For someone seeking a long term relationship,giving up at the right time is important. If you haven’t established a foundation based on respect and genuine like or love, then having sex prematurely could hinder that from ever developing.

The purpose of dating is to get to know a person. During that time, compatibility, intentions, and precedence are being distinguished. A foundation is being built. The more time you spend getting to know someone on an emotional and intellectual level (without the complication of sex), the stronger your foundation will become; compatibility will be determined, connections will intensify, and your potential-lovers’ intentions will become clearer. From this foundation, a relationship can be developed.

Once you develop a comfortable level of communication with your partner, have open conversations about sex. Discuss topics such as your view on sex and exclusivity, expectations and timelines, safe sex preferences, etc. This will set the standard, the pace, and clarify intentions.

But if your relationship is not mature enough to have this type of conversation yet, then your relationship is not mature enough to introduce a sexuall component. In which case, allow your relationship to mature with more time, as you dialogue openly.

The person you choose to take that step with should be respectful and appreciative of this honour, as well as you should be of them. Until you are sure you regard one another in this manner, you should refrain from any form of sexuall relations with this person.

The Challenge:

One cannot put a date or time on when to give it up. Neither you, nor your partner can predict when the aforementioned conversation topics will be discussed, and the respect will be built in order to determine when you both will be ready to take the next step, sexually.

Sex in itself is a luxury; a beautiful expression to be shared with the counterpart of your choosing. Take your time and choose wisely. The more time and effort you invest to ensure it is the right time to give it up to the right person, the more you gain eventually – sexually and emotionally.

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Hmm,love this

Succinctly said, Hope some of our Nigerian women can learn from this and stop jumping on the bandwagon of thinking about se.x se.x and se.x even when a guy doesn't nurse a romantic thought- Instances is rife when a guy just want to say 'Hello' to a girl or sit her down for a chit-chat and all she thinks about in her mind frame is 'Oh this guy wants to have me'
It's implicitly banal.

Very educating information and works like magic when followed,cos premature sex hinders true └♡̨̐√ƺ from developing.@ Op, nice one !!

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