It depens on the tradition. In my place, once you got pregnant before marriage.... a real trouble don start for u ooooooo!

iroza: Mine started with u fit marry me !

see that phrase....you fit marry me. Chai! No respect at all.
....and wetin come b ur response?

Either way, get married.

iroza: Mine started with u fit marry me !

r u not beautiful? Why the statement?

The fact is Most men has married and train a non Biological child because of fear, I pray not to be a victim of such circumstance

U mean

Mine started with i want 2 take our frndshp 2 anoda level, so wen can i see ur parent, u re my wife, nd i will nt let u go 4 any reason.

We were dating and she was my only girl so when I no see myperiod happen, we just concluded to have the baby and do our wedding when we're ready... So we did introduction and Nikkah...

Nadia_SA1:

I know your own

Beync: U mean

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longest time btw

anywishway sha, all i knw is, persn wey i no lik no fit get belle 4 me

Lol.. Very funny thread..

Idi Amin: And who the he ll brought this non sense to front page

NONSENSE IT IS

Well am not yet engaged or married bt I will love it be,,,on his knees ,,,,,baby plss will u marry me,,,,,

hmmmmmmmmmmm nice question

claireshan: Well am not yet engaged or married bt I will love it be,,,on his knees ,,,,,baby plss will u marry me,,,,,

i am on my knees ,baby please will u marry me?
Lol

There's always divorce if it doesn't work out.

tunapius: anywishway sha, all i knw is, persn wey i no lik no fit get belle 4 me

NO fvck person wey you no like if not...she go tell you say she get belle after 6 months wey u don turn papa pikin finish.

Baby, I want Ɣǒǖ to be d mother of our kids.

Idi Amin: And who the he ll brought this non sense to front page

if u ask am na who him go ask?

Baby I want you to be my wife and I will be committed to you come what may.we are married for 3 months now though it ws by Gods grace,fear of our family,God and church that helped us that she wasn't pregnant before wedding.we are expecting our first child already.I thank God everyday for giving me the bone of my bone.I love my wife

Abel202: [b]Very funny post indeed.
Mine was exactly "Honey I went to the hospital and the Dr confirmed am 3 months gone".
Before I got this news, she made sure I was out of the country on a trip that would take me a minimum of 3 months before coming back. So when I replied "pls honey, you know I love you and we have plans to settle down, but I have some projects at hand. Let me complete it as we planned then we get married. So inform the Dr to abort it".
Her reply was, "I can not do that again, I vowed to God that I will never do that again if it entered again". I was like - "but you should have informed me when you made such a serious vow".
Well fast forward it, 4 months later I was married. 2 months later we got our first baby.
Now 7 years later am the happiest married man on earth with three lovely kids.
Now I wish my wifey had even been more assertive even 3 or more years earlier than that.
Problem is that most Nigerian guys fear marriage. We want to get all the money, build some house, put everything in order before getting married. If our girls don't hep us with the push, we might keep postponing marriage till 40 years and above.
Although I still miss the fact that I never got the opportunity to ask " Will you marry me", I am very happy that I was slightly pushed into the marriage earlier than I would have done if left alone. Because after the marriage, the projects still got completed and the kids are growing and giving me so much joy. But bottom line is that the lady in question was the love of my life and I had already concluded I would marry her but only when I was ready.[/b]

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Interesting! But come to think of it, if they ( I use "they" cos its both of them that had sex, and its the man that didn't use a condom) got pregnant and the man doesn't want to marry the woman, will she kill him? NO! I say that cos cases abound where they don't marry!!! Unless the man has no mind of his own, no man should be forced to marry cos he had SEX with his girlfriend and got her pregnant! Unless of course he saw a life partner in her in her and thus joyfully marries her. Do you know some men purposely insist on pregnancy b4 marriage (cos of fear of d woman not being fertile or both their fertility system not being synchronized). I don't advocate that though.

Anyway I put sex in caps for emphasis above cos, some of us want to mock pple who marry with pregnancy as if we have never had sex before marriage or even KILLED our own babies! So I ask, who is worse? Such hypocrisy I must say.

Anyhow wey my own be, so long he is the ONE I LOVE! It doesn't matter if a lil angelic baby makes us tie the knot faster than we planned!

SAY NO TO ABORTION!

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explorer001: I notice most marriages these days are triggered by the fact that the bride is pregnant, hence the need to plan an urgent wedding. I really don't have anything against it. But some people seem to frown at such practice. What are your views?

C question abeg

This topic na die!!!!

topsco:
see that phrase....you fit marry me. Chai! No respect at all.
....and wetin come b ur response?

my response was if u change ur ways for better, I will marry u. And we will live happily ever after. So he did and I watch him for a while and married him. Mind u his offence is that he has many girls around him. And I was not one of his girl friends then. So there is nothing like respect there. I just told u how mine srarted, it is not for ur comment.

segzy14:

r u not beautiful? Why the statement?

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So what ever statement is for me to feel offended no for u.

Belle was never ever something I was gonna be trapped into. Any girl I fvcked without a condom, i always made her think that I was irresponsible and made her know that if she carry belle, she is OYO.

So i started my with "will you marry me" and it was like 11months after that the belle show.

Only a mugu will be trapped with belle.

truth be said,thats what happened in my case,my girlfriend then got pregrant and i come from this family that a child out of wedlock was seriously frowned upon,to cut long story,we organised a fast wedding,today we have two kids.i cant say its been all bliss but my wife has shown me so much love and care that i dont really regret it today but i wouldnt advise anyone to marry anyone just because of pregrancy