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Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by funkybaby(f): 1:20pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
texaco1: ***yawns**** 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
forgive her and accept her....all u have to do is to use the house for rent.. so both of u won't live there.... |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by MyJwell: 1:20pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house can you just imagine this line of reasoning?....I pity the man who will be unfortunate enough to be your husband. 10 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by gbanikiti(m): 1:21pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
texaco1:there's nothing wrong in a woman building houses and acquiring properties. Maybe the posters wife felt he would not approve it. To me,I don't need anyone's permission to build houses. Its my personal decision. 6 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Messilo: @op Mitchewwwwww to you, you expect kids here that have not marry before, that have no experience whatsoever; to advise you matrimonially mitcccccchhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeewwwwww to you again.my dear you're senseless |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house If that is the norm in their home then no wahala. But she can't just change the rules whenever she likes. I've seen families when the husbands had his own investments and the wife has hers . . . it works for them that way and nobody complains. If she knew she was doing the right thing, why did she keep it a secret from her husband . . . . afterall it's her own money abi? 7 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by nekkyo(f): 1:24pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
I will advise you to work with your family to resolve the issue but confront and report the priest depending on the facts you find out, especially his notion for embarking on marriage breakage mission. Personally between you and your wife alone have a long chat on the betrayal and insist on paternity test, looks can be deceptive if you rely on the fact that your kids are your look alike. Generally people should concentrate more on worshipping God, loving others and rendering helps to the needy other than turning their priest, pastors etc. to their demi gods. I have come close to people who are supposed men of God and priest for that matter, most of them are materialistic and filthy. Heaven at last should be our main aim!!!. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 1:24pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house You will surely end up single! 8 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by didicold(f): 1:25pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Sell wetin, talk to her and sort out ur issues, habe ur mom and dad talk tohers if u av to. Y is it a problem for her to av a house in her name apart from d secrecy, its called having a back up plan. Nigerian marital laws courts and traditional law do not favor women in d advent of divorce or widowhood,. 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by freakcin: 1:25pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
LMAO @ smartchoice! Truth is bitter though. That's why smartchoice drew some ire on here. @ OP, if a woman you call your wife deliberately withheld such info from you then you need to be worried. Even disengaging her from your life calls for great caution. Nor mind all these peeps wey dey tell u sey. . . work it out oooh! They won't even come and pay last respect when u kpai b4 your allotted time. . . yes ooooh, that could happen considering the guts she's demonstrated thus far. Tactfully part ways with her and confirm your paternity regarding the kids! 5 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by texaco1: 1:25pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
gbanikiti: there's nothing wrong in a woman building houses and acquiring properties. Maybe the posters wife felt he would not approve it. To me,I don't need anyone's permission to build houses. Its my personal decision.you are not getting the point , the man is not angry that his wife is rich or making progress in life , what is paining and hurting the man is that she betrayed his trust by doing what she did without informing him , if she had informed him and he refused but yet she went ahead that is another issue , but living , sleeping and eating with a woman that is building a house and yet she says nothing about it is LIKE SLEEPING WITH YOUR ENEMY , she can even kill the man if told to do so by the same people that told her not to inform her husband about the building project 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Ishilove: 1:25pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
smartchoice: No man deserves to be treated like that!So it is easy to just send the mother of your children and a woman you have spent ten years of your life with packing just like that abi? Is that how they handle marital issues in your village. It is very obvious you are not married. Shior 4 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 1:26pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house Well said 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by funkybaby(f): 1:27pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
nayef: ***rubs baby bump while flashing fourth finger on the left hand with 18carat diamond ring*** 6 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by holdit: 1:27pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Law-confessor: I can see from your comment that you either attend redeemed christian church of God or Celestial Church of Christ. @op Takeheart...... |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 1:28pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
gbanikiti: there's nothing wrong in a woman building houses and acquiring properties. Maybe the posters wife felt he would not approve it. To me,I don't need anyone's permission to build houses. Its my personal decision. 1 Like |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by gokuu(m): 1:28pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Building a house is an investment. As long as she built the house with her own money, i do not see any problem with it. it's not 1913 anymore. must she submit her investment plans for authorization? 6 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by j4sure(m): 1:28pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
1. You need to really pray about d issue. talk 2 God about it. 2. Ask her one on one what she was really upto? 3. talk 2 ur children abt it seek their opinions. 4. if she has anybody she really respect(uncle,bros,sister) talk them abt it. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Etumgbe(m): 1:28pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
the POPE must hear this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by ibsals(m): 1:28pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
2ndChance: I have seen similar threads on this topic before but never imagined it could happen in my marriage.u are still asking when you know what to do. Send her away immediately |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by nbright: 1:29pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Ujujoan:360 degree... That means you still do the same things.. 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Lilimax(f): 1:29pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Salligreen:the highlighted cracked me up What else can I say... will give it a try 1 Like |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by texaco1: 1:29pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Ishilove:if the op sends her away , people will say he is not in suport of his wife progress ,like i said , the op just needs to keep calm at this moment , he should try to maintain his composure , that is when he will see everything clearly but one thing is evident here , the op and his in laws are not on good terms. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
nbright: 360 degree... That means you still do the same things.. No . .. it means a full turn |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by funkybaby(f): 1:31pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Chatters: thank you jare. some people here are something else. so i need my man's PERMISSION before i build a house? what about splashing money on a new car or victoria secret lingerie? do i also need his permission for that? 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by texaco1: 1:31pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
@op , have you spoken to your father in law about this and what was his reaction or response ?just asking |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Johnchike(m): 1:33pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
FlamingGun: You have received very good advice from most contributors to this thread. FlamingGun: You have received very good advice from most contributors to this thread. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by gabbytabby: 1:33pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
The only logical reason that could make wifey do this is if you do have extra marital affairs and she does not know if she can trust you to always be there or to get rid of her when she gets older. Its a way of securing her future, it could also be that her father left when she was young and her mother has been drumming into her ears how she cant trust men. Whatever the reason its a sense of her insecurity and not a reason to spoil an otherwise good marriage for. If anything she needs your help, love and reassurance that you are in this for the long haul and you need her to know that you have her back and she need not feel the need to hide it from you and that it is the trust issue that is a concern for you. At least she used the money for a good thing. You might want to find out if the priest/father is the father. I have first hand knowledge growing up of a girlfriend whose boyfriend is a catholic priest and dont know why they dont quit all this pretense and marry. On the permission issue, I always read it as tell. Some people take this too seriously and I dont tend to sweat the small stuff. Marriage is about helping each other to be the best that we can be and if someone has a problem with you trying to do a good thing obviously I wont tell them about the next one. 5 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by MyJwell: 1:33pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: seriously praying to intercede on your behalf to be opportune to wear that diamond for a longer time...with your line of reasoning 6 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by slimikenna(m): 1:34pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house are you married? let me guess, NO YOU ARE NOT. 5 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by king100(m): 1:35pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a houseAre you married? If yes, your marriage may not last based on your comment.That is why there are countless marriageable women outside there always looking good husbands.Some will never find because God knows their wicked intentions,let them fast and pray till kingdom come, nothing will happen.They will seek but not find. 5 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
smartchoice: No man deserves to be treated like that! HABATICALLY!!! thats too drastic o! 1 Like |
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