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Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by hafi(f): 11:22am On Nov 04, 2013 |
Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks...... *** Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage: FOR MEN *** 1) Rejecting food wen there's an issue: Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refuse to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere wen angry but ensure that you don't allow it 2 linger unnecessarily because dat is enough for the devil to build on. 2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head: May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. Yu need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put yur feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head. 3) Issuing threats: Beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging abt marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man." 4) Reporting your wife to friends and family: Wen yur wife offends, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black nd sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis. 5) Competition: Have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names. As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be? This also leads to insecurity, jealousy and inferiority/ superiority complex. Please let's check ourselves and work as a team 45 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 12:26pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
hmm!! 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Kanwulia: 2:47pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Thinking that a virgin bride's poohsie will stay tight for ever! Or, thinking VIAGRA can cure his BUM EQUIPMENT! 8 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Okijajuju1(m): 4:07pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Hahahahaaaa 2 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by cheezkid(m): 4:08pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
ok |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by everyday: 4:08pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
which men? |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by simplyOJ(m): 4:09pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
very funny. Me I don't joke with that food part o! |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by extremelygolden: 4:09pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
5. Giving your wife silent treatment at any slightest provocation. 8 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Dhurmynick(m): 4:09pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
really really . like you wouldn't deprive ur husby of sex when there's an issue.. and u constantly nag to ur husband which remids him you're a woman.. just like he's telling. you he's the head yh.. like you don't issue threats to take your children away from him. when u hear rumors of another woman.. nd curse nd threaten ur husby most times. please.. like you wouldn't report to his parents if something is wrong God made man first.. we are superior .. you were carved out of us.. u should understand men just like we never understand you .. competition is in every animal kingdom.. u ladies even do it to yourselves keep your cool and go drink beer sumwhr @ women in support besides the woman had to have done something to cause all these.. these behaviours just dnt come out of the blue 72 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by constance500: 4:10pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Nw wey we don knw am...wetin make married couples do...make dem go buy diary dey register any of d traits a member displays abi.... #dabimoseda 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 4:10pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia: Thinking that a virgin bride's poohsie will stay tight for ever! wow not only was that not correlated to the topic, you just made fun of your self and commending it with a lol. This is family section not romance section. 3 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by gidzbobby: 4:11pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
hafi: Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks...... ehen... hungry neva catch ma guy na, that's why.... God know say, they no born ma papa well to even try this 1... cus if he does, we his children are ready to voluntarily eat his meal 9 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by tpia5: 4:11pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia: Thinking that a virgin bride's poohsie will stay tight for ever! Worry about your wife's pussy, dear. As for viagra, she can get that for you and insert it in your bum. Bunch of semi savage nincompoops. 4 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 4:11pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
This article is fit for the dustbin 2 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by latsholly(f): 4:12pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
i quite agree wiv dis write up especially shoutin n naggin dat he is d head of d house. i wish my man reads dis. 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by godello: 4:15pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Ok I don hear. |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Dannylux: 4:15pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Couldn't be truer |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by browncool(m): 4:16pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
A woman who knows how to be soft spoken to her husband and sometimes apologies even when she is not wrong goes a long way to make a marriage unique and I believe no sane man will issue such treats to a well mannered wife 51 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by crownie(m): 4:17pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
@op, I disagree with number 1. Rejecting her food when there's an issue is just to get back at her. It's painful for women when they take time to cook a meal and their husbands don't eat it 5 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by agwo2july: 4:18pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Op is like u r a woman who engaged in offending ur husband and come up here with ur write up on how he react to ur misbehavior? U need to repent, respect and make ur husband happy if not one day, d man will surprise u. Just an advise woman 20 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by OCcool: 4:18pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
extremelygolden: 5. Giving your wife silent treatment at any slightest provocation.would you rather he lash out at her? 4 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by thehunted(m): 4:18pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Got it too from three babes. All of them are single. Single women at work. Why don't they get their own men and stop polluting the mind of married women. The important thing is that after all these quarrels,the husbands and wives still stick together. 2 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by adtiezy1(m): 4:18pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
gidzbobby:crazy fellow 3 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by davades(m): 4:21pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Only yesterday she received my first slap...ladies can annoying at times. We never talk since then |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by venous(f): 4:22pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
crownie: @op, I disagree with number 1. Rejecting her food when there's an issue is just to get back at her. It's painful for women when they take time to cook a meal and their husbands don't eat it u think so? he goes to the pot when I go to bed cos he knows my kitchen standard... so i do not bother when he refuses to eat 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by DICKtator: 4:22pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
So what are signs of immaturity in women? Getting aggressive when it is that time of the month like it was the guy that caused it Gossip Throwing tantrums when she doesn't get what she wants Buying louboutins with the baby's food money Comparing another man with her husband 8 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by deols(f): 4:23pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
OMG! 100likes for OP Let me add more.. *competing with her on who can TALk pass *Referring to matters of the past- I know Op mentioned nagging. *Claiming to be a man- he must have been unsure *comparing her with his mother or any other woman. *being the man that every other girl flocks around - so emasculating. So gay! ***** Some men should be called boys.. 4 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by kokoye(m): 4:23pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
hafi: Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks...... Funny ...some women expect no reaction whatsoever from their husbands when they misbehave. But flip the coin and it's perfectly allowed. We are not make of stone. We may react when you misbehave ...and you are not supposed to like the reaction?? ...deal with it and change your ways...maybe? Stop playing the victim every time. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by sylve11: 4:24pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
@ op, @ no. 5. Only if she'd listen. |
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