Gamine:



Rampant you are wrong.

leaving aint the same as marital unfaithfulness

read well, i can't explain anymore, im spent.

  so leaving her husband and remarrying a long lost lover is not marital unfaithfulness,? then what is it called?according to the story i heard,she already had a lover in the US,that  she even refused okotie sex for years before they got divorced,so for them to be divorced you're telling me dathe cannot remarry or what?what r u talking about?for her to remarry alone is called unfaithfulness,so i really don't get u?

no,you're wrong,because i quoted u.u said if she marries he should not remarry,u said he should wait for her or remain like that,and i am telling u that a man is free to remarry after divorcing his wife for a good reason,ok,he remained single and then she remarried,since you're quoting the bible,then u should know that for her to get married she hs commited adultery hence d man is free to remarry whomever he wants

she got remarried before her ex,hence she is already an adultress


you're d one not reading well,if she remarrie ,then she has commted adultery,hence he can as well divorce her and then remarry,it is a complicated issue

u read well

u people should learn to read d bible in between d lines and clearly,because its very complex,and has so many meanings to every word

his gettin married!!! omg, ewww.
exuse me but i no everyone makes mistakes and that but thiis guy doesnt derserve her, hes a fool. im sorry but its the truth and he should crawl under a stone and stay there. ( ugly mug)

his gettin married!!! omg, ewww.
exuse me but i no everyone makes mistakes and that but thiis guy doesnt derserve her, hes a fool. im sorry but its the truth and he should crawl under a stone and stay there. ( ugly mug)

Abeg Rampant

you no dey coherent

Gamine:

Abeg Rampant

you no dey coherent

u r d one who is just confused

cos na ur reply i reply to

make u try to dey read ur bible well well b4 u jump into conclusions

I'm really shocked that ppl still criticize others based on what i seen/perceived.
Only God knows the true intent of a man's heart. Leave Him to be the judge

The guy is setting a bad example for his fellowers. it's wrong when a man is married to a woman it is for better for worse till death do you part and the first wife is still alive.

BA D EXAMPLE!!!

Our pastors and preacher have turn into something else.

@Rampant isnt it apparent yours is choked with dust

if you dare clean it, na hurricane biblica be that o!

Anyways i have time to answer you now.

One, I dont know what Chris Okoties case is, exactly.
i have stated the conditions and where divorce applies,

The woman didnt leave because she was unfaithful, she just left
and along the way she met the so-called long lost lover and got married, she is an Adultress.

Now, on Okoties part, he could divorce her now for marital unfaithfulness.

if she didnt meet any long lost lover, there is no ground for divorce, that is just what im saying

BTW, The Bible i read is not complex, it is very plain.

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]well i can see some of us have some biblical knowledge however what we should not do here is to lift text out of context. we should also know that the scripture is complete and so when we cant make a doctrine out of a text. so we read other similar text for clarity before coming to conclusion. I will like to revisit the issue of first Corinthian 7: 15 (i suppose), in relating that scripture to this situation, the woman stopped believing in th marriage an so left or decided to end it. Since it came from the woman the man automatically become free. now someone said divorce is not allowed for whatever reason except fornication that is true . but either party that left man or the woman is under bondage as long as the other partner is Alfie. the bible also says its better to be married than to (burn) or lust. we do not go into full scriptural interpretations here. its clear enough the woman left him. she had issues with the country and would not stay not Even for her marriage an so left. i believe the man did the right thing( whether a minister of God or just a layman) right is right and wrong is wrong . and one last thing i will say on this is whatever you do someone will condemn you (before now a lot of gossips have flawn around ah! no mind am e don divorce e wife , e no fit marry , him get mistress etc ) now he is married ( why him marry him not suppose to marry) on this note i sign off and rest my case. KEEP IT REAL NA IRALANDERS.[/font][size=8pt][/size][i][/i]

Gamine:

@Rampant isnt it apparent yours is choked with dust

if you dare clean it, na hurricane biblica be that o!

Anyways i have time to answer you now.

One, I don't know what Chris Okoties case is, exactly.
i have stated the conditions and where divorce applies,

The woman didnt leave because she was unfaithful, she just left
and along the way she met the so-called long lost lover and got married, she is an Adultress.

Now, on Okoties part, he could divorce her now for marital unfaithfulness.

if she didnt meet any long lost lover, there is no ground for divorce, that is just what im saying

BTW, The Bible i read is not complex, it is very plain.

was it plain to u?i doubt it,cos if it was plain,u would have quoted it well

u just dey read d bible like a novel,before u judge or quote d bible on smone,try to find out the reason behind watever that person did

d wife was already having an affair whilst married to him,she starved d guy for years,is it not enough for him to divorce her?

then why were u saying that the man is not supposed to remarry even though if d woman is adultress,its either he remains like that or continue wt her,no be wetin u talk?

seriously gamine you're confused

ausbones:

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]well i can see some of us have some biblical knowledge however what we should not do here is to lift text out of context. we should also know that the scripture is complete and so when we can't make a doctrine out of a text. so we read other similar text for clarity before coming to conclusion. I will like to revisit the issue of first Corinthian 7: 15 (i suppose), in relating that scripture to this situation, the woman stopped believing in th marriage an so left or decided to end it. Since it came  from the woman the man automatically become free. now someone said divorce is not allowed for whatever reason except fornication that is true . but either party that left man or the woman is under bondage as long as the other partner is Alfie. the bible also says its better to be married than to (burn) or lust.  we do not go into full scriptural interpretations here. its  clear enough the woman left him. she had  issues with the country and would not stay not Even for her marriage an so left. i believe the man did the right thing( whether a minister of God or just a layman) right is right and wrong is wrong . and one last thing i will say on this  is whatever you do someone will condemn you (before now a lot of gossips have flawn around ah! no mind am e don divorce e wife , e no fit marry , him get mistress etc ) now he is married ( why him marry him not suppose to marry) on this note i sign off and rest my case. KEEP IT REAL NA IRALANDERS.[/font][size=8pt][/size][i][/i]

abi oooo,u have spoken well

You are confusing yourself.


If they hadnt divorced and she went ahead to marry someone

ofcourse, the woman is an adultress and Chris Okotie cannot remarry.

the Christian thing to do, is to forgive, and if she dosnt want to come back

he divorces her,

Whats so hard for you to understand

the akpu ur drinking is making your head heavy o

Gamine:

You are confusing yourself.


If they hadnt divorced and she went ahead to marry someone

ofcourse, the woman is an adultress and Chris Okotie cannot remarry.

the Christian thing to do, is to forgive, and if she dosnt want to come back

he divorces her,

Whats so hard for you to understand

the akpu your drinking is making your head heavy o

says who?he has every right to remarry as long as his wife was unfaithful to him

my dear abeg i rest my case on ur side,u no sabi wetin u dey talk atall

make u read matthew 19:9 properly,read it very well wt ur two eyes opened,u will find out that u r so wrong


buhbyeeeee

rampant:

says who?he has every right to remarry as long as his wife was unfaithful to him

my dear abeg i rest my case on your side,u no sabi wetin u dey talk atall

make u read matthew 19:9 properly,read it very well wt your two eyes opened,u will find out that you're so wrong

buhbyeeeee

is that effigy called GAMINE even worth replying to JK?

i'd say nah, shez a dimwit!

Just chatting all sorts of jargons as if she knows everything!

Brash!:

is that effigy called GAMINE even worth replying to JK?

i'd say nah, shez a dimwit!

Just chatting all sorts of jargons as if she knows everything!

u and gamine never reconcile as friends?

but seriously this man is free to remarry ,only on d condition that d wife cheated on him,that is exactly what i read in my bible,except evrybody bible dey different

Why this monkey boy just dey follow pesin eh?

i no get banana wetin be hin own sef


@Rampant, i know its hard for someone to admit their misunderstandings

i get what you are saying. since Engrish grammer may be too hard for you to comprehend, lemme put it in Naija lingo.


What me i dey talk, be say, Chris Okotie no suppose remarry if he never divorce her, even tho she go marry another pesin

if he divorce her, ehen! he don free to marry.

finito.

Gamine:

Why this monkey boy just dey follow pesin eh?

i no get banana wetin be hin own sef 


@Rampant, i know its hard for someone to admit their misunderstandings

i get what you are saying. since Engrish grammer may be too hard for you to comprehend, let me put it in Naija lingo.


What me i dey talk, be say, Chris Okotie no suppose remarry if he never divorce her, even tho she go marry another pesin

if he divorce her, ehen! he don free to marry.

finito.

dis post is so so childish,i tot u were more matured than dis

Yeah im a Child

Before!

What i say has to be Childish

Gamine:

Yeah im a Child

Before!

What i say has to be Childish

ok,no wonder u quote d bible childishly,i understand

rampant:

ok,no wonder u quote d bible childishly,i understand

Jenny . . .wetin naw

Dr Kitaun:

Jenny . . .wetin naw 

ah oga Kitaun ,no vex ooooo,i don forget say Gamine na one of ur numerous wives wwey u get for dis forum

Gamine:

Yeah im a Child

Before!

What i say has to be Childish

BABOON JOIN PUT WITH OBJ DEY CALL IM UNCLE MONKEY _{OWA LA ARA EEE, WON TI SHEPE FUN EE!}

Rampant if you are matured

i will stay Childish, Thank you


Monkey come Monkey go, Elf remain

omo ti e jaa, oje ke lopa lo toh

U all think some of the pastors are real pastors or what
3rd generation pastors!
Pastor ko,pastor ni.
the guy dey enjoy life like say tomorrow no dey

I know bible say one man one wife
and any man that divorces his wife and marry another while the wife is still alife is cimmitting adultry, same thing applicable to woman.

This is a bible quote, I wounder why it is a man who called himself a man of God that is violating that law. I wounder is he knows the biblical implications of what is has done.

May God be the judge and not man, but it is right to keep the word of God as a pastor and not to go contrary to it because the world is seeing and I wounder if he is encouraging his congragation as their Godly father to go contrary to the will of God.

If any member of his church does that what will be his jugdement and word of advice to them. Secondly, that means he cannot preach concerning this topic in his church anylonger cos he will not be preaching contrary to the Bible scriptures

Nwa O! Pastor ke! So they have good eye sight for beautiful ladies.

obybabe:

I know bible say one man one wife[b]
and any man that divorces his wife and marry another while the wife is still alife is cimmitting adultry, same thing applicable to woman.
[/b]
This is a bible quote, I wounder why it is a man who called himself a man of God that is violating that law.  I wounder is he knows the biblical implications of what is has done.

May God be the judge and not man, but it is right to keep the word of God as a pastor and not to go contrary to it because the world is seeing and I wounder if he is encouraging his congragation as their Godly father to go contrary to the will of God.

If any member of his church does that what will be his jugdement and word of advice to them.  Secondly, that means he cannot preach concerning this topic in his church anylonger because he will not be preaching contrary to the Bible scriptures

wat if d woman commited adultery whilst married to him,wat should he do?

Really, I am not particularly a fan of this MOG. However, I chose to reserve my comment (Funny that my first comment on this forum is actually a "No Comment"
Why? like someone said, its between him and God,

quote from baby5 Re: Rev Chris Okotie Weds Stephanie Henshaw
« #193 on: August 18, 2008, 08:28 PM »

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his gettin married!!! omg, ewww.
exuse me but i no everyone makes mistakes and that but thiis guy doesnt derserve her, hes a fool. im sorry but its the truth and he should crawl under a stone and stay there. ( ugly mug)

You are RUDE!!

Is Chris Okotie truly a pastor or does he belong to the categories of wolves in sheep clothens as mentioned by our Lord Jesus in the Bible? A pastor that cant maintain a peaceful home is a fake one. Divorce and remarriage is not acceptable in the new testament. You can only divorce but to marry another woman when your first wife is still alive is wrong. Chris is just deceiving himself and and his followers. Pity!

uip

the bible encourages us that if you are a child of God(married & born again christian) and your wife becomes a 'pain in the neck', you must believe in God to put things right through prayers. Remember, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you.' As a child of God, DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION ! I 'm not clear about Pastor Okotie's case because we need to bear in mind that 'do not judge so that you may not be judge'. JUDGEMENT LIES WITH GOD ALMIGHTY.

I only expect men of God to lead by example and not mislead the followers.