1. Makes women think that all they have to do to succeed in life is show up. Today’s woman thinks she deserves the fruits of life just because she’s a woman, that since her gender was “oppressed” for so long it’s time to receive reparations through generous societal benefits and advantages in education at the expense of men who weren’t even alive during the supposed period of inequality. The result is a woman who is viciously entitled when it comes to receiving good grades, jobs, or relationships. When she fails at gaining these three, she does not blame herself, but both men and her feminine condition.

2. Makes her proud to be ugly. Go into any middle-of-the-road bar in a major city and what do you see? Overweight women with short hair, loose clothing, and flip-flops. Feminism has taught women that it’s okay for them to look like they just rolled out of bed and that any attempt to look “feminine” will make men desire them for their looks instead of their intellectual and philosophical brains. Evolution laughs. Men are attracted to beauty, and always will be. Next thing you know, American women will appear in public wearing pajamas.

3. Makes them argumentative, uppity, and difficult. Feminism has taught women to “speak your mind,” a euphemism for “bitch about everything.” They can let nothing rest that they even mildly disagree with, and rather start World War III about some insignificant matter than simply biting their tongue and changing the topic.

4. Makes them dependent on global corporations for lifestyle guidance. The feminist message has been co-opted by companies that aim to sell women more crap. Of course corporations love “equality” and having women in the workforce, because they can move more products and increase their profits. Modern day feminists like Naomi Wolf and Jessica Valenti, who try so hard to empower women, get their income from media and publishing companies that are part of global corporations which also put out a neverending shit stream of dubious dieting and exercise books. The main form of empowerment for women today is for them to spend their disposable income on the goods of multinational firms.

5. Makes it exceedingly hard for her to find a life partner that is equal or above to her level. Feminism has given women more money while taking away their biological need to have a family. Because a woman finds it naturally difficult to marry a man of lower means than herself, she simply remains single until death, with nothing but her cats to keep her company when she takes her last breath. Pushing faux equality has created a generation of impoverished men who make unsuitable husbands. Women are making more cash, men have more limited work options, and marriage is on the decline, threatening the very fabric of society. Great job, feminism.

6. Makes her overvalue alpha males, causing her to be pumped and dumped by dozens of suitors. The majority of American men have been brainwashed by the feminist message, making them the most pussified specimen the world has ever seen. The contrast this creates with the minority of alpha men remaining results in a perverse Pareto law where small amounts of men are sexually monopolizing a majority of the women. What will end up happening is that beta males will completely withdraw from the marriage market and into a world of interactive porn and video games. The powers-that-be won’t care as long as the Mexicans are still reproducing and H1B visas are granted to every Indian and Chinese person that applies.

7. Makes them unfit mothers who don’t know how to take care of a household. Have you ever dated an American woman who knows how to cook a meal that doesn’t involve frozen ingredients? If she can’t cook for you, how is she going to cook for your child? She won’t: the corporations will feed your son with their genetically modified foodstuff while she’s busy posting his pictures on Facebook in between nonsensical updates of how women make less than men for the same work. I hope your income is high enough that you can hire a maid or nanny, because American women have no skills or ability to properly raise another human being.

When society eventually does collapse because of feminism, I want to be there to hear the excuses that feminists offer for the decline, especially since they got absolutely everything they wanted. For them to have to face the failings of their utopia vision, to have men simply be unwilling to reproduce, will be similar to the fall of Russian Communism in 1989: unexpected and containing a transition period full of hardship, but with a whole lot of reason to celebrate for those of us who suffered under oppressive rule. I hope I’m alive when it all comes crashing down.

Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’

There are many factors. While the Feminist doctrine has marganalized good men, it has also created a culture where more young men are inclined to see women as merely objects for sex in much the same way hardcore militant feminism taught many young women to be independent and see men as only necessary for breeding. No doubt this has been passed on to a younger generation of men who likewise will also be indoctrinated to see women as only necessary for sexual pleasure and who only expect the same from them, because marriage and the patriarchial responsibilities of it are no longer acceptable in the modernist world.

But good men who understand this are also discouraged. Divorce makes many men worried about ever getting into a relationship. Boys increasingly raised in a society where marriages break down are unlikely to think it's worth the trouble. Ridiculous laws in divorce cases that favor women and make men slaves to courtroom declarations where their wealth is given to the woman who also gets full custody of the children is also very worrisome regardless of the circumstances. Men are no longer guaranteed their offspring. Men are increasingly told they have no say if the woman wants to abort their children.

Marriage itself is constantly becoming more meaningless. Pornography is increasingly rampant in destroyign the bonds between men and women. And as society breaks down it creates uncertainty about the future with regards to the world we live in and would bring children into and economically depressing, that even otherwise men inclined to be responsible are put off from ever getting married because the future looks bleak.

Turning this around requires a return to the patriarchy, and proper institution of marriage and respect for sex within marriage. By containing the power of sex within marriage under the patriarchy, it forces men to improve themselves and become responsible patriarchs before even entering in marriage. The Patriarchy and institution of marriage therefore utilized men's sex drives in a positive way to createa nd build a stable society. And patriarchial rights and the permanence of the marriage relationship without divorce maintained this stability. Patriarchies also have the added benefit of protecting women. No man could take advantage of a girl for sex. Today a man could court your 14 year old ddaughter and so long as he gets legal 'consent' he can have sex with her, privately get her pregnancy aborted at Planned Parenthood, then dump her. Parents can't do anything. Under a patriarchy, no man could even consider courting a girl without going through her father first. If he dared to, then he would have violated the patriarch's right (A daughter was considered legal property of the father for this reason, not because women are the lesser of men), and justice would have been severe.

However Hollywood and liberalism have painted a distorted view of the patriarchial system by focusing on ways it can be abused, much like hos they have demonized men to seem like drunken monsters despite the reality. In many ways women were even happier having the freedom to do what they wanted within the family and raise children while the men worked. Feminism was initially promoted as a 'Sleeping Beauty Feminism' doctrine that encouraged women to be more independent and enter the workforce as if they were wasting their abilities by being homemakers. This approach completely failed with women who were overall happy with their situation. It wasn't until Feminism was pushed as the 'Suffering Saints Faminism' where the campaign focused on those women who were abused by demonic men that feminism finally started to take hold. It was all in how you frame it. There were plenty of legitimate reasons for the Women's Rights movement in the modern era. However Feminism isn't the same thing. It merely piggybacked on women's rights. Many Christian women in the Women's Rights movement only wanted accomodations to be made in the absence of men to prevent themselves being taken advantage of and to have their say in government policy through voting etc. Even the Old Testament laws make accomodations for women who find themselves without a husband for various circumstances who were in danger of losing their rightful priveledges. Feminism on the other hand was primarily driven by Communists who wished to make women workers subservient to the State contributing to production and consumerism. Basically cogs in the machine. The Church, Family, children and patriarchs and Marriage stood in the way. So these had to be destroyed so that the people would depend on the state and work for the benefit of the state. That is feminism's origin. The rise of feminism and increased socialism and communism and practical atheism is all part and parcel of everything we observe happening around us.

flexshop: were is De beavouir,
Discarding the patriachial system is like throwing away the baby with the birth water. A great number of american males are now in jail because the were raised by single mothers.the lucky ones end up fathering nigglets with various baby mamas all in the name of feminism. The day any of my daughters will try that feminist mentality is the day I will marry her of to YERIMA.
Feminism, LGBT et cetera are gradually corroding core family values which are the bedrock of every society. Women should be more concerned about individual development than feminist struggles to usurp mens role

flexshop: were is De beavouir,
Discarding the patriachial system is like throwing away the baby with the birth water. A great number of american males are now in jail because the were raised by single mothers.the lucky ones end up fathering nigglets with various baby mamas all in the name of feminism. The day any of my daughters will try that feminist mentality is the day I will marry her of to YERIMA.
Feminism, LGBT et cetera are gradually corroding core family values which are the bedrock of every society. Women should be more concerned about individual development than feminist struggles to usurp mens role

hisblud: Its a long read, but hope that you all would be patient and read thru. Sorry i cant summarize this. Will nigeria women be destroyed gradually by feminism also?

read for yourself and decide!

dasparrow:

This is the biggest crap I have read in a long while. So, if American males are in jail because they were raised by single mothers, then what about the Nigerian-bred males in Nigeria who were raised by father and mother and who grow up to become cultists, r8pists, 419 scammers, ritualists, drug peddlers in foreign countries around the world and kidnappers? Secondly, as a black man, why are you calling black children a racial slur like 'nigglet'? Are you out of your darn mind? I guess you are trying to come across as American but you have failed woefully at your sick attempt to pull down your own race. Thirdly, you don't have to worry that your daughters will turn feminist - whatever that means - because God has already seen that you will make a terrible father so God will not even give you female children and the male child you MIGHT manage to have will grow up and use you for ritual in exchange for sudden wealth.

Lastly, when it comes to core family values, most Nigerians have none. This is why many Nigerians glorify paedophilia, gang r8pe and the likes in Nigerian society. This is also why many Nigerians have a culture of oppression where you oppress your women, cheat on them, infect them with STDs, violate them, dump them if they cannot birth you male children and the likes. But God does not like ugly and this is why Nigeria has refused to progress even with all the natural resources the country has been blessed with. Nigeria is a country filed with wicked people who have a wicked culture and that is why the average Nigerian always keeps roaming from country to country like cattle herders begging for visa and permanent residence from more advanced nations.

dasparrow:

Nigeria does not need feminism to be destroyed. In case you haven't noticed, Nigeria is already destroyed by your greedy leaders who spend 255 million naira buying vehicles while you the citizens are living in perpetual darkness in 2013 and inhaling generator fumes that cloud your sense of reasoning. That piece was obviously written by a demented Nigerian chauvinist so the article must be taken with a grain of salt. Your white mates in the western world are inventing things that will add value to mankind and you are here perusing the internet looking for ways to pull down the female gender. Typical black African man. Only good when it comes to lust and sex and overpopulating the world with people who will most likely grow up in poverty and put a strain on the world's resources. Go and get a job and do something constructive with your life and stop telling others how to live their lives.

dasparrow:

This is the biggest crap I have read in a long while. So, if American males are in jail because they were raised by single mothers, then what about the Nigerian-bred males in Nigeria who were raised by father and mother and who grow up to become cultists, r8pists, 419 scammers, ritualists, drug peddlers in foreign countries around the world and kidnappers? Secondly, as a black man, why are you calling black children a racial slur like 'nigglet'? Are you out of your darn mind? I guess you are trying to come across as American but you have failed woefully at your sick attempt to pull down your own race. Thirdly, you don't have to worry that your daughters will turn feminist - whatever that means - because God has already seen that you will make a terrible father so God will not even give you female children and the male child you MIGHT manage to have will grow up and use you for ritual in exchange for sudden wealth.

Lastly, when it comes to core family values, most Nigerians have none. This is why many Nigerians glorify paedophilia, gang r8pe and the likes in Nigerian society. This is also why many Nigerians have a culture of oppression where you oppress your women, cheat on them, infect them with STDs, violate them, dump them if they cannot birth you male children and the likes. But God does not like ugly and this is why Nigeria has refused to progress even with all the natural resources the country has been blessed with. Nigeria is a country filed with wicked people who have a wicked culture and that is why the average Nigerian always keeps roaming from country to country like cattle herders begging for visa and permanent residence from more advanced nations.

favinvest: U see for anyunion to survive for a longtime one of the partner has to bear all the nonesense. Right from the first man and woman that started the first family on earth it as always been the woman that have been taking all the nonesense.
This was why d word divorce was hardly heard in the past.

But right from the time that feminism came to be; woman is now equal with the man philisophy of the 21st century starting in America. Divorce skyrocketed to over a million times.

Reason cos u hardly see a man who will bring a woman under his roof and she will then bcom co-oga of the house.

So woman if u wan ur marriage to b a lasting one u need to go and sit down very close to ur grandmothers (not ur mother) so that she can teach u how she was able to have alasting marriage.

flexshop:

burst a nerve right? Go do some research on reasons for increase in number of jail inmates in US with special focus on african americans.don't be bitter, because you have people migrating to the US doesnt take away the fact that the family system in the united states is in serious decline. Discussions laced with emotions won't hide the truth or change it from what it is. Any babymama who willfully raises children out of wedlock is raising nuisance to the society as few of these children turn out useful to the society.since you decided to take that aspect of my discourse and discard other valid points I made, it shows how bitter you are. Cry from now till eternity, feminism is a virus that is destroying the society

kulyie: no mind them,let them keep ranting and spewing thrash.feminism has come and it has come to stay in our world.as long as you cannot do anything about globalization,you cannot do nada about feminism.moreover, if women are no longer women,you can all go and marry your male counterparts like some of you are already doing or resign to wanking with porn movies or better still,get a job as a porn star.

tintingz: As if women don't need men except if you are a lesbian... **Smh** dumb post

kulyie: unfortunatly there is nothing you can do about the acclaimed virus.just as past leaders have unsuccessfully eradicated corruption,mental and financial poverty,that is how your blabbing will unsucessfully eradicate feminism and single/independent women.


The same way corruption,ineptitude,poverty,greed,perversion,intellectual and morally bereft leaders and injustice is part and parcel of nigeria and cannot be divorced from Nigeria,is the same way feminism cannot be eradicated,live with the changing system or enter mars to go and live

flexshop:

[b]we love independent women mind you.what we dislike are feminists who by default will end up single and miserable (as the OP said 'dying alone in her isolated room with her 13cats and 2dogs').stop grabbing straws like the other poster dasparrow.corruption and other vices are our problems in this country.when you try to compound the problem by injecting feminism into our already troubled society,what do you get? An implosion.
That aside, what the OP is trying to posit if I'm right is the need for self realisation and individual development. Women should loosen the feminist garb and work towards other meaningful goals than taking over equal rights in the family as men. I can mention various women in nigerian history eg the likes of queen amina of zaria, and princess moremi, who have made impact in history during periods the likes of you would say was totally anti women.
My personal view of the issue is that the patriachial system of family existed for a reason, and upturning that reason for shorttime benefits may have a longterm repercussion which we would not be prepared for.That was why I used the US as an example to what upturning the system can gradually do, you have males who are raised by women without a fatherly presence to guide them and majority end up as deviants in society.you have them on the streets all across US from newyork to illinois to georgia to california.
These young men turn out whimps who even have no respect for WOMEN and that is why the end up converting many young girls into baby mamas.
Feminists won't tell you that. They like every other movement in history (naturists,Nazis,LGBT etc) will only show you the little benefit that can be derived but effectively hide the downsides.
We understand that some women are marginalized in our system but I always believe that development of the girl child without recourse to feministic ideologies would go a long way in curbing some excesses of some men.Catch my drift[/b]

kulyie: i get your drift but what exactly do you hate about feminism and hope you are not trying to imply that feminism in the world today is causing baby mama nonsense,whimps as men,rapists and unwanted male species,hope you arent trying to say feminism is what causes a total break down of marriages.


There is something you must realise,there is something constant in life and that is CHANGE. During my grandma's era women women were mentally and physically subservient because PATRIARCHY created no room for social and economic security for women.now that women emancipation came out in the late 6os and early 7o's,women are no longer subservient to anybody,they call the shots economically,they are given priority before their male counterparts in terms of high ranking jobs etc,who's godamn fault.let me tell you,patriarchy cannot last forever.patriarchy has debased women and made them feel they have nothing else to offer apart from their vagina and being at their husbands beck and call,thats why you see girls in music videos dancing naked in a sexual way because patriarchy has influenced the media too.they are passing a message that sex is all to a woman and nothing more


and let me ask you a question,why do you feel edgy,uncomfortable and threatened when you see a less subservient,independent,intellectually and fianancially strong woman.of course you will shout PATRIARCHY is good because it keeps you at a more advantaged position.

Women's mindset towards marriage,home etc is CHANGING.


EDUCATION TOO IS A FACTOR.MY GRANDMA AND GREAT GRANDMA WERE NOT AS EXPOSED AND EDUCATED AT THE GENERATION OF WOMEN WE HAVE TODAY. Their lives revolved around their husbands,but many women's lives dont revolve around any man again,its all about career and the money.it was men that were the bread winners and the providers, that was why they were so dominating,controlling and could marry 1 million wives.now women are making as much money as the men if not more,so what?

In the global market,its all about SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST.EVERYONE USES HIS STRENGTHS TO HAVE AN EDGE ABOVE THE OTHER BECAUSE THEY ARE ALL CHASING THE SAME THING WHICH IS MONEY

kulyie: you are blabbing mr man.is it anyones fault that you cannot handle successful women that many of you resort to marrying men like yourselves.afterall the number of gay relationships is slowly and steadily arising.believe whatever you want to believe,but this world is full of options.if you cant stand the heat,get out of the kitchen


if you cannot find any marriageable woman IN YOUR STANDARDS. You can as well find a 3rd leg carrier and if my post is paining you can go and lie on agege railway and wait for any available train to do justice to your body

flexshop:

[b]at the risk of sounding biased in my judgement,let me try and make some points clear.

1. I don't feel threatened by anything,anybody or any ideology personally.
2.I made my observation removing the fact that I'm male so as not to give a biased view of the subject matter.

Ask yourselve this question, how was societal norms and values during your grandmas time and now? Let's be objective here and not subjective to our line of reasoning.

I agree with you that CHANGE is constant but you have to also agree with me that not all CHANGE is 100% beneficial.
Ok, let me use atomic and nuclear energy discoveries as an example. You and I know that these fields promised enormous potentials for good viz electricity generation,greener society etc. But it also came with its baggage of weapons of mass destruction capable of annihilating humanity.

That's a case study for change.

I have throughout this discourse used the black community in the US as prima facia evidence on the problems caused by the absence of the male authority in households. I won't want to go further into discussing the role of feminism in this problem as the OP's article has already highlighted some.

Just like hitlers nazi theory,german people where rallying round nazis as rights movements till it turned to a political weapon.
Make no mistake,I'm not trying to compare hitlers arian superiority theories with feminism.I'm only trying to point out why some of these ideologies if left unchecked can spiral out of control.

Patriachial system offers rights to men not because of anything but to maintain stability in the family system.

Let me use myself as an example.
I grew up in a loving family with both parents.My mum recognised the fact that my dad is the head of the family and as such the start in the family chain of authority.we the kids see that as an authority figure,a father figure. When my dad is not around,my mum assumes command. That's an ideal family structure. We were taught to value women as our authority is for one aim and one aim only to protect women around us.that's the alpha male theory.

Letme use my friend,who grew up with a single mum. His views are totally different from mine. He comes to me for guidance due to the absence of a father figure in his life.letme not go into other details but what I understand from life is that when we distort the balance of power,things go wrong.


What I'm trying to say is,do a little research.I was watching a documentary on discovery channel of black americans and crime, most commentators posited the absence of father figures as the prime cause of the problem of young black males and by extension females.

Remove emotions from this discussion and see that the negatives of feminism to society outweighs any benefits feminists claim.[/b]

tintingz: And who told you men can't handle a successful woman? There are many successful independent woman that respect their man and see them as good husband but feminism as a hate group has corrupt the mind of many ignorant women as if men are competing with them, they see men as beast, wicked creatures so the(feminist) wants to be like men they feel like female gender is not right for them to handle men they wanna be equal with men...the next thing for the feminist is for them to change their sexx organ like changing their veejay to d-ck.

flexshop: were is De beavouir,
Discarding the patriachial system is like throwing away the baby with the birth water. A great number of american males are now in jail because the were raised by single mothers.the lucky ones end up fathering nigglets with various baby mamas all in the name of feminism. The day any of my daughters will try that feminist mentality is the day I will marry her of to YERIMA.
Feminism, LGBT et cetera are gradually corroding core family values which are the bedrock of every society. Women should be more concerned about individual development than feminist struggles to usurp mens role

kulyie: well,i am a feminist and i dont hate men however i loathe some categories of men,not all, i will rather have their properties burnt down and fling them into jails

as for your last statement of genital organ change,that is the most ridiculous,wack and hilarious sh1t i have ever heard in my life

tintingz: same goes to some women

Aren't feminist fighting for gender equality, am expecting them to change their veejay to d-ck

OlowoTee:

Sadly true.

Feminism is a threat. If only every woman understands the origin and essence...we wouldn't lend our voice to modernist world. Pour moi, it is okay for a woman to work, be financially buoyant and live a fulfilled life, however I have a huge disconnect with feminism fanatics. They over emphasis these injunctions.

Feminism invariably promotes LBGT. Yeah, a faster mean for men to opt out of the marriage 'ache'...every one wanna be free.

Man keeps wandering far from God's plan and purpose...#UnhealthyConsequence

Op, thank you for sharing.

tintingz: same goes to some women

Aren't feminist fighting for gender equality, am expecting them to change their veejay to d-ck