Okay, here goes---you have been dating this guy/girl for one year plus, you have talked about marriage and he/she has met your parent, he/she even slightly suggested that you moved in together but you refused the offer due to personal reasons, everything seem to be going well with the relationship. He/she suddenly asks for an open relationship.

What does this imply??
Is he/she seeing somebody else??

This issue of two dimensions to be honest, I am quick to say he /she is seeing another person and it look as this other person is treating he / she very well.

But again I think he/she is working on your emotion and endurance so you have to be careful in handling is case.

You may be in another relationship order than this but watch your back when you move.

Guys and Ladies will surely react differently in this particular situation so the ball is your court

that's not bad

depends on you, as for me is not bad as a guy

only playaz wanna do dat, any gurl tell me dat, i'll nnuck her teeth out!

only playaz wanna do dat, any gurl tell me dat, i'll nnuck her teeth out!

If my man told me he wanted an open relationship - I'd kick his a$$ outt@ my life

2can, our responses are very similar

Shishikins - that's because we are mature peeps who know what is right and wrong in the game of lurve

that means shez not interested in the relaionship and might be seeing some1 else

true dat 2can

Oh my days. Open relationship is when u can be datin n u are lalowed to date sumone else while ur dating ur girl/guy. However, d other person will not be ur boo, d person will just b for fun.

Hope u didnt say yes. cos dat is wrong. A guy asked me dat as well. n when i told my friends; they explained it to me. So do not take dat at all.

funketobi:

Oh my days. Open relationship is when u can be datin n u are lalowed to date sumone else while your dating your girl/guy. However, d other person will not be your boo, d person will just b for fun.

Hope u didnt say yes. because that is wrong. A guy asked me that as well. n when i told my friends; they explained it to me. So do not take that at all.

Why did you assume it was me in this situation?? Okay, I was just wondering what would make a guy ask for an open relationship and why a girl would agree to be in this type of scenario?

hehehe

Sorry, my bad. ok?, i fink if d person ask for an open relationship. he/she still wanna fool around. that's my opinion.

'close' the relationship

i would welcome it with open arms

COCO29:

i would welcome it with open arms

Seriously, would you really accept it bearing in mind that he might be sleeping with other girls and there is the risk of passing on something dodgy to you?

I would like to hear your point of view, if you don't mind

desiree:

Seriously, would you really accept it bearing in mind that he might be sleeping with other girls and there is the risk of passing on something dodgy to you?

I would like to hear your point of view, if you don't mind

sweetie , condoms and i am a bit of a wild child so i see nothing wrong with as long as we use protection and i am serious

Okay, i get you gurl i thought you wouldn't be going out to play and only the guy can be open. Okay thats cool, a very different opinion there.

although 4play has calm me down a bit, well hell a lot

hahhahhhhhah

Good on ya!!!

In my opinion , an open r/ship does not necessarily mean he/she will be sleeping around, it just could mean lets leave our options open till we figure out wat we really want.

Just Quit the relationship!! no One should tell U this!

@zarah

Nope, An open relationship means no comittment and freedom to date/engage in sexual activities with another person.

Polyamory is the practice of having more than one loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. The relationships are long-term, intimate, and usually (but not necessarily) sexual. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship

desiree:

@zarah

Nope, An open relationship means no comittment and freedom to date/engage in sexual activities with another person.

Polyamory is the practice of having more than one loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. The relationships are long-term, intimate, and usually (but not necessarily) sexual. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship

lol, it all DEPENDS on a lot of factors,
I can tell you it has its benefits too trust me, cos ive experienced it, though its HELLA HARD, wow talk about emotions being turned off and on, its not easy but the good thing about this is, u 2 are gonna be TOTALLY HONEST with each other and in some cases this usually is a good thing cos then u relate as good true friends, cos even at the end of the long run, if btoh of you end up together, you will both appreciate each other for your honesty, and well if u dont end up together at the long run, you would still make the best of friends cos there would have been an understanding as to why the other party is going his/her way,

well thats the good side to open relationships,

the bad side? heheheh , you gon have to be strong to deal with a LOT of things, but take it, what dont break you will make you stronger, so its all up to you,

nah,no open rltnship.bt close one.infact no hole sef to peep,where the main thing can happen if u kw wat i mean

its like having havin ur cake and eatin it,on one hand, u have the love of someone and on the other, the liberty to screw someone else! its a bad game becos one party always gets hurt. hell no!

He just wants to introduce the side chic to you. That's all

chika98:

He just wants to introduce the side chic to you. That's all

u go girl, exactly my point.

huh, i like dis topic
cos my BF was talkin marriage b4 bt since we had dis big fight n made up again,its bein diff, even tho he was d one dat came back, he dosent talk abt marriage anymore and says he's still tryna figure out wt he wants from d relationship, ASSWIPE

technically,readin btw d lines, he's prolly indirectly askin 4 a open relationship, maybe

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