Ladies,have you ever been in a situation whereby you wanted a guy and the guy is not making any effort to know you more,,,,,,i want to know how girls feel in this situation,,,,Will the girl lose interest and start hating the guy I need contributions.THANKS.

Odikwa risky

hate the guy? no.
lose interest? maybe

Tabelachizza: Odikwa risky

lolz........why cant she decide to try harder or approach d guy instead coz they dnt talk to each oda as much.

gree-die:
hate the guy? no.
lose interest? maybe

hmm,,,,dat means afta she dn give up on d guy,if he later shw interest,her interest in him can be resuscitated abi

Sure, it happens to evrione, some more dan others, u lose interest with time.

didicold: Sure, it happens to evrione, some more dan others, u lose interest with time.

thanx,,,,buh can d interest cum back afta it has been lost?

@poster,how do feel when you have a mad crush on a celebrity whom you know will never meet in person.....do the math and apply the answer to that of the female folks

I've found that having a crush on someone is sometimes more satisfying than actually being with the person. I wouldn't hate the guy, just assume it's better that we weren't together.

Prince adebayo: hmm,,,,dat means afta she dn give up on d guy,if he later shw interest,her interest in him can be resuscitated abi

Never try to awaken a lost interest in a girl. You will end up putting too much effort and believe me, you won't like it.

Best leave her alone. And move on.

Moving on is easy.

Yes, but only if u let it. D person's lack of interest usually feels like a rejection of ur person hence u av emotional barriers in place. Any rekindling of interest will probably take a very strong and dogged move on d other party's end, because ur conditioned reflex would be rejection. ...i think

Prince adebayo: thanx,,,,buh can d interest cum back afta it has been lost?

aaronson: @poster,how do feel when you have a mad crush on a celebrity whom you know will never meet in person.....do the math and apply the answer to that of the female folks

i now undastand Bro,,,,,thanx

didicold: Yes, but only if u let it. D person's lack of interest usually feels like a rejection of ur person hence u av emotional barriers in place. Any rekindling of interest will probably take a very strong and dogged move on d other party's end, because ur conditioned reflex would be rejection. ...i think

i nw get it,,,,,,thanx a lot ma'am.

lomaxx:


Never try to awaken a lost interest in a girl. You will end up putting too much effort and believe me, you won't like it.

Best leave her alone. And move on.

Moving on is easy.

Dr Lomaxx,,,i hail you o,,,,,thanx

LoveAmaka88:
I've found that having a crush on someone is sometimes more satisfying than actually being with the person. I wouldn't hate the guy, just assume it's better that we weren't together.

nice one,,ma'am,,,,having crush on sum1 is sweet biko

Wow!

Feeling of rejection is the toughest emotion most humans (especially women) can find themselves in. Hence the reason most girls will rather die than ask a guy out.

Unfortunately, the more one tries to show disinterest in a. lady...the more interesting and attractive she finds you.

@Nuzo,i agree wit u but i tink it depends on d girl,wen u shw disinterest,sum girls wil lyk u more while sum wil be losing interest little by little,same tin wit jealousy too,wen u make girls jealous,she may lyk u more or she starts hating u.

As in people actually took these question serious to deserve comments
As in I can't believe what am reading
As in there is a problem in d society for anyone to tink dis question deserves answer
As in everyone sucks her excluding me.....

Shock him - tell him how you feel, in a polite and matured manner.

Wallade: Shock him - tell him how you feel, in a polite and matured manner.

telling him wud just make tinz worst, abi no be guys? he'll start acting like a king...tink its best to av a crush nd kip d crush within ursef