pls what's the average cost for an introduction...just introduction...not with engagement o?

what are the requirement the groom-to-be is expected to take along and how much does it cost in the average?

is it allowed at this stage for the couple-to-be wear the same cloth?

Oh well, it all depends on where your fiancée is from.

Where I come from, they have a well laid out list. So, you don't have to start asking what to buy. You collect the list, buy the things meant for only intro and take them down there. So let your fiancée ask her father what their intro entails.

As for wearing "uniform", i wouldn't advise that, not at this stage. Wear different outfits for now. You have ample time to wear "Andco".

Phema: Oh well, it all depends on where your fiancée is from.

Where I come from, they have a well laid out list. So, you don't have to start asking what to buy. You collect the list, buy the things meant for only intro and take them down there. So let your fiancée ask her father what their intro entails.

As for wearing "uniform", i wouldn't advise that, not at this stage. Wear different outfits for now. You have ample time to wear "Andco".

thanks.. she's a Yoruba girl ...i have asked her but she said they only have list for engagement but that i should think of buying 2 basket of fruits and some soft drinks

MyJwell:

thanks.. she's a Yoruba girl ...i have asked her but she said they only have list for engagement but that i should think of buying 2 basket of fruits and some soft drinks

you need about N10,000.
fruits & soft drinks & a bit of general knowledge of her family. you would be asked to identify some members of her family by their names.

MyJwell:

thanks.. she's a Yoruba girl ...i have asked her but she said they only have list for engagement but that i should think of buying 2 basket of fruits and some soft drinks

Reason I said it depends on the culture. The items the groom-to-be will bring for introduction in my place include;

* 3 Gallons of Palm wine
* 5 Cartons of Beer
* 3 bottles of Hot drink
* 1 carton of Malt drink.

Where I come from, you only go with fruits and soft drink if its an informal visit, that is, just going to know your fiancée's family/people.

Again, let your fiancée ask her father. He should know better.

Simple.. The girl should ask her people..
So you will not make any mistake..

An introduction in my place costs a bottle of St Remy,she should confirm from her dad.

thanks @ all

coogar:

you need about N10,000.
fruits & soft drinks & a bit of general knowledge of her family. you would be asked to identify some members of her family by their names.

thanks about the part of her family members name...i never thought of that

Phema:

Reason I said it depends on the culture. The items the groom-to-be will bring for introduction in my place include;

* 3 Gallons of Palm wine
* 5 Cartons of Beer
* 3 bottles of Hot drink
* 1 carton of Malt drink.

Where I come from, you only go with fruits and soft drink if its an informal visit, that is, just going to know your fiancée's family/people.

Again, let your fiancée ask her father. He should know better.

whao! ...just for introduction?...i'm not talking about the main engagement na!

free

Wait ooooo, lemme get this. . . Engagement is same as Traditional marriage right? When you do the main wine carrying and paying of bride price?

50k will do for drinks and light refreshments

Phema: Wait ooooo, lemme get this. . . Engagement is same as Traditional marriage right? When you do the main wine carrying and paying of bride price?

Yes that's Engagement...Traditional wedding...but the one i'm talking about is just the introduction ceremony...where the groom-to-be is introduced to the bride-to-be family officially for the first time

MyJwell:

Yes that's Engagement...Traditional wedding...but the one i'm talking about is just the introduction ceremony...where the groom-to-be is introduced to the bride-to-be family officially for the first time

I was correct then. Did my intro few weeks ago so I should know better. The groom-to-be had to provide those items i listed above, which came to about 30k in all.

Different strokes for different folks sha.

It depends

Cut your coat according to your cloth

You can decide to spend more or less in respective of how your pocket weighs

Contact your fiancee family for the list...

Phema:

Reason I said it depends on the culture. The items the groom-to-be will bring for introduction in my place include;

* 3 Gallons of Palm wine
* 5 Cartons of Beer
* 3 bottles of Hot drink
* 1 carton of Malt drink.

Where I come from, you only go with fruits and soft drink if its an informal visit, that is, just going to know your fiancée's family/people.

Again, let your fiancée ask her father. He should know better.

kilode ke? Kiloletoyen una wan open bar

everyday: 50k will do for drinks and light refreshments

thats reasonable

kulyie: kilode ke? Kiloletoyen una wan open bar

kulyie: kilode ke? Kiloletoyen una wan open bar

i fear o!

kilopo! i dont know o. i'll ask my babalawo...

veave: kilopo! i dont know o. i'll ask my babalawo...

Ha! babalawo ke!...abeg o.

MyJwell:

i fear o!

your fear fear me too o

Wait ooooo, lemme get this. . . Engagement is same as Traditional marriage right? When you do the main wine carrying and paying of bride price?

Funny you..Traditional Marriage is the proper Marriage and most important of all... You can engage your partner the introduction.. I just wonder what most people think!