Yemlizzy: Its a personal choice to make all depending on the man in question as infidelity is not inborn.

wazobia_for_u: He has a very good point for those that want to be sincere with nature, it takes only self discipline not to have more than one wife or partner.

We see many pastors and Islamic scholars that really wanted to have one wife but find themselves in a very sex drives tight corner that is very hard to control and have more than one at the end .

It's only discipline, self satisfaction and love that can make one to have one partner

wazobia_for_u: He has a very good point for those that want to be sincere with nature, it takes only self discipline not to have more than one wife or partner.

We see many pastors and Islamic scholars that really wanted to have one wife but find themselves in a very sex drives tight corner that is very hard to control and have more than one at the end .

It's only discipline, self satisfaction and love that can make one to have one partner

uboma:

You just hit the nail on the head sis.

lorretta u: I wonder why a man who doesn't know how a woman really feels will come out and say men are built that way while
Women aren't
Truth is women have as much propensity to cheat as men. Believe it or not.
Many women don't cheat because they have been taught that it's unladylike.
Meaning that it's only a thing of the mind. With the right orientation,anyone can be celibate or monogamous.

It'll really be a sight to behold the look on the men's faces the day it will divinely be revealed to them what their women are doing behind their backs. (at least paternity tests are trying small)

My point, if you're a man and you believe you're naturally wired to cheat but your woman isn't, you're on a very long thing. Walahi
If she's not cheating,it because she loves and respects you not because she loves sexx less than you do.
Be wise. You have just as much potential of being cheated on by your woman as she has of being cheated on by you.

uboma:

You just hit the nail on the head sis.

50calibre:


This is what I call self deceit!! You must be deceiving yourself, if you think women got same propensity to cheat as men, maybe you need to study your biology more. 9 out of 10, a man is more likely to cheat.

The male gender, not just of humans, but other animals, are hardwired to cheat & mate with as many females as possible, while the females are much more family-oriented. Women have the inherent quality of keeping the family unit together, it's inborn. Today you see most women refusing to go into relationships with no future potential, while men just want a sha*g, it's nature, it's how the balance is maintained.

Besides women aren't always moved by the physical, many other factors matters more, whereas men are. Women got more self respect & pride than men, a man will sha*g anything shaggable, women won't. When last did you see a woman shagg*ing her driver?

So Akon is right!!

uboma:

You just hit the nail on the head sis.

lorretta u: I wonder why a man who doesn't know how a woman really feels will come out and say men are built that way while
Women aren't
Truth is women have as much propensity to cheat as men. Believe it or not.
Many women don't cheat because they have been taught that it's unladylike.
Meaning that it's only a thing of the mind. With the right orientation,anyone can be celibate or monogamous.

It'll really be a sight to behold the look on the men's faces the day it will divinely be revealed to them what their women are doing behind their backs. (at least paternity tests are trying small)

My point, if you're a man and you believe you're naturally wired to cheat but your woman isn't, you're on a very long thing. Walahi
If she's not cheating,it because she loves and respects you not because she loves sexx less than you do.
Be wise. You have just as much potential of being cheated on by your woman as she has of being cheated on by you.

DailyNews: 1. How many times have u asked guys out or seen a beautiful girl chasing guys (not 1 or 3 guys, I mean plenty guys)? But are u aware that an average guy who isn't a born again or sth related to that by the time he is 25yrs must have asked nothing less than 20 girls out

nbright: @DailyNews... I am not a born again and I have Never asked any girl out... I just don't like embarassment so I stick to myself... Most aren't cultured

lorretta u: I wonder why a man who doesn't know how a woman really feels will come out and say men are built that way while
Women aren't
Truth is women have as much propensity to cheat as men. Believe it or not.
Many women don't cheat because they have been taught that it's unladylike.
Meaning that it's only a thing of the mind. With the right orientation,anyone can be celibate or monogamous.

It'll really be a sight to behold the look on the men's faces the day it will divinely be revealed to them what their women are doing behind their backs. (at least paternity tests are trying small)

My point, if you're a man and you believe you're naturally wired to cheat but your woman isn't, you're on a very long thing. Walahi
If she's not cheating,it because she loves and respects you not because she loves sexx less than you do.
Be wise. You have just as much potential of being cheated on by your woman as she has of being cheated on by you.

abdulkayus: Someone at linda ikeji was sayin that even great men in old testament bible are polygamists. Hw true is it?

50calibre:


This is what I call self deceit!! You must be deceiving yourself, if you think women got same propensity to cheat as men, maybe you need to study your biology more. 9 out of 10, a man is more likely to cheat.

The male gender, not just of humans, but other animals, are hardwired to cheat & mate with as many females as possible, while the females are much more family-oriented. Women have the inherent quality of keeping the family unit together, it's inborn. Today you see most women refusing to go into relationships with no future potential, while men just want a sha*g, it's nature, it's how the balance is maintained.

Besides women aren't always moved by the physical, many other factors matters more, whereas men are. Women got more self respect & pride than men, a man will sha*g anything shaggable, women won't. When last did you see a woman shagg*ing her driver?

So Akon is right!!

DailyNews: since u believe that women are also born polygamous, I want to ask u some questions, pls answer honestly.

1. How many times have u asked guys out or seen a beautiful girl chasing guys (not 1 or 3 guys, I mean plenty guys)? But are u aware that an average guy who isn't a born again or sth related to that by the time he is 25yrs must have asked nothing less than 20 girls out

2. Have u ever paid a guy just to have sex with u before or have u seen plenty of your beautiful girlfriends paying guys to have sex with them

But do u know that an average guy who isn't a born again or sth related has wished/attempted or paid nothing less than 3 different girls to just have sex with him

3. Do u know that an average guy who isn't a born again or sth related to that is ready to have sex with any good-looking girl he comes across at any given time and place

But I am sure an average girl isn't wired that way...

4. Do u know that if there are 100 men in a community and there are also 100 women in that same community, with 10 men as leaders and 10 women as leaders, 100 of those men wouldn't mind mating with 100 of the women, but 100 of the women would only want to mate with 10 of the men in leadership and maybe some few selected men amongst the 100.

What am I trying to say here? Women are selective in their choice of sex partner whereas men aren't, another reason that tells u that men are polygamist.

lorretta u: I really do not have a case against any of both your opinions
Nor do I argue that your observations are wrong cos I too have observed same
The only thing I'm saying is that it is not a thing of nature. It is a thing of environment.
Cos women are expected to be that way,most are.
Cos men are excused to be that way,most are.
Or how do you explain that women in very sexzually liberal societies tend to be more openly promiscous than their counterparts in conservative societies?
Conformity!
It may not matter that women aren't aggressive like men in pursuit of partners. What matters is in the end who gets laid more?
Of course I don't and will never endorse promiscuity in any body (especially not a woman. Cos just like the others,I've been taught that we women need to keep our legs closed and I grew up with that)

Em 50,that your arguement about female animals being selective in partners is as wrong as they come
They get shagged in just the same random manner as their males partners .

50calibre:

Nah! That's not what I said, go back & read the first part of my post again.

Besides even to take you up on what you said here, you are wrong. Maybe you should go back to your biology, study animal behaviours, evolution etc you'd understand what I mean.

In a typical competitive animal habitat, females are selective as hell, they go for the strongest stock, even the males sometimes have to engage in a bloody battle to get a female. Most male animals don't stick with their families, they mate with a female, & then runs of in search of another female, leaving the females to nurture her kids.

abdulkayus: African culture also recognise man has polygamous in nature, until wen xtianity come and abolish it bt Islam still recognise polygamy of up to 4 wives if d husband will be able to do justice between dem.
Bt some Africans no send at all, dey still go for d polygamy despite d ban by xtainity.

abdulkayus: African culture also recognise man has polygamous in nature, until wen xtianity come and abolish it bt Islam still recognise polygamy of up to 4 wives if d husband will be able to do justice between dem.
Bt some Africans no send at all, dey still go for d polygamy despite d ban by xtainity.

50calibre:

Nah! That's not what I said, go back & read the first part of my post again.

Besides even to take you up on what you said here, you are wrong. Maybe you should go back to your biology, study animal behaviours, evolution etc you'd understand what I mean.

In a typical competitive animal habitat, females are selective as hell, they go for the strongest stock, even the males sometimes have to engage in a bloody battle to get a female. Most male animals don't stick with their families, they mate with a female, & then runs of in search of another female, leaving the females to nurture her kids.