This is for everyone, both the married


So many of us focus on the impact others have on us that we forget or don't wish to consider that we have the power to change our own outcomes. Those who take their relationship for granted and dont consider the feelings of their partner/spouse often end in arguing, fighting and even breaking up.

Sometimes, what appears to be the problem in our relationship is not really the problem but how it raises the problem to the surface

If you value your relationship, take your relationship as a personal responsiblity, access your needs and you will see how your dying relationship will come back to normal

finish?

Cathaliya: finish?

Focus on the title

xynerise:
Focus on the title

ok

Hmm, i'm not in a relationship and neither am I looking to be in one but I shall still follow, for now

A concise write up.....I ll try my best

Yes. Personal responsibility, I believe, is required for any relationship to blossom. In any relationship, we have responsibilities to ourselves as well as our partners, and these responsibilities are what makes someone/couples happy, unhappy, etc. It's like a plant. What you put in (water and sunshine), is what you get out of it (flowers or fruit). If you don't like how the relationship is, or if you don't feel happy, then think of what you, yourself, can do to have a different result.

ogugua88: Yes. Personal responsibility, I believe, is required for any relationship to blossom. In any relationship, we have responsibilities to ourselves as well as our partners, and these responsibilities are what makes someone/couples happy, unhappy, etc. It's like a plant. What you put in (water and sunshine), is what you get out of it (flowers or fruit). If you don't like how the relationship is, or if you don't feel happy, then think of what you, yourself, can do to have a different result.

Yeah Right. There's No Better Way. It Really Goes A Long Way In Making The Relationship Blossom.

Being Sensitive, Considerate And All.

ogugua88: Yes. Personal responsibility, I believe, is required for any relationship to blossom. In any relationship, we have responsibilities to ourselves as well as our partners, and these responsibilities are what makes someone/couples happy, unhappy, etc. It's like a plant. What you put in (water and sunshine), is what you get out of it (flowers or fruit). If you don't like how the relationship is, or if you don't feel happy, then think of what you, yourself, can do to have a different result.

Well said.

To be successful in your relationship, your commitment must be a good one and it depends on your sense of values. These values depend on what to get out of your relationship. You have to decide whether you want only a good time; to make plenty of money; or you may decide whether to be a source of good in your relationship in whatever field lies open to you.

Seeing your values clearly, helps you to control or even channel your passions in order to achieve your objectives.

One needs to work on his/her commitment

Should I comment?

Nope!itz an official responsibility 2 me.

Emmy9ite: Should I comment?

Do you need a mic?

Harbosede02: Nope!itz an official responsibility 2 me.

Official? Lol

Emmy9ite: Should I comment?

no

ok but for the now I cant take any relationship personal. Except when am ready to settle down.

Noted...



Will see to implementation.

Yes....

If you take your relationship as a personal responsibility, taking your marriage as personal responsibility won't be a burden on you.

My friends and family are tattooed on my heart.

Emmy9ite: Should I comment?

You have passed a comment now or are you a learner?

relatiobship is nt meant for kids like me.so,i wil reserve my coment for nw

Why would I not take my relationship as my personal responsibility? If I don't who will?

Of course one needs 2 so as to make his /her relationship work out well atleast!

There's a good chance that I'm staurated from a long day's brain work cause this write up is making very little sense to me and I don't understand why nairaland would want to torture me by bringing this to the front page.

My relationship is d best so far in lagos.my gal frnd is so understanding.

Relationship don turn responsibility kwa. Issorait.

I do

I take it as mine, just like she takes it as hers.
Very essential!

What is relationship if not just for the purpose of relation sexually, morally, spiritually psychologically infact anyhowly. To me its just a mental illness between genders

I've dated alot of girls but i've never been into a relationship. Weird isn't it?