y-fo:


Seems you a nice girl and not playing the guys but that doesn't mean all girls are classified into those who guys offer material things to first.
Whether you like it or not, there are girls that bring up the monetary ish first thereby sending signals to the guys bout where her mind is and how to get her.

On this thread, it seems it is now the guys that ALWAYS offer materialistic things with girls classified into those who accept and those that don't. For where .

What of girls who asks for recharge cards/bbm subscriptions on e-chats or a week into meeting each other.

Hell, my jnr bro was being turned into an atm for recharge cards when he and the girl were just 12 or 13. na wa o.

What of girls that ask you to take them out to bukas/fast food joints with the usual 'im hungry'...sometimes in front of their female friends so you forced to agree

I could give other accounts of girls making the first move in terms of monetary ish so ladies, let's stop showing just one side of the coin. Thank you .

tex baba: To be frank, u said some truth but u made the mistake of generalising to an extent. First of all, ur post will be seen to encourage gurls more to swindle guys of their hard erned money simply because the guy is inlove with her nd she is not inlov with him. What happnd to sincererity? secondly, such kind of gurl is not smart but very foolish, nd wicked. By the time they start experiencing some difficulty in their lives, they wont knw where its coming from, cos she will reap it in the near future. i say this becos some gurls pretend nd deceive you that they love you, taking advange of ur emotional weakness. i dont think theres anything wrong in a guy trying to win the heart of a gurl who doesnt love him initially, beauty never loved the beast initially. if she ends up loving him, thats his victory. Nd its not all the tym whn a guy spends money for a gurl that he is trying to use money to influence her nau, some guys are just caring, nice nd just trying to be there for her at the point of her need. If the gurl ends up decieving him, its her bad luck. the guy will only loose money, but the girl would hve lost a true nd caring friend nd lover...so who loose?

austushi1: You are foolish; including ur male supporters! Y u no wan get brain? Eh? Just tell me why u choose to use ur yansh, instead of ur brain? If the girl know say she no like me, y she no tell me, make jejeli waka? Y she go dey chop my money? No girl go ever chop my money, make I no Zap her!

Na ur type dem dey chop wella! If ur doing dis to get a girl here, ur on Lonnnngggggg tin!

Ram!

tex baba: To be frank, u said some truth but u made the mistake of generalising to an extent. First of all, ur post will be seen to encourage gurls more to swindle guys of their hard erned money simply because the guy is inlove with her nd she is not inlov with him. What happnd to sincererity? secondly, such kind of gurl is not smart but very foolish, nd wicked. By the time they start experiencing some difficulty in their lives, they wont knw where its coming from, cos she will reap it in the near future. i say this becos some gurls pretend nd deceive you that they love you, taking advange of ur emotional weakness. i dont think theres anything wrong in a guy trying to win the heart of a gurl who doesnt love him initially, beauty never loved the beast initially. if she ends up loving him, thats his victory. Nd its not all the tym whn a guy spends money for a gurl that he is trying to use money to influence her nau, some guys are just caring, nice nd just trying to be there for her at the point of her need. If the gurl ends up decieving him, its her bad luck. the guy will only loose money, but the girl would hve lost a true nd caring friend nd lover...so who loose?

Extom:
Now this is the very definition of LIMPOPO!!!
There's one thing nobody can ever change; the TRUTH. By what you typed, we already know the kinda guy you are.
Here's how dumb guys act towards a girl(they make up 88% of the male population): See a girl, try to impress her with the small coins they've got, the girl in turn sees a limpopo, and dances to his tune.
But here's how its been done by real men(12% of the male population): sees a lady he likes, tries to connect with her in a deeper-than-physical way, and if they're compatible, he impresses her with his not-just-financial capabilities(real men always have one), and then you see a girl GOING for HIM, and not just his POCKETS!
Dude, you already know the category you fall into, without been told.
N.B. The REAL men get the LADIES, while the LIMPOPO gets the GIRLS... Because no matter how much you're ready to throw around, there are some ladies you just can't lay.
I'm out.

Extom:
Now this is the very definition of LIMPOPO!!!
There's one thing nobody can ever change; the TRUTH. By what you typed, we already know the kinda guy you are.
Here's how dumb guys act towards a girl(they make up 88% of the male population): See a girl, try to impress her with the small coins they've got, the girl in turn sees a limpopo, and dances to his tune.
But here's how its been done by real men(12% of the male population): sees a lady he likes, tries to connect with her in a deeper-than-physical way, and if they're compatible, he impresses her with his not-just-financial capabilities(real men always have one), and then you see a girl GOING for HIM, and not just his POCKETS!
Dude, you already know the category you fall into, without been told.
N.B. The REAL men get the LADIES, while the LIMPOPO gets the GIRLS... Because no matter how much you're ready to throw around, there are some ladies you just can't lay.
I'm out.

lorretta u: well each to his own.
You know some guys don't value a woman they hey within one month period.
They see her as easy.so the more a woman says no.the more they see her as playing hard to get.it thrills them.like they say,the thrill is in the chase.
They keep imagining what a sweet victory it will be when they win her. So they keep pushing.
I remember one of my friends bragging to me how he wooed his gf for 8months before he got her.and cos of that he values her.

Tho I admit it has made many girls to adopt the hard to get attitude.so guys won't see them as cheap or easy.so sometimes the guys keep coming thinking she'll change her mind.

My brother,it is a no win situation.

y-fo:


Did you even read my post

I didn't deny what he said, but that he was generalising which is the mistake he made. He also made it seem like ALL ladies are innocent and forgetting that SOME ladies are actually out for the money and quite forward in their requests....should I also generalise and say ALL ladies are the same?


If he had made a constructive argument to pass his point across, I wouldn't begrudge him but his post was as emotionally laden as a heart-broken lady.

MRbrownJAY:

the above in bold is highly laughable............

Adaeze003: Dancing azonto on thread.... Let's go there!
Guys really need to hear this! Some will still console themselves with 'I got the punnany' but guess what? Those girls don't care! They would drop back 4 anyone with the dough so it means nothing

D-Explorer:

I once asked if there's a 'smart girl' and the answer is always negative. None!

Adetayo100: What kind of rubbish is this?? If u were duped by a lady kindly tell the house maybe we could be of help for you not to fall victim again.

austushi1:

Mr real idiote, Clap for ur sorry ass! Mr perfect in chasing girls, oh sorry, ladies!

Pls explain dis: "Connect with her in a deeper-than-physical way"

#Let's see how smart u are#

sweetestguy: now wat happens to turnin d ladies down, its nt by force to giv dem wat de ask..wen u agree,u don fall mumu, de wil keep askin

Harbosede02: i grab,bt nt all guys take No 4 an answer,even wen d gurl says she isn't intrested,u wud still hear statements lyk"at least we can be fwnds jst take my gifts"or "i wud wait 4 u til u r ready 2 be mine"no be our fault sey we dey collect gifts,morever ignoring d gifts might hurt d guy..and me don't lyk hurting guys*winks*

sweetestguy: We always complain of how greedy naija babes are, and how they love money a lot,but come to think of it, you meet a girl who obviously doesn't even like u,not to think of love,u now use money to impress her. Why won't she play along to dry ur pocket, she's just a smart girl,and there is nothing wrong in being smart.

The signs will be very clear that she doesn't care about you, yet you won't mind spending dough to win her and after you come here to post on how naija babe are bad.

Have you ever noticed that some girls that drains the guys pocket have another guy they don't even ask for anything?

guys grow up, we still have plenty of girls who truly love, just find the one that that suits you.

sweetestguy: yes I'm a guy, and deep in ur hrt u knw its d truth, every gal has a guy she truly loves, dats jus it, jus pray to find d right person

Muller_7: nonsense!

lil max: but why cant you refuse the gifts

sweetestguy: We always complain of how greedy naija babes are, and how they love money a lot,but come to think of it, you meet a girl who obviously doesn't even like u,not to think of love,u now use money to impress her. Why won't she play along to dry ur pocket, she's just a smart girl,and there is nothing wrong in being smart.

The signs will be very clear that she doesn't care about you, yet you won't mind spending dough to win her and after you come here to post on how naija babe are bad.

Have you ever noticed that some girls that drains the guys pocket have another guy they don't even ask for anything?

guys grow up, we still have plenty of girls who truly love, just find the one that that suits you.

Extom:
If not that you insulted me for giving you a life-changing, perspective-revamping lecture, I'd have given you the link to my not-for-the-weak-hearted blog. But anyway, lemme give you something to chew on for a while.
A Physical connection spells one thing from the very beginning; SEX. And after the sex, the connection is lost like some Nigerian service providers. Funny enough, some girls can smell this from 10miles, and while you're scheming on getting laid, she's scheming on getting fed. Most of the times, she gets fed, and you don't get laid, and then you will discover that all your 'love' will turn to resentment.
But a deeper-than-physical connection will let you appreciate and love her without reserve, and believe it or not, she'll sense it like a dog senses a stranger's fear, and she'll feel more safety and comfort around you(something every lady wants).
Its Alvin The Date Demi-God, and if you want more lectures, I'm sorry its gonna cost you a fortune.

hauwaolaniyi: †ђȋ̝̊ṣ̥ is S̶̲̥̅̊Ö̤̣̇ funny but accurately true you will see dem giving you BB Z10 †̥☹ type your number A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ †ђε̲̣̣̣̥ worse part is they will spray you with gift A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ money thinking that you will now open leg f☺я̩̥̊ them like goat.

kulex2k1:

Chaiii .... @OP obviously naija gals don do you strong thing... sorry!!!

ogugua88: There's this guy that asked me out 7 times in 24 hours just this weekend. He was literally begging to take me out for dinner, movies, etc., and I kept refusing him because I'm sweet and don't use people. The writing was all over the wall, and this guy was saying "PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE I LIKE YOU". If I'm lying, may lightning strike me dead.

I certainly don't condone girls taking advantage of mumus such men, but the truth is that some guys need to wise up. I later explained to una colleague, who's got a lucrative job by the way, that that's absolutely no way to approach a stranger. Because I'm nice doesn't mean the next girl he begs won't wipe his account dry.