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topic closed by pimp213(m): 10:10am On Nov 12, 2013
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Re: topic closed by Ctemi(f): 10:25am On Nov 12, 2013
Its not all gals dt do luv a guy cos of money or material,thr re till decent gals dt luv 4 who u re n not 4 wat u re.
Re: topic closed by pimp213(m): 10:30am On Nov 12, 2013
"Who u are".. "Dangote is my uncle" and they fall.. It is later after they fall that they now see qualities like: the guy is so caring, so romantic.. But but if Dangote is not his uncle they won't even look at him twice.

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Re: topic closed by Ammanda(f): 10:38am On Nov 12, 2013
If you ask me I will also ask you
Why do men lie and spend in other to get women?
If you are a male and cannot get desire woman without lying and spending to impress a woman, I'd say you are not a man and you need to check yourself.
There are women lies and money cannot buy actually, it's just that you need to possess the right qualities to attract them.
Re: topic closed by pimp213(m): 11:08am On Nov 12, 2013
Ammanda :
If you ask me I will also ask you
Why do men lie and spend in other to get women?
If you are a male and cannot get desire woman without lying and spending to impress a woman, I'd say you are not a man and you need to check yourself.
There are women lies and money cannot buy actually, it's just that you need to possess the right qualities to attract them.
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.

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Re: topic closed by vhickky(f): 11:34am On Nov 12, 2013
pimp213:
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.
what a pathetic story.....but the truth is you just havn't met the 'one' yet.....
Re: topic closed by Ammanda(f): 11:38am On Nov 12, 2013
pimp213:
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.
Re: topic closed by Ammanda(f): 11:41am On Nov 12, 2013
pimp213:
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.
u r not lonely becos u r not in a relationship but becos u think u r lonely. @ least u have friends who call u to know how u r doing isn't that friendship enough @ the moment? That they don't want to date you does not mean that u will not meet someone who will date you, at least u said u r not poor of which I expect girls to be flocking around you according to ur earlier post that suggests every girl's concern is money. That your friends lie, spends money to get girls does not mean u should do d same cos u never know what they r getting in return or what they'll get. It'll will pay if you keep developing the right qualities that would attract you to right person when you meet her.
Re: topic closed by Teespice(f): 11:43am On Nov 12, 2013
pimp213: I don't have a girlfriend but I have friends that have uncountable girls they sleep with. I decided to ask them how they do it n guess what they said.. "Lie" or "spend".. The spending part is like indirectly paying for sex.. But it is actually the "lying" part that gets to me coz I want to build a serious relationship based on truth, Ladies why don't you like honest guys?? Why are u after fake guys with fake lives?? Why must my father own an airport before u give me attention?? ..my question is why are ladies all about lying or spending? It's so bad that if u want a girl all u have to do is pretend to be something u r not and she falls..

Too bad. Not all girls are like that.
Re: topic closed by pimp213(m): 11:50am On Nov 12, 2013
@vhickky, that's what they say, I've not met "the one", she's out there searching for me, God's time is the best,.. They are all lies, if u really really want something so badly you can't just sit n wait, you have to go out there and get it ..if not I would be like this till I'm 50yrs old, still looking for "the one".. It is about time I summon courage and "lie", "deceive" and "pretend".. it might not be a part of me to be deceitful but it is my only chance to find love, fake love, just so my lonely days would end, and at least I would finally be able to hold someone in my arms and say "I love u"..

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Re: topic closed by zeekz(m): 12:37pm On Nov 12, 2013
Op, I don't blame u for anything but I am certain d gals u ask out ar mostly uni gals or gals that ar beautiful and feel dey ar worth more dan dey actually ar, I believe if u set a certain standard for ur type of lady u will get a good one and If u really need a good woman dnt just set ur standard for only beautiful gals, widen ur search (if u knw wat I mean).

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Re: topic closed by ednut1(m): 1:51pm On Nov 12, 2013
Op stop consoling ur self, uve refused to work on ur self, instead u took solace in p0Rn, jst look at ur signatures , wankin sucks bro

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Re: topic closed by EzePromoe: 2:35pm On Nov 12, 2013
Ammanda :
If you ask me I will also ask you
Why do men lie and spend in other to get women?
If you are a male and cannot get desire woman without lying and spending to impress a woman, I'd say you are not a man and you need to check yourself.
There are women lies and money cannot buy actually, it's just that you need to possess the right qualities to attract them.
The best answer so far.

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Re: topic closed by kagari: 3:23pm On Nov 12, 2013
Dis Op must be a poet

the whole stuff sounds like a poem to me
Re: topic closed by Dygeasy(m): 3:36pm On Nov 12, 2013
Ammanda :
u r not lonely becos u r not in a relationship but becos u think u r lonely. @ least u have friends who call u to know how u r doing isn't that friendship enough @ the moment? That they don't want to date you does not mean that u will not meet someone who will date you, at least u said u r not poor of which I expect girls to be flocking around you according to ur earlier post that suggests every girl's concern is money. That your friends lie, spends money to get girls does not mean u should do d same cos u never know what they r getting in return or what they'll get. It'll will pay if you keep developing the right qualities that would attract you to right person when you meet her.
At 25 Puleeeaaaseee

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Re: topic closed by DeHero1: 3:50pm On Nov 12, 2013
@OP

I would have commented... but when I saw ur username and signature, I know d kind of person u ar... NUNS3NZ
Re: topic closed by vhickky(f): 7:38pm On Nov 12, 2013
pimp213: @vhickky, that's what they say, I've not met "the one", she's out there searching for me, God's time is the best,.. They are all lies, if u really really want something so badly you can't just sit n wait, you have to go out there and get it ..if not I would be like this till I'm 50yrs old, still looking for "the one".. It is about time I summon courage and "lie", "deceive" and "pretend".. it might not be a part of me to be deceitful but it is my only chance to find love, fake love, just so my lonely days would end, and at least I would finally be able to hold someone in my arms and say "I love u"..
the patient dog eats the fattest bone, I'll advice you to wait and try to improve on wat is lacking in your attitude and every thing will be just fine.......
Re: topic closed by Ruq: 9:13pm On Nov 12, 2013
vhickky: the patient dog eats the fattest bone, I'll advice you to wait and try to improve on wat is lacking in your attitude and every thing will be just fine.......


Naah the patient dog this days dies of hunger.

I think the Op has been made with his Siggy.

am almost like you only younger, and like someone said if you gat wonga the P won't be hard at all. they'll be the one flocking around, and that's what am working towards.

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Re: topic closed by Ucheosefoh(m): 9:20pm On Nov 12, 2013
@op u dnt have to spend to get a galfriend all u need is to up ur game I once date four gals at once without spending (cus I dnt money to spend on anybody) untill I was captioned by luv I decide to dump others and focus on the one I luv, like a poster said ealier u have to stop limiting ur search only on beautiful gals

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Re: topic closed by pimp213(m): 6:05am On Nov 13, 2013
Ruq:


Naah the patient dog this days dies of hunger.

I think the Op has been made with his Siggy.

am almost like you only younger, and like someone said if you gat wonga the P won't be hard at all. they'll be the one flocking around, and that's what am working towards.
Nice one mahn!.. Nice1 cool, plus you don't sound anything like me, u won't have any problems getting girls with this u just said.. My mistake was always believing one true love will magically walk into my life.. The patient dog really dies of hunger..
Re: topic closed by fairygeh(f): 7:07am On Nov 13, 2013
pimp213:
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.
. Is that why you are so addicted to po rn?its all over your signature.smh.maybe the girls you ask out see that you are too engrossed with por nography.
Re: topic closed by dahmie2013: 7:28am On Nov 13, 2013
But guy u tink sey e easy 2 be fine! U ask a babe out cos her phyiscal qualities attracted u,dat costs a lot 2 put dem 2geda.

Ur focus shudnt be a babe nw, but money. Work hard & get d doe. U'll see dose gals even calling u casually will be saying tins like "I was dere wen he had nothing". Guy, dere are sometins dat can't change hw ever way we wish dem 2.

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Re: topic closed by troy20(m): 7:53am On Nov 13, 2013
op i see what you are doing there nice guy
Re: topic closed by pimp213(m): 8:45am On Nov 13, 2013
dahmie2013: But guy u tink sey e easy 2 be fine! U ask a babe out cos her phyiscal qualities attracted u,dat costs a lot 2 put dem 2geda.

Ur focus shudnt be a babe nw, but money. Work hard & get d doe. U'll see dose gals even calling u casually will be saying tins like "I was dere wen he had nothing". Guy, dere are sometins dat can't change hw ever way we wish dem 2.
True. Thanks! smiley
Re: topic closed by Danhumprey: 9:05am On Nov 13, 2013
pimp213: I don't have a girlfriend but I have friends that have uncountable girls they sleep with. I decided to ask them how they do it n guess what they said.. "Lie" or "spend".. The spending part is like indirectly paying for sex.. But it is actually the "lying" part that gets to me coz I want to build a serious relationship based on truth, Ladies why don't you like honest guys?? Why are u after fake guys with fake lives?? Why must my father own an airport before u give me attention?? ..my question is why are ladies all about lying or spending? It's so bad that if u want a girl all u have to do is pretend to be something u r not and she falls..
Bro,you're not far from the truth. That is exactly what is going on and a greater percentage of Naija gals(about 80% )are guilty of this. They're just money conscious,thinking about how they can make a maga out of you. Though I want to believe that there are still decent gals,but they are few and far inbetween. The rest of them wouldn't mind swallowing a lie,so long as they are sure that they can make a maga out of you. Such gals have childish behaviour,and they are the one who turn nice guys into players.

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Re: topic closed by EejaNla01(m): 9:22am On Nov 13, 2013
What we keep reading online is"you haven't meet the right ones,change the type of girls you chase"but offline its another story,
The issue is those beautiful blackberry Brazilian hair babes(B4)believe they are too beautiful and expensive to settle for less,no be small money finish their look,that's why they ill always friend zone normal guys.
Its better you go for the decent beautiful girls that looks for personality.
Re: topic closed by Yahoo1(m): 9:34am On Nov 13, 2013
pimp213:
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.
*crying*...am sorry bro,but to some you don't need to lie...
Re: topic closed by Yahoo1(m): 9:40am On Nov 13, 2013
NL sef.....when you post a topic,they first observe you...check your profile....but OP...if you find solace in porn,why are you complaining? i'm not gonna judge you....all i'm goin to say is...you need to start searching,you were just looking before..now you need to start searching.

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Re: topic closed by zuchyblink(m): 4:51pm On Nov 13, 2013
pimp213:
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.
i'm 25 yrs old and ur story is exactly my story.a friend of mine has more than 30 girls(f*ck buddies)he shines their congo because he is a very good liar.we work in a federal hospital and he tells them he is a medical doctor,and they fall yakata,while we are not medical doctors

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Re: topic closed by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 13, 2013
pimp213:
I will tell you why men lie and spend to get ladies, they do it so they don't end up like me, lonely!! I am 25 with no girlfriend, what is the right quality??, I am not handicap, I am not crippled. All the girls I have asked out claim I have all the so called "right qualities" but they still can't date me, they won't date me, why?? They say I'm sweet, thoughtful, caring.. But they won't date me!, why? I am not poor!, so why won't they date me, they like me so much they call me just to ask how my day was, just friends, that's all they can be to me. You know why? Coz I don't lie, I refuse to lie, that's my mistake, being honest is my big mistake. So u see why guys lie n spend to get girls? So they don't end up like me, a lonely 25yr old with no girlfriend.
guy the reason u are not in a romantic relationship with girlz is because u dnt create attraction,because you have poor/no sexy body language,because u are too caring.Getting girlz to fall in love with you romantically/sexually is a "mind" thing and not necessarily based on money or looks{these are just bonus}.The problem is you and not the girls,you are not creating that attraction they need,ofcos u av to lead,you dnt expect a lady to lead you and that is the problem,u want the girlz to lead you which they hate.if u dnt lead,if u are too submissive,girlz will take you for just friends or a BOIBOI{they would say sumtin like "he's just a brother to me"}.Let me tell you sumtin,girlz hate it when you dnt act as a Man,they will never be attracted to you.pheeew.Sum guyz will never get it,girlz are not attracted to mr nice guys,they are attracted to bad guyz,and when i mean bad guyz i mean guyz who understands females and their body language,guy who respond to sexy body language and create a kind of romantic connected.ewww.sum guyz won't just get it.

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Re: topic closed by Nobody: 5:04pm On Nov 13, 2013
vhickky: what a pathetic story.....but the truth is you just havn't met the 'one' yet.....
u too,u dnt even get it,it is not a matter of "u'v not met the right one".its sumtin of the mind.

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Re: topic closed by lance4luv(m): 12:03pm On Nov 14, 2013
From the looks of things, no one is perfect, we all try, and that "try" is similar to "pretend", which is deceit. So being yourself would be wrong, it's like saying you want to walk out náked, after all why do you wear cloths?, to cover your body from "others". You live for "others", whether you like it or not, directly or indirectly you live to please others. That's just life. Don't try to fight it. Accept it and move on. A little white lie won't kill u wink

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