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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:36pm On Dec 13, 2013
Here is the best line to use in ur dept or faculty. It works like magic. I don use dis line tire..sometimes e dey do me as if say na jaz

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Hey..I was just heading to my class wen I saw u and I tot ...hey.dat girl I cute..I av got to say hello...what dept/faculty are u?

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I crafted dis line after much tot..dis line open girls easily..arnd ur dept or faculty..or school.

Ask for her name, and just say..hi..nice seeing u arnd

Hehe..don't worry..next time u see her..she will rmbr u...and una yans go dey easy..u can meet tons of babes everyday..using dis scope.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:36pm On Dec 13, 2013
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 12:39pm On Dec 13, 2013
Thumbs up OP, i need people like you as friends, not the co-learners that i roll with. How many years experience do you have in chyking?

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by WycliffeSMB(m): 1:23pm On Dec 13, 2013
NICE one OP.
I wanna ask few questions,,; frm ur experience in dis field,
1. is dating an older girl/lady a bad idea?
2. what should be d maximum adviceable age difference between the two involved?..
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:28pm On Dec 13, 2013
Odedoyin25: Thumbs up OP, i need people like you as friends, not the co-learners that i roll with. How many years experience do you have in chyking?

Been chyking since secondary school..got ma first kiss in jss2.

Over d years, I av had some success and failures..but I took note of the positive tins I did to get d gud results.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Ojonlo: 2:12pm On Dec 13, 2013
Please help me wif ma relationship,am in love wit dis girl and she knws bt she is not doing nomal wit me again,and i dnt think i can do without her
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 13, 2013
Ojonlo: Please help me wif ma relationship,am in love wit dis girl and she knws bt she is not doing nomal wit me again,and i dnt think i can do without her
nor dey lie say ''i can't do without her'' u just want phuck am. OP, over to you boss.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 2:55pm On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

Been chyking since secondary school..got ma first kiss in jss2.

Over d years, I av had some success and failures..but I took note of the positive tins I did to get d gud results.
jss2? I hail oo, i'm 20 and can't even talk to a girl, even if i summon the courage to talk to someone, i don't usually have anything to discuss about, how do U bosses come up with a topic to discuss?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:18pm On Dec 13, 2013
Sorry for d delay guys..av been busy..replies coming Up..
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 4:17pm On Dec 13, 2013
nice work goin on here... i'm back for more tips....
i wish this thread long long life and prosperity grin

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:27pm On Dec 13, 2013
Wycliffe SMB: NICE one OP.
I wanna ask few questions,,; frm ur experience in dis field,
1. is dating an older girl/lady a bad idea?
2. what should be d maximum adviceable age difference between the two involved?..

There is nothing wrong in dating a girl dats older than U. There is a trend now..young cute girls always wana date old mature guys. By old n mature I don't mean like a gap of 20 between ur age and hers. I see no restriction in dating, its d media dat has corrupted our thinking. A 25years old guy can date an 19-20years old girl. Personally..a gap of 6-8 years is ok.

On the other hand, personally I don't a young guy shud be dating a girl dat is much older dan him or her. Just ma opinion tho. Opinion differs, hope u understand.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by mekachuko(m): 4:39pm On Dec 13, 2013
Interesting topic...following
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by mojibbz(m): 4:59pm On Dec 13, 2013
This guy is one hell of a badoo! More power to ur "GURUSHIP"

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:28pm On Dec 13, 2013
Odedoyin25: jss2? I hail oo, i'm 20 and can't even talk to a girl, even if i summon the courage to talk to someone, i don't usually have anything to discuss about, how do U bosses come up with a topic to discuss?

Its a spontaeneous tin. May be u are shy...or sth. You will need to start talking to everyone u meet, just to calibrate ur brain to see it as sth normal. I used to be like dat, all shy..but tru consistency, I killed ma approach anxiety.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:33pm On Dec 13, 2013
More stuffs coming Up..guys

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by magikalz(m): 7:03pm On Dec 13, 2013
@OP, you're doing a great job here. Kudos.....your points are always on point..lol.
I'm having trouble stepping up my game with this gal I really like. I'm usually very smooth with babes but this one pass me. I met her through my friend who wanted to date her back then. Things didn't work out between them, and since I had an interest in her I got her BB pin from her FB page and started chatting her up. The chats have been going well, her responses show she's attracted to me. She even gave me her number but most times I call her she doesn't pick up or if she picks, she drops the call on me. But when we start chatting, she starts acting normal again.........another thing is, she gives one word answers sometimes and I start the chat most times, but once she starts talking, she can hardly stop. I know almost everything about her through our chats. So I'm a bit confused about this her not picking my calls.....is she into me or not? We're staying in different towns and she insists she has no boyfriend and not ready for a relationship till she gains admission. I'm done with school and NYSC and am currently about to start work.. We're both visiting our hometown for Xmas so we will definitely meet. How do I step up in this game please?

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JohnieWalker(m): 7:03pm On Dec 13, 2013
there is dis gal im dating ryt nw bt d prob is dat i found out dat a guy name wuz her 2go password nd also on her contact nd fb bt she told me he wuz her bf bt nw a close frnd dat d guy moved 2 anoda city. Nw she is sending me dat i should nt break her heart dat she luvs me

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by WycliffeSMB(m): 7:22pm On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

There is nothing wrong in dating a girl dats older than U. There is a trend now..young cute girls always wana date old mature guys. By old n mature I don't mean like a gap of 20 between ur age and hers. I see no restriction in dating, its d media dat has corrupted our thinking. A 25years old guy can date an 19-20years old girl. Personally..a gap of 6-8 years is ok.

On the other hand, personally I don't a young guy shud be dating a girl dat is much older dan him or her. Just ma opinion tho. Opinion differs, hope u understand.
yea bro,..tnkx
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by WycliffeSMB(m): 7:23pm On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

There is nothing wrong in dating a girl dats older than U. There is a trend now..young cute girls always wana date old mature guys. By old n mature I don't mean like a gap of 20 between ur age and hers. I see no restriction in dating, its d media dat has corrupted our thinking. A 25years old guy can date an 19-20years old girl. Personally..a gap of 6-8 years is ok.

On the other hand, personally I don't a young guy shud be dating a girl dat is much older dan him or her. Just ma opinion tho. Opinion differs, hope u understand.
yea bro,..tnkx
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:43pm On Dec 13, 2013
magikalz: @OP, you're doing a great job here. Kudos.....your points are always on point..lol.
I'm having trouble stepping up my game with this gal I really like. I'm usually very smooth with babes but this one pass me. I met her through my friend who wanted to date her back then. Things didn't work out between them, and since I had an interest in her I got her BB pin from her FB page and started chatting her up. The chats have been going well, her responses show she's attracted to me. She even gave me her number but most times I call her she doesn't pick up or if she picks, she drops the call on me. But when we start chatting, she starts acting normal again.........another thing is, she gives one word answers sometimes and I start the chat most times, but once she starts talking, she can hardly stop. I know almost everything about her through our chats. So I'm a bit confused about this her not picking my calls.....is she into me or not? We're staying in different towns and she insists she has no boyfriend and not ready for a relationship till she gains admission. I'm done with school and NYSC and am currently about to start work.. We're both visiting our hometown for Xmas so we will definitely meet. How do I step up in this game please?

Ok roger that.

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Let me talk abt the calling part first..am kinda wondering y wud she be droping ur cals all the time wen she obviously knows its ur nbr?... Does she av ur nbr stored/saved in her fone?...

I see u av done some rapport stuffs. Dats gud. And yes. She is attracted to u.. But her kind of attraction is different. You need to become a regular part of her daily routine as fast as possible before xmas..y does she gets all cosy and open to u during chats and not during calls?.. So u just av to call her, she gave u her nbr, so she is cool wit d calling...

#so here is what u shud do..start up a chat wit her, the reason y u r getting one word replies like k, ok, lols..is maybe perhaps u aint asking her open ended questions or chats dat will make her reply.so..get chatting wit her, once u notice she is replying u well..use dis line below..

#..hey..hi..u seem fun tonite..we ve been chatting like forever...let's talk on fone for a while...ama call u up now"

Notice i didn't take permission. Callin her is d right tin to do.

During dis call..just joke n play wit her..like normal teases..den tell..her...""By d way..I call u smtimes and u don't pick...perhaps..ur busy wit ur sugar daddy or sth" #make It fun.. She will give u a cogent reason..what u just did is use plausible deniabily..u want a babe to explain sth u wana hear, den u use a diversion to get wat u want. She will tell u..den just joke a little and end d call...don't make it too long.


Get bk to the chat, and tease her abt her voice..way she laf, blah blah.chat wit her a lttle den end d chat.

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Next time..u can just call her like normal..make sure u r calling in d mornings...its a gud time..like 9am... Or afternoon...3-5pm..don't be calling her @ nite..for now



U need to repeat dis routine.. She will start seeing d calling part as a normal tin


#den on ur chats, talk abt meeting, dates, fun tins u can do, her favrt food, things like dis will put interesting ideas into her head abt u guys meeting.


# and yes..give her d space of missing U.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:53pm On Dec 13, 2013
Johnie_Walker: there is dis gal im dating ryt nw bt d prob is dat i found out dat a guy name wuz her 2go password nd also on her contact nd fb bt she told me he wuz her bf bt nw a close frnd dat d guy moved 2 anoda city. Nw she is sending me dat i should nt break her heart dat she luvs me

Well..it depends on what u want bro. Girls like dis can be deceptive. Maybe she just wants to use u as and emotional sponge..or perhaps she is serious. So what do u want?. A girl using a guy's name as her password shows she likes d guy. Just be mature n open abt it. Ask her what she wants. Make her be d one to do all d job. Let her invest. Once she starts doing everytin. She will like u all d more. U sef no go form too much oh. So bro, it depends on what u want @ d end of the day.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:15pm On Dec 13, 2013
Here are some simple signs to look out for wen gaming a chick whether itz online or one-on-one.

#she laughs (on-one-one), she uses laughing smiles or tongue-out or blah blah (online) - wen u r a gaming a girl and she is laughing,smiling and feeling happy..bone ma guy..she dey feel U.

#she re-iterates the convo- perhaps she is asking for ur name again...or trying to confirm if she saved ur nbr..or she is asking..abt ur state again.. U told her sth very important..and she kinds of bring ur attention back to it. Bone ma guy..she dey feel U


#she touches U. Dis doesn't need much story. She laughs n touches u..or she touches ur shoulder wen a point..or perhaps..her hands brushed agains yurs..


#she tries to gain rapport. - she asks ur name, whr u live etc.


These r d four basic signs to look out for, once a babe is attracted, she will engage u in convo. Itz dat simple.




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Enjoy this teasing technique. It works like magic

U r talking wit a girl..and suddenly says sth unique..be it any tin...

Tell her "wow..I like d way u just pronounced dat..(Mention the word)..its cool..say it again"


Dat will crack her up..den u can just tell her to simple continue wit what she was saying. Itz magic

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:31pm On Dec 13, 2013
Pls its very important we put these stuffs to the test..don't just read it and ignore. We exhibit mastery wen we apply..not wen we read n ignore. Guys apply all dese stuffs pls to boost ur dating game.

# av u ever been wit a girl, may talking wit her or chatting online...ur convo gets romantic or it becomes abt relationship.. And she tells u. " I don't trust u" You are a player..or any word like dat?


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Or she tells u.." Your u r not serious, I can't trust u" or " am scared, I don't want any tin to do wit relationship for now"

Well..she is basically telling u ONe tin and dat is. "Am Not Easy..and U can't just come and Go like dat"

»»»»»»»» To make a girl trust u..do tins wen u say u r gona do dem... E.g..av a light chat, and tell her u r gona call her by 8pm..pls..wen it exactly 8pm..call her. Trust me..she is gona look @ d clock wen she sees ur call


As per not trusting u, and not being open n free wit u...u can just let her know.u r not just coming n goin...#pls its very essential u don't tell her ""I like u, am not just coming to be with u and go like other guys" if u try am..u don Bleep up. Don't say anytin abt other guys..

Or u can just use dis my classic line. I crafted it after much mistakes.. And now it works..all d time..I av been using it for 5years now.

Just tel her

"Hey babe...I aint just coming n goin..itz really been fun getting to know u...I mean..u r cute tall, sexy,...wit a nice smile...and lovely falling hair...and of cos..u av got a great personality to match dat...gues what am tinkin?...she wil say what...den u say " am alrdy tinking what's its gona be like knowing u...for like 6months from now...am rily enjoying every bit""


Pls not dat u can remix d line as u see fit.. D 6months I added can be varied. Itz just a future projection technique(more on that later) dat gets her tinking in d future..spending 6more months wit u...and stuff...


If u av any question....u can ask.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by 50calibre(m): 9:29pm On Dec 13, 2013
I'm by no means a master of the game, but I've gotten better with time. For me it all depends on my mood & resolve.

Some years ago, a friend of mine told me women have no control over whom the fall in love with, over time I've come to realise how true this is, that's why you see some women keep going back to the jerk who beats them up.

Appeal to the right senses and bang! You're in

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: So we kick It off wit FMAC....FMAC is an acronym for Find Meet Attract Close.

Find-- dis is basically d part where u av to look for the chick, be it online, or one-on one

Meet- dis is d part where u open the chick.. Or say hi. A simple line I crafted myself dat works all d time is "" hey..hi..I av seen u arnd a few times, but we a avent met...am <insert ur name here>"" #smile...u can move ahead from there. Note its ur dilivery dat matters..u may or may not use d same exact words.u can frame it arnd to sth dat suits you.

Attract -- this is d part where u ease her and make her relax using different methods. Humour,buying temperation,teasing,role play etc

Close- this is d part where u get her contacts or u move the convo to a different location. Closing can also mean s**x too. So it all despends on your time constraints.

Note..u don't av to be Goodlooking...Just be LOooking GOOOD.


I like wat u doing, but I just av to make a little correction...
Collecting a girls nos is routine nowadays guys should Neva see it as victory

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 9:48pm On Dec 13, 2013
op abeg whr u dey...
cheese balls js gave me ma own nick... she says its lanky C... ah no like d name jor angry ,buh ah no fit complain grin can i get her to change it

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:56pm On Dec 13, 2013
Hybee2493:


I like wat u doing, but I just av to make a little correction...
Collecting a girls nos is routine nowadays guys should Neva see it as victory

Yea I know, dats y its fmac. C stands for close.. Close can mean a lot of tins. S**x,date etc, its like ur end goal
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:57pm On Dec 13, 2013
ifex370: op abeg whr u dey...
cheese balls js gave me ma own nick... she says its lanky C... ah no like d name jor angry ,buh ah no fit complain grin can i get her to change it

Lols

No don't....leave it dat way.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:02pm On Dec 13, 2013
ifex370: op abeg whr u dey...
cheese balls js gave me ma own nick... she says its lanky C... ah no like d name jor angry ,buh ah no fit complain grin can i get her to change it

Leave it like dat

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:05pm On Dec 13, 2013
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by magikalz(m): 10:05pm On Dec 13, 2013
@OP, your suggestions are so positive. I will follow it to the last letter once I chat her up again. We have been chatting for over 6 months now and the flow is always heavy.. Yesterday was even my birthday, I didn't get any congratulatory message from her and as for the call part, she once said she's always busy when I call. I don't believe her jare. She's of this opinion that no man will use her head. Thanks for your suggestions once again....wil keep you updated.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:07pm On Dec 13, 2013
magikalz: @OP, your suggestions are so positive. I will follow it to the last letter once I chat her up again. We have been chatting for over 6 months now and the flow is always heavy.. Yesterday was even my birthday, I didn't get any congratulatory message from her and as for the call part, she once said she's always busy when I call. I don't believe her jare. She's of this opinion that no man will use her head. Thanks for your suggestions once again....wil keep you updated.


Oh.now I get d picture...weLLL preselecting ursef can also be advantageous. As in..simply let her know u ave got oda chicks in ur life..not just her, don't tell her directly...u can use it in dp...or sth..upload pics of ur sef catching fun and pics of ur sef wit oda girls. I use it a lot. Women desire what oda women desire.

#...just keep it goin strong...don't relent, and don't rush her...u r d man, she is d woman.

# also..it myt be ur times of calling aint goin well wit her, not totally true tho.. Try n call her arnd 11am

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