Wow wow wow...this said alot about me.all the above illustrates the kind of person i am.that's just the way i am

1,2,3,4,5,7,8,9,10,11,13 describes me...esp 11. Bliv it or not!

interesting!

Peter262: am mentally and sexually strong

Mumu...who ask u?

I'm good to go then...guess I'm the strongest man here.

sandijey:

Thankyou! Are u a psychologist?

Nope but i have met many

victorazy: Thank God am mentally strong
Unlike "Depressionkills" and Selfworth"

LOL
It is not about strength, it is about endurance

Richiy: If a female exhibits these traits, all these nl men wud say they r domineering and status-conscious, and therefore unmarriageable. Btw, av always been mentally strong.

This is sooooooo true, most men who claim to be mentally strong are terrified by women who stand up to them. In reality, they are very fragile and have to live up to high standards of masculine delusions of the alpha male that erode their easily bruised ego.

cosify: A mentally strong female shuld exhibit characteristics that are not always the same with those of men. e.g she shuld not talk too much or unguardedly, or react rudely, but she shuld be frank sometimes.She shuld not be easily influenced.

^^^^ case in point. if a man is scared of a woman simply because she talks, what strength is that?
Anyway, all of this is rubbish

BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!...EXCUSE ME!...Our "softwares" are different...,because we experience different things that mold & shape us into whatever we turn out to be...PERIOD!

A near perfect description of myself, 11/13

Yeah,you're correct. You're talking about me right there.

Richiy: If a female exhibits these traits, all these nl men wud say they r domineering and status-conscious, and therefore unmarriageable. Btw, av always been mentally strong.

Well said!

12/13 for me. The only one I missed is that I sometimes repeat similar mistakes.

U tried sha

[b][/b]but it doesn't make u mentally weak if u don't possess everyone of d characteristics mentioned, does it?

Jeez, this tensed feeling while reading... This is me 100%!!! Am I surprised? I really can't say.
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My philosophy: "(just like a computer) hack yourself and take FULL control... You don't let 'programs' you don't want run and overwhelm you. When you 'hack' your life, you install and run any 'program' you desire in your life.

So if they don't do all these. What do they do?

masonkz: Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. Check out these things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become more mentally strong.

1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves
Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair.

2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power
They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.

3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change
Mentally strong people don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. They understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control
You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone
Mentally strong people recognize that they don’t need to please everyone all the time. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.

6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks
They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.

7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past
Mentally strong people don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it. However, they don’t constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.

8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over
Mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.

9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success
Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure
Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.

11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time
Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive. They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.

12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything
Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.

13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results
Whether they are working on improving their health or getting a new business off the ground, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.


http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/13-things-mentally-strong-people-dont.html

Are you mentally strong? Yup. I think I am.

I think I'm on the right thread this morning,
Nice

quite informative page saved.

8/13

depressionkills:

This is sooooooo true, most men who claim to be mentally strong are challenged by women who stand up to them. In reality, they are very fragile and have to live up to high standards of masculine delusions the alpha persona that incite their easily bruised ego.

Fixed! but u try sha

i have issues with 7 and 13...am slightly not in-control of them...I reflect a lot...I want to see results most time..

14. mentally strong people remember their hommies way back in the struggle and hustle.. when they make it 2 the top....

I take issue with points 3, 4 and 8 but other than that I'm cool with the list.

12 out of 13(Not bad)
But I always expect fast results.Should that be a weakness?I dont think so.

just like a finger point right to my face on each point and a voice says, that's you... Exactly me... Mentally Strong!!

hmmm e mak sense die...

My Sub.

Now I know am mentally strong.

Actualy, seriously, I scored 15/13.. cos there's 2mo unlistd traits I got in me added 2d abov alredy-listed ones.

14. Mentaly strong pple dnt allow their spouses 2influenc or waiver their personal career/business decisions in life. They'ld rather be divorced, separated, remain single, or even 2an extreme extent, maintain an enstranged mariage/home rather than give in 2 forced impositions on career status or choice by their partner.

15. Mentally strong pple dnt celebrat or throw parties wen targets or set goals ar only half- or partialy-achievd. They remain focused & even bcom more dsciplined in pursuit of goals dt wil actualize evry set objective in life.

In my category, add yours...

21173 views and just over a 100 post me thinks the 21000 odd that viewed this thread are definitely NOT mentally strong