Hi all. I am a young lady turning 25. I have been single for almost three years now, after breaking up with my ex.Within these years of been single not a single guy approached me or asked me out. I am not ugly and i do dress well. I am very down to earth person, humble and i like socialising alot. I just cant seems to understand why men wont ask me out. Even if a guy ask for my numbers they will not call me. Am i cursed or what ?

Darlin, ur not cursed . Tk your mind off it. Try improve on your persona.be happy and cheerful, pray always. You will give a testimony soon

Mehn!! Your ex don swear for you..maybe

Just be patient, you'll eat the fattest bone.

try improve on ur character, be a good woman and pray against any negative spiritual stigma.

It depends on you,what you do,your environment e.t.c.
For instance,if you stay on a street like mine,the chances of someone asking you out is very slim. I've been here for a couple of months and the only ones who have asked me out, i met when i went to barb but outside the street -at work,in school- they roll in.
Where do you work? That too.

Please,do not carry this on your head lest you be taken advantage of.
Above all,work on yourself.

Na Spirit husband o!!! I recommend dry fast for u, 6-6 for 625 days.

Take your mind off it babe, it is normal. Sometime you could go for more than 10 years at a stretch without being asked out. Even you could be among those that will have to wait till old age before being asked out. It is normal and there is nothing wrong with you.

If u see a guy dt u lyk, ask him out yourself!
Don't dwell on people nt asking u out, It's nt evryday dt guys walk up to you, most especially when u don't portray urself as a prostitute! It might also depend on ur routine, it probably doesn't bring u in contact with lots of single guys. Just tale ur mind off it nd make urself a better person! Dat's all!

tpacalipse: Even you could be among those that will have to wait till old age before being asked out. It is normal and there is nothing wrong with you.

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Vivly: ?

In a way, this is like a come-and-get-me message, but hey!, no details or even a picture?
C'mon the world is too advanced for that.
Do the needful, am sure you will get a barrage of calls from NL dudes.

Dear u aint cUrsed and don't ever initiate such thoughts towards ya self, @ least you are still alive which is a major factor and @ 25yrs u still have lots of chances, u just need to get close to God, love ur self and definitely the right men will come @ the right time! Goodluck..

Getting guys 2 ask u out isn't jst abt beauty and dressing,itz abt aw well u r able 2 communicate wif them,try 2 be more friendly wen i say more friendly i don't mean u sud smile at every guy u c o...jst be cool

How we wan take know u are pretty,
e b like say OP dey use us play 4 here?

But on a serious note smallies no dey gree 4 me again,
e b like say iam loosing the touch of my sweetmouth

To think I am still single. Wahala dey o

lol
Op!nothing wrng wit u at all!jst be calm!
Understand dat u ar nt d only 1 tryng to ehm?
I knw a lot of ladies/boys/men wu ar 30_37 wu ar single
+jst kep ur faith in God intact
+learn hw to mak frnds in d rit envinnmt,it wi5 help

I thoght am d only one expriencing such. But I ve embraced life like never before, I try to catch my fun to d fulliest. So my dear be urself d right guy will surely come sooner tha expected.

3yrs !
2 things are involved. Your village people at work, or u have built a wall around ur self.

Check well, you need to look approachable b4 u can be approached. There is a difference btw nt being in a relationshp and not being approached at all.

Guys ask girls out, dem go complain.
Guys no ask girls out, dem go complain.

Zeebah23: It depends on you,what you do,your environment e.t.c.
For instance,if you stay on a street like mine,the chances of someone asking you out is very slim. I've been here for a couple of months and the only ones who have asked me out, i met when i went to barb but outside the street -at work,in school- they roll in.
Where do you work? That too.

Please,do not carry this on your head lest you be taken advantage of.
Above all,work on yourself.

in addition to this,it also depends on the kind of lifestyle you are living,it will be difficult for a young guy who is trekking to say hi to a lady who is driving by him,rich girls put guys off at times because of their self ego,and if you are the rich type,you will always be indoor,i'm sure you don't expect a stranger to come knocking on your door all in the name of asking you out.Just try and humble yourself in any social gathering you find yourself,and as posted earlier by someone,try and upload your picture,who knows,someone here might even be interested in you.

But OP are u ugly

tpacalipse: Take your mind off it babe, it is normal. Sometime you could go for more than 10 years at a stretch without being asked out. Even you could be among those that will have to wait till old age before being asked out. It is normal and there is nothing wrong with you.

Pls what's this one saying?

Dear, smile more when walking on the street,at work or school just smile more. Try to have a relaxed air around yourself and just keep being your wonderful self don't compare yourself with any of your friends or whoever, do not throw yourself at men at the same time don't reduce yourself to be less,you can get their attention by starting conversations with them etc don't settle for less and sooner than you think your wonderful man will show up.

Lickme: Hi all. I am a young lady turning 25. I have been single for almost three years now, after breaking up with my ex.Within these years of been single not a single guy approached me or asked me out. I am not ugly and i do dress well. I am very down to earth person, humble and i like socialising alot. I just cant seems to understand why men wont ask me out. Even if a guy ask for my numbers they will not call me. Am i cursed or what ?

you're not caused. The right person is on his way

Lickme: Hi all. I am a young lady turning 25. I have been single for almost three years now, after breaking up with my ex.Within these years of been single not a single guy approached me or asked me out. I am not ugly and i do dress well. I am very down to earth person, humble and i like socialising alot. I just cant seems to understand why men wont ask me out. Even if a guy ask for my numbers they will not call me. Am i cursed or what ?

you are not caused. The right person is on his way

I picture a lady that isn't really humble, I may be wrong. I think you are also not very accessible, maybe due to your residential area and nature of your job/school environment. Make yourself humble, polite, available and they will come.

My dear something is definitely wrong did you say 3yrs Why am I finding this hard to believe As a girl guys ought to compliment, smile, stare, ask you out on dates and finally ask for more. It's normal for every girl to have toasters and it's nt just about looks dear, so don't feel insecure for whatever reason or get yourself worked up, I personally believe there's always that someone special one out there for everyone regardless of their looks and personality. More so you must realise that love starts from loving yourself, hence you need to enjoy every bit of being yourself and never dual on a guy as a source of your happiness, sometimes love comes when you least expect. But if you are really worried then you have a little home work to do in order for you to start getting noticed. Have you considered changing environment or if you are the indoor type get a hobby hang out often, who knows that special one might spot you, have you considered changing your wardrobe dress cute and decent and it would work wonders,make yourself approachable eg smile often, be polite, don't be to choosy, reaccess the kind of people you keep as friends, be able to keep an interesting conversation going. Remember you must not change your personality completely but you have to enhance your personality and make it more appealing and irresistible. Believe me that special one Is just around the corner. Identify your selling point or points and use it to your advantage. Cheers!!!

what was the cause of the breakup? Was it your fault? When you were dating your boyfriend, was he a diabolical perosn? I hope say not be your boyfriend do you dis tin *thinkingoutloud*

I am sure this OP must have had a long history of been a snob or a sociopath, and so no sane guy dares toast her. She fit don ''cast'' for her area o!.

@Lickme, i'd advice u change environment, cos if by any chance u make friends with any guy in ur area (platonic), and ask him what he thinks about u, i am sure he will tell u the names guys in ur hood call u, either ''shakara-babe'', or even ''she-monster''......Try me!!!

tpacalipse: Take your mind off it babe, it is normal. Sometime you could go for more than 10 years at a stretch without being asked out. Even you could be among those that will have to wait till old age before being asked out. It is normal and there is nothing wrong with you.

lrguru: I am sure this OP must have had a long history of been a snob or a sociopath, and so no sane guy dares toast
her. She fit don ''cast'' for her area o!.

@Lickme, i'd advice u change environment, cos if by any chance u make friends with any guy in ur area (platonic), and ask him what he thinks about u, i am sure he will tell u the names guys in ur hood call u, either ''shakara-babe'', or even ''she-monster''.
.....Try me!!!

Pls do us all a favour, look up the meaning of 'sociopath' . Really don't think that word applies to the op.

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Pls do us all a favour, look up the meaning of 'sociopath' . Really don't think that word applies to the op.

''ode'' why not look that up urself. Do u know if she doesn't relate well with people in her area, or cares less about other people's feeling.

Get a job son, and stop been the OP's shaperone, or her mouth piece

read this:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Sociopath