat

Lol......you'd never disappoint. Khalessi.


@OP.......i dont think he values you, thats why he shouts at you. Maybe you've completely submitted yourself to him and turned into a yes-sir kinda of girl. Make yourself scarce, thats the solution. Make him value you, if he wants to leave you......dump him first to preserve your dignity. #teamPlayer.

Nomski0:
if he wants to leave you......dump him first to preserve your dignity.

Lovexme:

The highlighted part is the only reason you love him I reckon

Nomski0:
Lol......you'd never disappoint. Khalessi.


@OP.......i dont think he values you, thats why he shouts at you. Maybe you've completely submitted yourself to him and turned into a yes-sir kinda of girl. Make yourself scarce, thats the solution. Make him value you, if he wants to leave you......dump him first to preserve your dignity. #teamPlayer.

Manweysabi: You're attracted to him becos of money... That's not love!

Cos, if he stops spending for you... Your supposed love for him will fly out of the window!
Be sincere with yourself!

Take a break from the relationship... Not a long one sha.

Cos, they say 'absence makes the heart grow fonder. But too much absence makes the heart go wander'.

Cykik: dats a lie. If she didnt love hm,she woudnt open dis topic 2get help nida wud she cry. She wud even yell bak at hm wen he yells at ha. Babe jst tel ur guy dat u dnt lyk d way hes treatn u nd if he nags walk away.if he kums bak begn for lyk 5tyms he's urs bt if he dosnt,jst knw dat u've bin wastin ur precious tym.