A mysterious guy is one that is always seen sitting at a corner of a social gathering,he avoids being the center of attention,a loner,not dependent on anyone and always not needy,he spends a lot of time in deep thoughts because he is always alone,he talks little and hardly talks,he is confident,calm and cool even when in a difficult or stressing situations and with good emotional control.

From my view i think he should be attractive because he makes girls to wonder like "why does he never talk about himself?,why can't i figure this guy out?,who is this guy?
The question now is "are they attractive to you as a girl"

Yes girls get attracted to mysterious guys initially, but after a while it fades and the attraction could turn to irritation

I concur with u. Imagine a guy that wont joke wit me. They are always unpredictable.

Godmother: Yes girls get attracted to mysterious guys initially, but after a while it fades and the attraction could turn to irritation

I'm mysterious guy because I'm exactly what you talked about.
.. I don't care if I'm not attractive to them.....

Mystery is attractive only when you can continue renewing your act. We are all curious beings

A lady can be attracted to the aura of mystery, hoping to get close to him, break him and know the real "Him"

When she fails, then it will become irritation.

Disclaimer>>>>My view

Godmother: Yes girls get attracted to mysterious guys initially, but after a while it fades and the attraction could turn to irritation

hmmm,,,,,nice one but if d guy approach d girl and quickly befriend her,it shouldnt turn to irritation.

Adaobi12: I concur with u. Imagine a guy that wont joke wit me. They are always unpredictable.

if he befriend you nko,you wont get irritated but rather have more interest in him.

Prince adebayo: if he befriend you nko,you wont get irritated but rather have more interest in him.

And Over A Period Of Time The Interest Would Be lost

Prince adebayo: hmmm,,,,,nice one but if d guy approach d girl and quickly befriend her,it shouldnt turn to irritation.

Your Definition Of A 'Mysterious' Guy Wouldn't Do That.

Dygeasy: And Over A Period Of Time The Interest Would Be lostYour Definition Of A 'Mysterious' Guy Wouldn't Do That.

You cant be so sure that the interest would be lost,during the course of figuring out the guy,the girl is likely to fall for him.
Mysterious guys are unpredictable thats why they will continue to be interesting,you will never know when they will break their own patterns for one reason or the other but not frequently though,a guy that wont be breaking the patterns will be tagged as "boring" which is initially not a characteristic of being mysterious.

Prince adebayo: You cant be so sure that the interest would be lost,during the course of figuring out the guy,the girl is likely to fall for him.
Mysterious guys are unpredictable thats why they will continue to be interesting,you will never know when they will break their own patterns for one reason or the other but not frequently though,a guy that wont be breaking the patterns will be tagged as "boring" which is initially not a characteristic of being mysterious.

Oh Well..

I'm No Lady. Let Them Speak For Themselves

Rexphobia: Mystery is attractive only when you can continue renewing your act. We are all curious beings

A lady can be attracted to the aura of mystery, hoping to get close to him, break him and know the real "Him"

When she fails, then it will become irritation.

Disclaimer>>>>My view

i can learn from this post that if you continue to renew your act by breaking the patterns seldomly,you will forever be mysterious,unpredictability is a very important characteristic.

Dygeasy: Oh Well..

I'm No Lady. Let Them Speak For Themselves

Abi naa

Which one too is mysterious again?He can be as mysterious as he want so far as he is well loaded and ready to dish out cash for my xmas shopping.mysterious ko,misery ni?Abeg no time

Popowaa: Which one too is mysterious again?He can be as mysterious as he want so far as he is well loaded and ready to dish out cash for my xmas shopping.mysterious ko,misery ni?Abeg no time

hehehehe,,,,,,,lori xmas shopping yi naa,you wan buy evrytin finish for market ni,God will see us through o.

Prince adebayo: hehehehe,,,,,,,lori xmas shopping yi naa,you wan buy evrytin finish for market ni,God will see us through o.

Hw is your pocket?

Popowaa: Hw is your pocket?

extra-loaded

Prince adebayo: extra-loaded

When do we go for christmas shopping?

Popowaa: When do we go for christmas shopping?

Unfortunately for u,i hav already gone for d shopping personally.

Rexphobia: Mystery is attractive only when you can continue renewing your act. We are all curious beings

A lady can be attracted to the aura of mystery, hoping to get close to him, break him and know the real "Him"

When she fails, then it will become irritation.

Disclaimer>>>>My view

sensibly summarized !

And when the Irritation doesn't have any Impact on the Mysterious guy, it becomes ?

Mysteriousness is for kids abeg! Nothing is sweeter than being yourself and letting a person fall for the reall you. Why go through the hassle of renewing yourself *phew* . Just see it this way, if a person sees the real you and cannot accept you then they are not worth your time as well. *my view*

Godmother: Mysteriousness is for kids abeg! Nothing is sweeter than being yourself and letting a person fall for the reall you. Why go through the hassle of renewing yourself *phew* . Just see it this way, if a person sees the real you and cannot accept you then they are not worth your time as well. *my view*

hmmm,,,,nice one ma'am but adults too can be naturally or rather genetically mysterious.

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abeg take am easy o

Godmother: Mysteriousness is for kids abeg! Nothing is sweeter than being yourself and letting a person fall for the reall you. Why go through the hassle of renewing yourself *phew* . Just see it this way, if a person sees the real you and cannot accept you then they are not worth your time as well. *my view*

What if that the personality of the guy and you are the one perceiving it as mystery? Some of your "mysterious" traits are common to introverts.

donroxy: sensibly summarized !

And when the Irritation doesn't have any Impact on the Mysterious guy, it becomes ?

He is wicked, heartless and selfish.

Girls neva likes mysterious guys bt prefers d talkatives

Rexceedo: Girls neva likes mysterious guys bt prefers d talkatives

we shouldnt generalize,it depends on the girl.

Popowaa: Which one too is mysterious again?He can be as mysterious as he want so far as he is well loaded and ready to dish out cash for my xmas shopping.mysterious ko,misery ni?Abeg no time

Heeiii! na wa for you oo. So you are those type of girls that fall victim to Xmas ritualists. Baby just calm yourself and be your best self, money is not everything.

yes,girlz find mysterious guyz attractive only if he's not faking it,that is,that's his real self..,he is cool,calm, and can stil keep his cool in any emotional situation,he doesn't panic,he is not easily intimidated by anytin watsoever,vry confident,doesn't really care about what anybody thinks about him,he's very comfortable with himself,not needy,hardly nervous around beautiful girls,like he doesn't even care if a girl is beautiful or not,he treats evrybody equal,no special treatment for a particular class.,this kind of guy is a rare commodity,and rare commodities are expensive and treated with alot of respect..!girlz will surely be attracted to him cos he's very different from most guyz,he's simply a catch{one in a million}

Godmother: Yes girls get attracted to mysterious guys initially, but after a while it fades and the attraction could turn to irritation

I think you're right,in secondary school a junior of mine,female once told me she hated me..hell,I've never even spoken.to her before didn't even care bout her existence.