Lots of women ask me this question "how to break a GUY up without causing too much drama?".

Well... it's never easy or pleasant to hurt someone but there are ways to end a relationship that ease the agony while establishing firm boundaries... and I'm gong to show you how.

You know the time has come. He just isn't the one for you and you know you're going to break his heart. He's been swooning over you for months and as much as you like hanging out with him, in the end, he simply doesn't rock your boat. The excitement you felt when you first started going out left some time ago. He's been pressuring you for more time and more commitment but you simply resist. It's gotten to the point when you start to avoid his phone calls and are easily annoyed with his anxious requests.

So at this point the key challenge becomes how to get off the relationship without much drama with him... Right?

Here are some guidelines to follow BUT first this has to be "a face-to-face-thing" not via a phone call. In that conversation and process follow these guides:

1. Don't make it about him.

When you tell someone that he is "too this or not enough that" two reactions can occur. One, he can become defensive and attack you in return. Things can quickly turn ugly. And two, it gives him the opportunity to promise to be "more of this or less of that." This can make an uncomfortable conversation even more uncomfortable as he pleads for another chance to make things better.

2. Make it about you. It's really about you anyway.

Let him know that you are the reason things didn't work out — either you do not want the same things that he wants or you are unable to meet his needs and wants. It's hard to argue with that and it's the truth anyway.

3. Do NOT give him any hope that you will feel differently in the future.

Make the ending final. Be kind, but firm. Give him the freedom to let go and move on with his life.

4. Do NOT agree to see him or talk to him after you end the conversation.

Even if he begs to see you one last time. Even if you miss him and his devotion to you, do not reach out. Make it a clean break. Remember guideline 3 listed above.

5. Take the time to reflect on what this relationship has taught you about yourself, your needs, your challenges, etc.

Take this learning and apply it to your next new love interest. Appreciate the "gifts" that this person has given you. Appreciate the lessons that the relationship provided. Send him off with love and gratitude.

I'm sure if women follow this guidelines, things will more likely go off smoothly.

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u are so on point,i feel so trapped because i dont want to hurt him,he is so nice but nt just 4 me.

nice 1 op evritin should be calm and simple

evagreenbabe: u are so on point,i feel so trapped because i dont want to hurt him,he is so nice but nt just 4 me.

just try wat op said, i feel sometimes its nt all about him being so nice since u no he is nt just 4 u let him go d earlier d beta u ll feel hurt urself tho but u ll be fyn

To me, it's a waste of time practicing the essays written by the OP

If I'm tired of a relationship after trying to make it work, I'll call the girl over and tell her that the relationship is not working or not gonna work. That we have to give each other space or simply tell her "I'm tired. The relationship is not working so I'm quitting it". Give her reasons for quitting and that's it. no beating around the bush. Someone is gonna get. Hurt for every heartbreak, simple