i just happened to be where two guys were arguing yesterday. a frnd of theirs will be getting married soon, the soon to be wife has had 3 abortions for only one guy in d past, and dis her present guy loves her so much dat he didnt bother about d bad tin she has done in d past, though, she is now a changed person. so one of dis two guys dat were arguing was like even dou him chop witch, he no fit marry dat kind gal, d oda one sed noting can stop him from loving a gal even dou sha has murdered b4. so guys, let me hear ur minds. can you marry a gal who has had 3 abortions for one same guy

She is honest datz y she told u,sum had 8 and kept shut,u wuld just conclude she is a saint!

You are not serious Op,do you honestly think a girl would tell you she has had abortion before? Unless you catch her red handed,she will never confess to you out of freewill.

It amazes me that birth control is frowned upon in Nigeria, but abortion is so freely available.

3 for only one guy? She loves him

Plot number 5 again?

If she's over the guy she had abortion for , why not? But if she still loves him it's a nono because the titanic love has to be involved to risk your life not once,twice but five times for a guy, if she still loves him she could cheat in the future but if she's over him why not?

Well if her womb is still functioning why not?

If she is repentant and truthful about the situation, why not ignore the part and go ahead? what of you fine out after 10 years of marriage?

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We all make mistakes, so people shouldn't be judged based on their past. We all change and develop, hopefully for the better..

Yet, I don't understand how girls can be so careless and get pregnant without wanting it. We live in the 21st century, we know enough NOT to have unwanted pregnancies. I have always said, if a girl doesn't want to get pregnant, she won't. If she does, it's her own fault.

If this your friend loves the girl and believes that she'll make a good wife, he should go ahead and marry her. My best wishes. I respect his decision.

YES YES YES provided :

* the engine are still functioning well

* she is not into the ex guy because ladies can be so funny to still think the guy have an impact in their life and they get confused when he's back on his kneel

To me having three abortions to same guy shows loyalty,it just happened n dey had to flush it out n dat was in the past u know...Now she's more responsibility, y discriminating? If I truly love her,I definitely wud marry her,d past is bygone,d future remains the target

Sheenor: HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

y cant u

iropelebe: You are not serious Op,do you honestly think a girl would tell you she has had abortion before? Unless you catch her red handed,she will never confess to you out of freewill.

for the record i knw of two people who actually did dat

bknight: 3 for only one guy? She loves him

Plot number 5 again?

wat do u mean

am actually suprised lots of guys are saying they would marry d gal. owing to our nigerian culture i tot 95% of guys would say they wouldnt. dat means we hv men on NL who are true lovers. thumb up 4 u guys

This is a clear case of "who them catch na him be thief". My brother if you had a way of finding out how many abortions every girl you know has had, you would be shocked. What i'm saying in essence is simple, most girls have had at least a single abortion before marriage but if you don't come across the info one way or the other, you won't know. So yes I can marry such a girl if everything in her is fully functional, womb and all.
My question now is this, what is the concern here? Is it the number of abortions or the fact that they were all due to the same guy?
By the way, I keep wondering what some folks think contraceptives are for. Na wa...

hmmmmmm