I was going to open a thread like this.
The truth is that for most men getting a girl they admire is an ego thing.especially when their friends know they've been asking her out.
They just won't accept defeat.
Ogugua you're talking about one week.haven't you ever Come across those ones that don't give up even after one or two years of 'toasting' you.
Only god knows how many times I've heard " I'll give you anything you want"

Any unscrupulous babe wouldn't mind using such opportunites to milk the desperate dudes.

Meanwhile the broke dudes still have girls who will die for them.aren't they Nigerian babes?

The simple solution guys is to leave any girl who isn't interested in you alone.the more you 'force' her.she might succumb to ur pressure.chop ur money
And still leave you for Audu the vulcanizer.

^^^ of course. I, yourself, and many women can start a diary on such. It can be tiring. Toys and material things are for infants. Some women just want a man who will give them attention, which is priceless.

constance500: Nd dis is cumin frm a guy....are u mad Eleyi ti jonz o

SFW? That means you know the truth but ur shying away frm it. OP is right.......... #iJoshy

It has always puzzled me why guys don't bother that a girl likes them just because of money.

^^^ some are happy they're reaping the benefits, even if it's short-lived.

lorretta u: I was going to open a thread like this.
The truth is that for most men getting a girl they admire is an ego thing.especially when their friends know they've been asking her out.
They just won't accept defeat.
Ogugua you're talking about one week.haven't you ever Come across those ones that don't give up even after one or two years of 'toasting' you.
Only god knows how many times I've heard " I'll give you anything you want"

Any unscrupulous babe wouldn't mind using such opportunites to milk the desperate dudes.

Meanwhile the broke dudes still have girls who will die for them.aren't they Nigerian babes?

The simple solution guys is to leave any girl who isn't interested in you alone.the more you 'force' her.she might succumb to ur pressure.chop ur money
And still leave you for Audu the vulcanizer.

Alright baby, you are ''overhyping'' thaht

ogugua88: ^^^ some are happy they're reaping the benefits, even if it's short-lived.

What are the benefits? It's like sleeping with a "prostitute".

carefreewannabe: What are the benefits? It's like sleeping with a "prostitute".

It is, but some really don't care. As long as they got what they wanted, then all is good. Some guys really have no shame lol. It takes two to tango though.

Danhumprey: *show him my palm* ask my hand.

WackyJ1: Op is a traitor...

WackyJ1: Op is a traitor...

ogugua88: There's this guy that asked me out 7 times in 24 hours just this weekend. He was literally begging to take me out for dinner, movies, etc., and I kept refusing him because I'm sweet and don't use people. The writing was all over the wall, and this guy was saying "PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE I LIKE YOU". If I'm lying, may lightning strike me dead.

I certainly don't condone girls taking advantage of mumus such men, but the truth is that some guys need to wise up. I later explained to una colleague, who's got a lucrative job by the way, that that's absolutely no way to approach a stranger. Because I'm nice doesn't mean the next girl he begs won't wipe his account dry.

Ur sensible n U have a beautiful heart!
#ur conscience dey talk to U#

DonCrust:


Oh yea? You're consoling yourself after spending your savings on a girl that care-less about you, keep it up dude!
If its the NL ladies you just want to impress, I'm sorry for you. Do you know why? You can NEVER see the pant of any of them.

why are you hating The op is right, no girl forcefully squeeze money out of a man's pocket. Most of them give hoping for something in return, but the smart girls as op rightly stated won't bulge at all.

If i talk nw,na insultive post go make dis thread reach page 20...make i jst dey luk

Let's say the truth o. Both guys n girls have their own bad parts. If a 'smart' girls meets d master of the game itself, she'll turn foolish. Na who wise pass smart, whether girl or guy.

IAMBREEZY: Op u wrong even if they like you they will still drain your pocket i don't know where you are getting your fact from...

too bad you've been meeting the wrong set of girls, Pele I sympathise with you, perhaps you're lacking in the looks and style department that you have to compensate with money, I stand to be corrected if am wrong, Pele o

IAMBREEZY: Op u wrong even if they like you they will still drain your pocket i don't know where you are getting your fact from...

too bad you've been meeting the wrong set of girls, Pele I sympathise with you, perhaps you're lacking in the looks and style department that you have to compensate with money, I stand to be corrected if am wrong, Pele o

Harbosede02: If i talk nw,na insultive post go make dis thread reach page 20...make i jst dey luk

you better talk and lets get this over with. #iJoshy

That's jst d 'fact' stop attackn d op abeq! Som guyz jst refuse 2 read d handwriting on d wall,a gurl tells a guy no,treats hm like crap...n he stil persists,swearing to do wateva it takes jst 2get a chance...den wen she plays hm,he turns around 2 call her names......wen a gurl truly luvs u,she hardly demands anything#Fact#......(imagine a guy asking me wat he has 2 do to make me luv hm,my answer was simple....'U cant do anything...it comes naturally! N he goes like..nooo dere has to be somthing,wat dd oda guyz do to get u to love dem....my last reply was jst...Smh!

Strauskhan1: Alright baby, you are ''overhyping'' thaht

I can swear on my life.(which happens to be the most important thing I have now)

That in my book of toasters I've a guy who has been asking Me out for more than 8years now.
He started when I was still in secondary school.still won't give up until now.

Do I go into those ones I met when I first went for nysc camp?I'm done serving for months now.add it to the one year I spent there.tell me if I'm wrong

Or the ones I met while in school.
That won't stop the texting and calling and begging
Sweetie you don't wanna go into that boring issue.

Suffice is to say that men are relentless pursuers when its pucci or money they are chasing.

And some women take advantage of that.

austushi1: You are foolish; including ur male supporters! Y u no wan get brain? Eh? Just tell me why u choose to use ur yansh, instead of ur brain? If the girl know say she no like me, y she no tell me, make jejeli waka? Y she go dey chop my money? No girl go ever chop my money, make I no Zap her!

Na ur type dem dey chop wella! If ur doing dis to get a girl here, ur on Lonnnngggggg tin!

Ram!

U see ur life??! No! R u seeing ur life
B askin y she no tell u, ur brain press pause abi dat u can't knw wen smone likes u or not.
If she likes u or not u'l knw unless u choose z2 b blind 2 d fact dt she doesn't like u...

Na ur type dem dey chop use clean mouth. Come here n b formin don jazzy. No b only zap

rokiatu:

missy, seems you have a bank filled with .gif picz



@op, you are even worse than the nairalanders that come here to complain bout the girls, atleast they are making that crucial mistake on generalising on the 'right team'.

You just come across as a guy that wants the ladies' attention/approval at the expense of degrading yourself and being despised by your brothers. By generalising, you cover up the fact that SOME ladies also just wanna 'chop and clean mouth' while painting ALL guys as villians...would have expected this from a heart-broken lady but you fall hand sha.


Hope it was worth it and you gained access to some female nairalanders consiousness

Strauskhan1: you better talk and lets get this over with. #iJoshy

huh??did u say get dis ova wit??*laffs scornfully and eyes im*

carefreewannabe: It has always puzzled me why guys don't bother that a girl likes them just because of money.

exactly.
They believe get money and the girls will come.

ogugua88: ^^^ some are happy they're reaping the benefits, even if it's short-lived.

most guys only care about sexx anyway.so they don't care if the girl loves them or not.as long as d sexx keeps coming.
They only cry foul if she leaves them for a richer dude. Forgetting that money is their only bargaining chip to start with.

Why won't she go for someone who has more of it?

Wise up brothers.

I don't think anyone has ever held brief for the guys. The guys are just as devious as the ladies. It's just that the leaders play the game better and most times come out the supreme winner.

y-fo:


missy, seems you have a bank filled with .gif picz



@op, you are even worse than the nairalanders that come here to complain bout the girls, atleast they are making that crucial mistake on generalising on the 'right team'.

You just come across as a guy that wants the ladies' attention/approval at the expense of degrading yourself and being despised by your brothers. By generalising, you cover up the fact that SOME ladies also just wanna 'chop and clean mouth' while painting ALL guys as villians...would have expected this from a heart-broken lady but you fall hand sha.


Hope it was worth it and you gained access to some female nairalanders consiousness

why are you hurt?

Is he lying? The way I see it, his post favours the guys.if only you guys can drop pride and apply it.

I've noticed that whenever a male member posts about errs his fellow men make, some other men pounce on him and accuse him of wanting female attention. Meanwhile, when a woman criticizes fellow women, men rally around her and tell other women to listen. Interesting.

lorretta u: I can swear on my life.(which happens to be the most important thing I have now)

That in my book of toasters I've a guy who has been asking Me out for more than 8years now.
He started when I was still in secondary school.still won't give up until now.

Do I go into those ones I met when I first went for nysc camp?I'm done serving for months now.add it to the one year I spent there.tell me if I'm wrong

Or the ones I met while in school.
That won't stop the texting and calling and begging
Sweetie you don't wanna go into that boring issue.

Suffice is to say that men are relentless pursuers when its pucci or money they are chasing.

And some women take advantage of that.

lmfao.... You know what, it beats my imagination to think of how some guys are so crazed and obsessed with some girls. WTF? I can't wait that long!!!!!! If you can't say 'YES' to me in less than 1 week, I'll back off..... For crying out loud, I know my worth!!!! Or maybe the guy's got a prolonged cerebral hypoxia(not sane) *methink* #iJoshy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iyeUcFKRv4

Danhumprey: Me sef wonder oooo. E be like say him don drink too much p.unny juice,hence his braing has start malfunctioning.




Though I agree with him to an extent,but he made the mistake of generalising. He should know that not all guys behave that way.

Same way you guys generalise issues when it comes to the ladies

lorretta u: I can swear on my life.(which happens to be the most important thing I have now)

That in my book of toasters I've a guy who has been asking Me out for more than 8years now.
He started when I was still in secondary school.still won't give up until now.

Do I go into those ones I met when I first went for nysc camp?I'm done serving for months now.add it to the one year I spent there.tell me if I'm wrong

Or the ones I met while in school.
That won't stop the texting and calling and begging
Sweetie you don't wanna go into that boring issue.

Suffice is to say that men are relentless pursuers when its pucci or money they are chasing.

And some women take advantage of that.

Seems you a nice girl and not playing the guys but that doesn't mean all girls are classified into those who guys offer material things to first.
Whether you like it or not, there are girls that bring up the monetary ish first thereby sending signals to the guys bout where her mind is and how to get her.

On this thread, it seems it is now the guys that ALWAYS offer materialistic things with girls classified into those who accept and those that don't. For where .

What of girls who asks for recharge cards/bbm subscriptions on e-chats or a week into meeting each other.

Hell, my jnr bro was being turned into an atm for recharge cards when he and the girl were just 12 or 13. na wa o.

What of girls that ask you to take them out to bukas/fast food joints with the usual 'im hungry'...sometimes in front of their female friends so you forced to agree

I could give other accounts of girls making the first move in terms of monetary ish so ladies, let's stop showing just one side of the coin. Thank you .

Harbosede02: huh??did u say get dis ova wit??*laffs scornfully and eyes im *

Stop eyeing me , she's trying to seduce me . NLs, Help!!!!!!!!!

Strauskhan1: Stop eyeing me , she's trying to seduce me . NLs, Help!!!!!!!!! :-(

yunck!!datz my worst nytmare!