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| Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 12:10pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
It was a guys afternoon out and as the 7% vol of our drinks kicked in, the most vocal of us asked a straight question.... He said " did u guys know my wife's drive has almost disappeared after having her first child? S»x life has reduced drastically even with the kid becoming more independent!". We exchanged glances and two others admitted they share the same opinion with him. All of us at the table had kids between 8 months and 15 months. I smiled weakly but did not say anything. But it is same with me too. A once galloping stallion has suddenly turned into a hibernating mama bear. 2 Likes |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by pickabeau1: 12:23pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Long time Think it has to do with the routine of child rearing A getaway does the trick at times 1 Like |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by luvablesam(m): 12:26pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Guys shld never discuss their sex life after or even before marriage in public.no wife really would like to hear her bedroom affairs from a stranger. its not cool..dat apart sexlife after childbirth is always an issue,people av reasons y sex isn't just appealing anymore,the best solution I tink is talk talk n talk about ur sex needs n how to get things back on track my opinion 4 Likes |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by luvablesam(m): 12:28pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1: Long time child rearing  ? when did children ever become animals?1 Like |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
The hustle and bustle of the home front can sap one of life' s precious energy. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 12:59pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1: Long timeHi. I tot the feeling of being overwhelmed will fade when the kid starts seeing the mother's br3st as toy. Lol 1 Like |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 1:02pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
byvan: The hustle and bustle of the home front can sap one of life' s precious energy.You right by-V. It is understandable from a loving husband's point of view . But I pity the women who have impatient brutes for husby. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 1:08pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
@luvable sam. Like u said, opinion is yours. It's just that some are more open minded than others. Thanks. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
A getaway really always does the trick like Pickabeau said,at least learning the act of yielding even when you don't have the drive also helps,most times you catch the bug while at it  .There will be less frustrated husbands if women are more willing to just yield.1 Like |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Kanwulia: 1:37pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Very natural and I love it! I can actually look at a man and forget he has a PEHNIS! Shakara don h-end! Gooooood riddance!!! The benefits are numerous.  Sleeping on my own bed without a man in it is soooooooooooo refreshing!!!! I can only get in bed with a guy for ONLY A LOT OF MONEY. Can't remember the last time I got HORRRRRRRNY without thinking real harrrrrrrrrrrrd about it!!! I can actually get dressed to look good for MYSELF without thinking of a MAN!!! It reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally feels good!!!! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAL GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD!!!! 4 Likes |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by pickabeau1: 1:44pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Maybe you should check a dico Lol luvable sam: |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by pickabeau1: 1:46pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
At times it does not get back A getaway does it jeffizy: |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by dayokanu(m): 2:44pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Na wa ooo |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
It's called a dry spell . . . It happens to even the best of us especially with the first pregnancy. The trauma of what you went through in the labour room, the stress of taking care of an infant for the very first time, the assorted hormones dancing azonto with your system . . . . the reasons for it are endless.  But that is not an excuse . . . . Sometimes women forget that 60% for why their man is marrying them is because of the great sex he is looking forward to experiencing for the rest of his life The good news is that it won't last . . . Sooner or later she's going to get her groove back and you'll be the one wondering what happened. Just hang in there . . . and try to make sex a lil bit more appealing for her. 3 Likes |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Lol hibernating mama bear. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by ajasbaba(m): 3:49pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
luvable sam: yesterday. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 4:25pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Kanwulia:But for how long? Except you are closer to MEN o PAUSE . 3 Likes |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 4:27pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
@ujujoan. True Words! Quite expository. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by soulglo: 4:35pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
She'll get it back. It is normal. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Les: 5:18pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1: At times it does not get backwhat's a gateway?? |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
if her libido is not where she kept it, then someone must have stolen it, report the case to the nearest police station. 1 Like |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by luvablesam(m): 5:23pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1: Maybe you should check a dico I know it discribes caring for children or animals, dude....I just prefare the use of a softer word to describe what u wanted to |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by DoffMan2: 5:41pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Kanwulia: Very natural and I love it! I think your's might be menopause tinz. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by pickabeau1: 6:04pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
luvable sam:OK. No problem |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by pickabeau1: 6:05pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Les: what's a gateway?? Get away like a trip to obudu |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Les: 7:15pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1:it is not well, google will always be my friend.  |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by pickabeau1: 7:16pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Les: it is not well, google will always be my friend. I don't get u bro |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 7:39pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
I imagine if it was the man that lost his appetite for undercover work. The woman may likely sit with her friends and the topic will be... is he seeing another woman? . The funny thing about men & women is that we usually see things differently. 1 Like |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by RoyalRoy(m): 7:41pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Jeffizzy.....long time o. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by jeffizy(m): 7:53pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Royal Roy: Jeffizzy.....long time o.Royal Mod. |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Les: 8:02pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1:I thought you were joking with your reply to cattle ranch... How the hell is that supposed to bring back libido... |
| Re: Where Did Her Libido Go? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
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