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Marriage is ordained by God Himself in the beginning to be between two mature heart i.e a Man and a Woman and not (Man to Man or Woman to Woman)
The Age for marriage is relative depending on various factors ranging from culture ,law of the land and religion. However, irrespective of any belief or culture marriage should be between two person who are mature Physically ,Mentally, Socially,Psychologically and Spiritually and this means that either party must be ready to take responsibilities of their actions when they are no longer under their parents.

Now ,when a lady has attained some maturity stated above and still not married this can be so worrisome and can lead to desperation which is dangerous on it own..to further comprehend my point however, let us demarcate the age bracket of marriageable ladies putting into consideration what the law stipulated which is 18 years and above at least.

a-18 years -25 years...........Very Normal stage

b-26 years -30 years...........Good stage

c-31 years- 35 years...........worrisome stage

d-36 years- 40 years...........Desperate stage

e-41 years and Above..........Dangerously desperate.

Above all, irrespective of the stages God is the only one that can give any man the best gift that will never add sorrow to it.Marrying in an early stage does not necessarily mean you can still marry rightly except God Himself is involved and choose for you, if you fall between the stages c and e above your story is not hopeless at all because you are uniquely and specially created by God for His Glory, it might seems to be late But God can not be late remember that sometimes the best is kept for the last moment and marrying the wrong person due to desperation is worst than not marrying at all...(Speaking from Experience)

NOW TEN THINGS A LADY MUST NOT DO WHEN SHE IS DESPERATE TO GET MARRIED.

1.YOU MUST NOT STOP PRAYING.

2.YOU MUST NOT COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHER MARRIED FRIENDS OF YOUR AGE.

3.YOU MUST NOT HAVE FIXED FIGURE OF THE PERSON YOU WISH TO MARRY OR CREATE A STANDARD FOR YOURSELF.

4.YOU MUST NOT EMBARRASS OR INSULT ANY MAN THAT APPROACH YOU BUT DON'T MAKE HASTY DECISIONS.

5.YOU MUST NOT BE TOO EXPENSIVE IN LOOKS EVEN IF YOU CAN AFFORD TO, BE NEAT AND MODERATE.

6.YOU MUST NOT BE IDLE i.e YOU MUST HAVE A JOB (No man is ready to marry a jobless woman)

7.YOU MUST NOT DEPEND ON YOUR DREAMS OR SYMPATHIZERS DREAMS OR PROPHESY TO CHOOSE OR PICK A MAN (Dreams could be deceptive and can be manipulated by devil)

8.YOU MUST NOT GO TO BED WITH ANY MAN TO SHOW HIM LOVE OR TO PROVE YOUR LOVE FOR HIM (He will dump you with negative passion and believe you have been doing same to other men)

9.YOU MUST NOT DISPLAY YOURSELF IN A SEDUCTIVE WAY TO ATTRACT MEN (They can only be excited by your looks but letter reject your attitude because every man want to marry a decent Girl irrespective of their own waywardness )

10.YOU MUST NOT READ INTIMATE ,FAKE LOVE STORIES MAGAZINES AND BOOKS RELATED TO MARRIAGE WRITTEN BY MEN OF LOW INTEGRITY WHO ONLY MAKE MERCHANDISE OF DESPERATE LADIES . READ THE WORD OF GOD FROM YOUR OWN BIBLE AND GODLY LITERATURE FROM TRUSTED SOURCES.

THE BIBLE SAYS IN Hebrew 13:4 ...Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

BEEN DESPERATION CAN ONLY......
1. Cloud your Thinking ability.
2. Expose you to wrong decision making.
3. Enslave you to Devil's manipulations.
4. Make you feel you are worthless.

BUT BE GLAD BECAUSE GOD KNOWS YOUR PROBLEM GO ON YOUR KNEE CONFESS YOUR SINS AND TELL HIM HE WILL SOLVE IT ALL BECAUSE FOR WITH HIM ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE HE WILL RECOVER FOR YOU EVERYTHING YOU HAVE LOST IN THE PAST...IT IS WELL.

By Jude A

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