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kk, so there is this girl i fell in love with...my coursemate, asked her out severally but she insisted on not being ready for a relationship though she did love me..did everything i could to gain gain her trust..poems, calls, txt etc but she still insisted...so i had enough of being at her mercy and called it quits..
Lately after i told her i was done and over her, she starts being closer to me, calling me...txting me...telling me she still loves me that she had her reasons earlier on for not complying..now i really dont know what to do..i still love her but the flame isnt as bright as it used to be...do i welcome her bk and start a relationship with her or tell her to backoff?

kushstalin:
kk, so there is this girl i fell in love with...my coursemate, asked her out severally but she insisted on not being ready for a relationship though she did love me..did everything i could to gain gain her trust..poems, calls, txt etc but she still insisted...so i had enough of being at her mercy and called it quits..
Lately after i told her i was done and over her, she starts being closer to me, calling me...txting me...telling me she still loves me that she had her reasons earlier on for not complying..now i really dont know what to do..i still love her but the flame isnt as bright as it used to be...do i welcome her bk and start a relationship with her or tell her to backoff?

bros u re not suppose to ask this here. This Guy is just putting us tru in how to get the gals nd not making choices for us only u know what u want....



I wonder if from the first u even like her self, no too do sakara make she come shun u oh cus e go too pain u

tomzee2:
bros u re not suppose to ask this here. This Guy is just putting us tru in how to get the gals nd not making choices for us only u know what u want....



I wonder if from the first u even like her self, no too do sakara make she come shun u oh cus e go too pain u

lol

kushstalin:
lol

abi oh

so teddy, i met this girl this year, i wooed her but she didn't accept, one of my seniors had to put mouth b4 she accepted, here is the thing, i'm not a very interesting/intruiging guy just a plain guy who got lucky to be dating a very beautiful girl, my first girlfriend at that, i asked her severally why she accepted but she wouldn't say so i let it rest.......so, i don't know if she loves me or not, i start virtually all our chats because we are not in the same city for now, she also doesn't call as much as i do..........her family is struggling financially so she borrowed 20k frm someone to add to the money given to her to pay for her sch fees b4 i met her........after we started dating she told me about her plight and i didn't say anything. when it was her birthday, i gave her part of the money to pay the person she borrowed money from instead of using the money to take her out and waste it. after that i also gave her another money to do another stuff, my pocket money bro and my family is also struggling but not as badly as hers, when she travelled home frm sch to her parents and i was still in sch, i am always the one to start the chat, i don't know if she loves me or not seeing that she doesnt invest like me and i'm not even sure i love her, i want to know if it's sensible to continue this relationship.....i'm stuck bros.



NAH NOKIA PHONE I TAKE TYPE ALL THAT EPISTLE OO BRO, YOU BETTER REPLY ME....LOL

ted thanks so much 4 all you've been doing so far
Wen you see a girl on the street and you say
'Hey I've been seeing you around,but we've not met' my name is .........*smiles*
Wat next can I say or add.

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lapulgaatomica:
so teddy, i met this girl this year, i wooed her but she didn't accept, one of my seniors had to put mouth b4 she accepted, here is the thing, i'm not a very interesting/intruiging guy just a plain guy who got lucky to be dating a very beautiful girl, my first girlfriend at that, i asked her severally why she accepted but she wouldn't say so i let it rest.......so, i don't know if she loves me or not, i start virtually all our chats because we are not in the same city for now, she also doesn't call as much as i do..........her family is struggling financially so she borrowed 20k frm someone to add to the money given to her to pay for her sch fees b4 i met her........after we started dating she told me about her plight and i didn't say anything. when it was her birthday, i gave her part of the money to pay the person she borrowed money from instead of using the money to take her out and waste it. after that i also gave her another money to do another stuff, my pocket money bro and my family is also struggling but not as badly as hers, when she travelled home frm sch to her parents and i was still in sch, i am always the one to start the chat, i don't know if she loves me or not seeing that she doesnt invest like me and i'm not even sure i love her, i want to know if it's sensible to continue this relationship.....i'm stuck bros.



NAH NOKIA PHONE I TAKE TYPE ALL THAT EPISTLE OO BRO, YOU BETTER REPLY ME....LOL

Bros on thing I know from experience never let money be the determining factor in ur paro.. if u wanna give her money give cos she deserves it or out of free will.. never give cos u want her to live u more or expect something in return cos most times u get disappointed...

As regards u initiating chats and the likes.. Put urself in a position that would make her feel lucky to have you and not other way round... make self confidence is key... don't feel less about urself..

temi4fash:


Bros on thing I know from experience never let money be the determining factor in ur paro.. if u wanna give her money give cos she deserves it or out of free will.. never give cos u want her to live u more or expect something in return cos most times u get disappointed...

As regards u initiating chats and the likes.. Put urself in a position that would make her feel lucky to have you and not other way round... make self confidence is key... don't feel less about urself..

thanks bro.....but how do i put myself in such position?

lapulgaatomica:
thanks bro.....but how do i put myself in such position?

First things first is yiu have to work on your self esteem.. change your believe system that you are not the lucky to have her, she is the one lucky to have you... weda she is your first or last it does not matter what matters is that you saw her, u liked what u saw and asked her out in what ever way and you got her. Sefini..

Bros every body is a plain guy and uninteresting but we all learn, and become better people. Anoda point is never say never if u get what I mean, be open to explore, no body is anything except you accept to be that thing..

When you do these, you wouldn't have d issues u think u having, even if u gonna love, love with ur head and make sure u carry ur brain along.... never think with your emotions. ? Though its not easy but we all learn till we get there.

Its ur first love most times na first love dai mumu guys pass so u gat nothing to be worried about...

But my advise to you make ur books ur priority ooo.. woman good but dem bad too.. On the short run it might look cool on the long run you be the one to lose.. As u become better handling woman and there drama make sure u try and make sure your life turn out well too...

Enjoy

Have a wonderful week..

Davhid:
Teddy my man,am very glad i came across this fantabulous post,and at the right time.
There's this gal i fell in love with,she did too and she professed her undying love for me,mostly on chats,she could just stay n nt see me online,she'll call to knw if i wuld log in,we had lots of fun chats,n i noticed i ws able to kip her up frm evenings down till mawnins without lacking words,our chemistry ws sooo high,along the line she told me she ws visiting,i didnt ask for dt oo,she came like twice,well on the second visit,i kissed her,french kissed n cuddle her n didnt want to go further so dat she'll not tink i ws al bout d sex,yea dats hw much i love her...she wanted to initiate a third visit,i told her no cos of circumstances at home,it ws a full house...possibly frm then on,i culd just call and i will feel she ws getting cold somhow,i did call often,send sms bt didnt get returns,i felt like i ws d only one loving,i tot maybe she has found anoda guy,bt then again i said to mysef,at first i had to be d one hu made her happy n anytime i proposd she dint go easy bt still she kept wastin her data,airtime on me,well afta weeks of tryin she let in,well i dont knw if its because i denied dt visit,cos its like she blives in a relationship dt exists wit bleeps n want dt desire of hers to be fulfilld...i noticed this wen we were chatting,i used a 3rd person,and funny enuf,d chat went frm d norm to,"ask him hw many gals he has entered since he ws born"...i didnt gv her a str8 ansa,i told her he said he ws nt a saint tho,neither a chronic fan,she said abi,i kept wonderin y she said dt,bt then i told i i wasnt for d sex,bt i bliv as we reach maturity n perfection jst as relationship does,d sex bcomes natural,she said "thats tru" despite dis she has caring,non-demanding,lovable,very pretty qualities yul expect frm a girlfriend.....well i feel like am losing her,tho she still tells me she loves me wella,bt av noticed our fun days r dying small small...i dont even av chance to flirt wit her dt much anymore cos our chats get so short,calls get so dry,i kip tellin her of aw much i care abt her,bt i also feel i made a mistake wen i told her am so worried over losing her,,n dt dos fears wey so grt,i also feel maybe its cos of d too much attention and she saw me as doin d same tin over n over again,like followin routine,i need help bruh,atleast i wanna win her back n still retain my charm as i once did wit her..help!!!...I WANNA WRITE WATEVA WRONG WRITTEN.THANX.

I don't understand these you wrote mehn.. if you could be more explanatory

temi4fash:


I don't understand these you wrote mehn.. if you could be more explanatory

okay d stuff is,i met this gal...we've known for long bt didnt use to chat much,bt along the line she got fond of chatting with me,she fell for me,i did too...we got to know each oda better...she visisted at first,but we stayed up gisting n gisting for hours then she left,along the line while still chatting after a long time of proposing,she said she finally accepted,well she came for a second visit,she dressed so sexy,i culdnt read d signs at first,but i ended up goin for kisses n cuddles,she didnt resist tho...bt i ended it at that tho,after thatshe opted for a third visit,because of how my family members wey all at home,i told her not to...ever since then i av been finding it hard to chat wit her like we use to...that attraction just went fiam!...i wanna win her heart back and be dt special man i once was in her life...cos its been hard nowadays to hold a chat with her....i ended up telling her abt my fear of losing her..yea,i suck,ryt?...well i wanna man up...boost me guys,thanx...

temi4fash:


First things first is yiu have to work on your self esteem.. change your believe system that you are not the lucky to have her, she is the one lucky to have you... weda she is your first or last it does not matter what matters is that you saw her, u liked what u saw and asked her out in what ever way and you got her. Sefini..

Bros every body is a plain guy and uninteresting but we all learn, and become better people. Anoda point is never say never if u get what I mean, be open to explore, no body is anything except you accept to be that thing..

When you do these, you wouldn't have d issues u think u having, even if u gonna love, love with ur head and make sure u carry ur brain along.... never think with your emotions. ? Though its not easy but we all learn till we get there.

Its ur first love most times na first love dai mumu guys pass so u gat nothing to be worried about...

But my advise to you make ur books ur priority ooo.. woman good but dem bad too.. On the short run it might look cool on the long run you be the one to lose.. As u become better handling woman and there drama make sure u try and make sure your life turn out well too...

Enjoy

Have a wonderful week..

thanks bro.....well, academically i don set for now though i'm not a first class student, that's why i decided to chase woman. By God's grace my life will turn out well like you advised. Thanks so much bros, you've been helpful.

Davhid:

okay d stuff is,i met this gal...we've known for long bt didnt use to chat much,bt along the line she got fond of chatting with me,she fell for me,i did too...we got to know each oda better...she visisted at first,but we stayed up gisting n gisting for hours then she left,along the line while still chatting after a long time of proposing,she said she finally accepted,well she came for a second visit,she dressed so sexy,i culdnt read d signs at first,but i ended up goin for kisses n cuddles,she didnt resist tho...bt i ended it at that tho,after thatshe opted for a third visit,because of how my family members wey all at home,i told her not to...ever since then i av been finding it hard to chat wit her like we use to...that attraction just went fiam!...i wanna win her heart back and be dt special man i once was in her life...cos its been hard nowadays to hold a chat with her....i ended up telling her abt my fear of losing her..yea,i suck,ryt?...well i wanna man up...boost me guys,thanx...

Hmm, dis your own hard oo. But its not impossible. U no why?

Because the babe thinks you are a wussy... she believe dat second visit u for don straff am since she gave u all d lights u needed.
The 3rd visit would have helped rewrite your wrong but since it didn't come dats y u are in these position. She might just be one of those gals who believes if there is no sex there is no love. And if u don't have the same mind set as she has. You would have problems with her..

Normally, I believe in a no sex relationship so I don't advice people on the opposite.

Is not like am a Saint, I don't just believe in the whole sex thingy outside marriage.. that just me...

But my advice is let her be, if she doesn't chat with you don't push more than necessary.. don't beg, don't flick go after other gals then later come back and refire..

That way you have learnt your lessons and it has helped ypu become a better person.

But don't do anything u don't wanna do because of a woman or gal.. weigh the pros and cons of every decision cos everything still fall back to you...

Enjoy bro...

lapulgaatomica:
thanks bro.....well, academically i don set for now though i'm not a first class student, that's why i decided to chase woman. By God's grace my life will turn out well like you advised. Thanks so much bros, you've been helpful.

temi4fash:


Hmm, dis your own hard oo. But its not impossible. U no why?

Because the babe thinks you are a wussy... she believe dat second visit u for don straff am since she gave u all d lights u needed.
The 3rd visit would have helped rewrite your wrong but since it didn't come dats y u are in these position. She might just be one of those gals who believes if there is no sex there is no love. And if u don't have the same mind set as she has. You would have problems with her..

Normally, I believe in a no sex relationship so I don't advice people on the opposite.

Is not like am a Saint, I don't just believe in the whole sex thingy outside marriage.. that just me...

But my advice is let her be, if she doesn't chat with you don't push more than necessary.. don't beg, don't flick go after other gals then later come back and refire..

That way you have learnt your lessons and it has helped ypu become a better person.

But don't do anything u don't wanna do because of a woman or gal.. weigh the pros and cons of every decision cos everything still fall back to you...

Enjoy bro...

wow,i cant but thank you enough,i av been thinking of spacing her lately and this just gives me a go-ahead,thumbs up man,well i wanna do it in a way that she doesnt think i dont care anymore,or if d vice versa is going to be d best way sef..."snubbing her all the way then refire like a big boy and do a little hard to get n tof niggi"...wich do you think is better?advice needed bruh...and bruh,we chatted after that and she asked me jokingly,aw many gals i had entered,i am curious as to why she did ask dis,ws it cos of her doubts frm d second visit or something??,well my answer ws "though am nt a saint,am nt a chronic fan either"...culd dis have turned her off completely...would be glad for more help brother,thanx...i really wanna set things right.....and i was thinking of inviting her over this time around,e mek sense?

funkyjms:

lol........what i wrote might sound stupid the way i said it. but then i nor fit dey chase woman dey chase cgpa, now wey cgpa don solid, i decide to add woman matter. I believe it was the wise thing to do though i'm open to a different opinion.

Davhid:

wow,i cant but thank you enough,i av been thinking of spacing her lately and this just gives me a go-ahead,thumbs up man,well i wanna do it in a way that she doesnt think i dont care anymore,or if d vice versa is going to be d best way sef..."snubbing her all the way then refire like a big boy and do a little hard to get n tof niggi"...wich do you think is better?advice needed bruh...and bruh,we chatted after that and she asked me jokingly,aw many gals i had entered,i am curious as to why she did ask dis,ws it cos of her doubts frm d second visit or something??,well my answer ws "though am nt a saint,am nt a chronic fan either"...culd dis have turned her off completely...would be glad for more help brother,thanx...i really wanna set things right.....and i was thinking of inviting her over this time around,e mek sense?

Bros... there is no way you want to be in control of these babe without staffing her and staffing her well... me I don't encourage people to engage in sex so I will let the bosses help u with these..

As regards the question you ask.. obviously it cos u disappointed her in her last visit... so form these conversation you can still rearrange urself but what am seeing in these ur paro staffing inevitable.

Me no believe in the whole staffing thingy so d ball is in your court.

lapulgaatomica:
thanks bro.....well, academically i don set for now though i'm not a first class student, that's why i decided to chase woman. By God's grace my life will turn out well like you advised. Thanks so much bros, you've been helpful.

My guy cgpa dai drop oo.. neva say neva oo.. be wise..

temi4fash:



My guy cgpa dai drop oo.. neva say neva oo.. be wise..

lol.....sure.......thanks for the help.

Teddy baba, u said something about not reacting to anything girls does to us. If that's so how can a guy punish his girlfriend for bad behaviours like being rude or something like that.

Op u should be d minister of women affairs

hey guyz..need ur opinions..

Tho! I wont say im an advanced PUA, im way above average but there is a girl who z givinq me hard time..we met at a tutorial ..at First i didnt notice until picked up her yes signal so i took advantage of dat and asked her out..she said she 'll think about it.. As i was patient..i noticed she likes hanging out with guys especially when im around..i acted as if it didnt affect me..so, i started treating all friends as potential gf's lol.. Actually , most of her friends r mormally friendly towards me so i took advantage of dat..she thought im hitting on dem..fews days later she told that she cant date d same guy with a friends ..it was funny to me, i thought she was jokinq..after sometime, i called her fone but she wasnt picking d call.. D question is how can i handle dis type of situation??

NLjona:


lolss..how do u mean, please tell me more

look eh, some girls begin to misbehave when you don't fvck them. Many want to be fvck and many would respect a guy that fvcks them over another that doesn't.

There is this beautiful girl I met during our department day... So, I approached her and did the normal rapport.. Through the rapport, I was able to know her department, name, state, and where she stays... At last, she gave me her number that very day..

I text her the following day(early morning).. The text is all about how meeting her is one thing important in my life...

But the problem now is that we are now on strike and am back home same thing with the girl..

Should I go ahead and express my feelings to her on phone or I should wait till we resume..?

Hackerjay:
There is this beautiful girl I met during our department day... So, I approached her and did the normal rapport.. Through the rapport, I was able to know her department, name, state, and where she stays... At last, she gave me her number that very day..

I text her the following day(early morning).. The text is all about how meeting her is one thing important in my life...

But the problem now is that we are now on strike and am back home same thing with the girl..

Should I go ahead and express my feelings to her on phone or I should wait till we resume..?

no don't do dat. U will only end up ruining all your good work. Focus the convo on giving her positive emotions, knowing her deeply(family,fvrt colour,hobbies etc) calling her babe.,sexy. U need to make her want u...and u can achieve dat using humuour n good teasing. If u can do dat, u wil notice she will be d one investing. Make her want you. Dts d point. Don't ask her out, or telling her u love her over d fone, it myt backfire. Wen u know her deeper, ur actions will tell her whether u like her not. Play easy.no rushing, and don't be desperate.

emryxleena:
hey guyz..need ur opinions..

Tho! I wont say im an advanced PUA, im way above average but there is a girl who z givinq me hard time..we met at a tutorial ..at First i didnt notice until picked up her yes signal so i took advantage of dat and asked her out..she said she 'll think about it.. As i was patient..i noticed she likes hanging out with guys especially when im around..i acted as if it didnt affect me..so, i started treating all friends as potential gf's lol.. Actually , most of her friends r mormally friendly towards me so i took advantage of dat..she thought im hitting on dem..fews days later she told that she cant date d same guy with a friends ..it was funny to me, i thought she was jokinq..after sometime, i called her fone but she wasnt picking d call.. D question is how can i handle dis type of situation??

hope dis aint too late, it shudnt appear funny to u, u shud av made it appear funny to her. U r already @ a good vantage point, make her come to u, and not u going to her. Continue with what you r already doing. Don't chase her, if she doent pic, don't call her again, and wait till u guys can see...den u act like nothing happened, n game her like u r just seeing her after a long time.

Sirex:
Teddy baba, u said something about not reacting to anything girls does to us. If that's so how can a guy punish his girlfriend for bad behaviours like being rude or something like that.

just take away or stop doing watever makes her happy for a while, and see ow she reacts. Sometimes, u can tell her " hey..I know u over-reacted/got angry earlier..its cool..but try and be cautious, I tot u r a classy girl to be acting dat way,u r way better dan dat. Don't let it happen again"...tell with a calm cool voice, but appear serious..not too serious tho...she will get d message.

Davhid:

wow,i cant but thank you enough,i av been thinking of spacing her lately and this just gives me a go-ahead,thumbs up man,well i wanna do it in a way that she doesnt think i dont care anymore,or if d vice versa is going to be d best way sef..."snubbing her all the way then refire like a big boy and do a little hard to get n tof niggi"...wich do you think is better?advice needed bruh...and bruh,we chatted after that and she asked me jokingly,aw many gals i had entered,i am curious as to why she did ask dis,ws it cos of her doubts frm d second visit or something??,well my answer ws "though am nt a saint,am nt a chronic fan either"...culd dis have turned her off completely...would be glad for more help brother,thanx...i really wanna set things right.....and i was thinking of inviting her over this time around,e mek sense?

. Next time tell her " just a couple nbr of girls tho, I can't realy remember the exact nbr." Den u ask her " how about u...how many guys...don't be shy, feel free"? Its sexual talk...wen u talk like dat..ur getting closer to ban.ging her

Thanks to everyone that has been contributing to this thread. I hail.