temi4fash:
There are some fact that I would like to bring to the notice of the guys in the house and please it's a personal opinion and we could get to discuss about it too...

1. The major problem alot of we guys have is self worth, self importance. It is how you treat yourself other would treat you including the babes too..

2. Not all babes are worth your time. There are some babes you meet and leave while they are some who are meant to stay.

3. Never ever think a girl is doing you a favour going out with you or being your friend.

4. Learn to evaluate your options well when you are trying to get the babe. If you are the one doing the major investment and she is not investing and you talk to her about it and it doesn't improve. Your best bet and my advice is just let her be.

5. Make sure as you are chasing the babes and making sure you have control over your emotions and the likes when it xomes to women, ensure that your life is not stagnant, make sure progressing and looking for ways to better your life.

6. If you fall in love ensurr you carry your brain in working condition along. Never let emotions over rule your judgement. If you getting all emotional try to get over it b4 you make the decision.

7. Too much of everything is bad.... if you already have a babe that worships the ground you walk and is good.. stick with her good gals are not easy to come by.

8. There is no perfect babe anywhere. If you looking for one my guy u don jonze..

Lastly with women, Ensure you follow your instincts, it can never be wrong.

N.B
These are my personal opinions

Happy festive season

Xxxtedyxxx.. God bless you bro..

And to other contributors I hail..

lapulgaatomica:
@4, what of in a situation when it's my gf and i'm the one doing all the investment and she picks a fight when i tell her about it?

xxxtedyxxx:
your ultimate goal for dis chick should be ban.gin her. Not her accepting you as her bf. Since she already said she is seeing smone else, ur best bet, is not to bring up such topic but to run ur own game differently. Pulling her towards u, acting like a potential bf already. Girls can have sex with anoda guy irrespective of whether dey have a permanent bf. It just depends on how u play it n not bring up issues or questions about her new guy. In other words, u remove the yes or no thing from her mind.

temi4fash:


Its all about evaluation.
Oo
The truth is youncan say u care about someone and not invest innthe relationship. And u know the rule of thumb is the person who invest less controls the relationship.

In your case, she knows u like and adore her so she is definitely using it as a vintage point.

So, I would suggest give her a little space, if she comes back and ask you why are you doing these and the likes, tell her exactly how she felt when u gave her space is the same way you feel when she does same.. feed her with her own medicine.

temi4fash:


Its all about evaluation.
Oo
The truth is youncan say u care about someone and not invest innthe relationship. And u know the rule of thumb is the person who invest less controls the relationship.

In your case, she knows u like and adore her so she is definitely using it as a vintage point.

So, I would suggest give her a little space, if she comes back and ask you why are you doing these and the likes, tell her exactly how she felt when u gave her space is the same way you feel when she does same.. feed her with her own medicine.

temi4fash:


Its all about evaluation.
Oo
The truth is youncan say u care about someone and not invest innthe relationship. And u know the rule of thumb is the person who invest less controls the relationship.

In your case, she knows u like and adore her so she is definitely using it as a vintage point.

So, I would suggest give her a little space, if she comes back and ask you why are you doing these and the likes, tell her exactly how she felt when u gave her space is the same way you feel when she does same.. feed her with her own medicine.

temi4fash:

5. ...you have control over your emotions and the likes when it comes to women, ensure that your life is not stagnant, make sure progressing and looking for ways to better your life.

6. If you fall in love ensure you carry your brain in working condition along. Never let emotions over rule your judgment. If you getting all emotional try to get over it b4 you make the decision.

lapulgaatomica:
bros i don spoil everything, i don give am voice.

temi4fash:

2. Not all babes are worth your time. There are some babes you meet and leave while they are some who are meant to stay.

3. Never ever think a girl is doing you a favour going out with you or being your friend

tr3y:


Its a game of numbers, could remember few days ago, I came across this 4 and after small talk, wanted to number close since na work I dey go.
Ask for her name she said Ayo na there I don dey smell rat. Gave her benefit of the doubt and ask for number, gave her phone to type am only to discover say na fake number.

I just shake head say see person wey I dey try help her ministry.

lapulgaatomica:
not even a 6, 4........lol.....oga tedy i hail oo, been following you since day 1 with my other account that i deactivated.

tr3y:


Its a game of numbers, could remember few days ago, I came across this 4 and after small talk, wanted to number close since na work I dey go.
Ask for her name she said Ayo na there I don dey smell rat. Gave her benefit of the doubt and ask for number, gave her phone to type am only to discover say na fake number.

I just shake head say see person wey I dey try help her ministry.

tr3y:


I dey tell you. Na even because I lap am inside bus for like three bus stop make me consider her. If you see as she siddon comfortably like say na the same house we sey come from ehn.

Anyways how market for your area?

lapulgaatomica:
market bad oo...lol.....that girl when temi4fash dey advise me about don breakup with me.....but surprisingly, i'm not sad as i thought i would be if such a thing happens,

lapulgaatomica:
market bad oo...lol.....that girl when temi4fash dey advise me about don breakup with me.....but surprisingly, i'm not sad as i thought i would be if such a thing happens,

temi4fash:


Its all about evaluation.
Oo
The truth is youncan say u care about someone and not invest innthe relationship. And u know the rule of thumb is the person who invest less controls the relationship.

In your case, she knows u like and adore her so she is definitely using it as a vintage point.

So, I would suggest give her a little space, if she comes back and ask you why are you doing these and the likes, tell her exactly how she felt when u gave her space is the same way you feel when she does same.. feed her with her own medicine.

temi4fash:
There are some fact that I would like to bring to the notice of the guys in the house and please it's a personal opinion and we could get to discuss about it too...

1. The major problem alot of we guys have is self worth, self importance. It is how you treat yourself other would treat you including the babes too..

2. Not all babes are worth your time. There are some babes you meet and leave while they are some who are meant to stay.

3. Never ever think a girl is doing you a favour going out with you or being your friend.

4. Learn to evaluate your options well when you are trying to get the babe. If you are the one doing the major investment and she is not investing and you talk to her about it and it doesn't improve. Your best bet and my advice is just let her be.

5. Make sure as you are chasing the babes and making sure you have control over your emotions and the likes when it xomes to women, ensure that your life is not stagnant, make sure progressing and looking for ways to better your life.

6. If you fall in love ensurr you carry your brain in working condition along. Never let emotions over rule your judgement. If you getting all emotional try to get over it b4 you make the decision.

7. Too much of everything is bad.... if you already have a babe that worships the ground you walk and is good.. stick with her good gals are not easy to come by.

8. There is no perfect babe anywhere. If you looking for one my guy u don jonze..

Lastly with women, Ensure you follow your instincts, it can never be wrong.

N.B
These are my personal opinions

Happy festive season

Xxxtedyxxx.. God bless you bro..

And to other contributors I hail..

Theophinio:

EXACTLY BRO

xxxtedyxxx:
u wcm. Working d nbrs just means approaching/gaming/dating more dan one girl. Meeting lots of chicks and not just focusing on a single girl.

Akeema14:
am a Male.... I need female friends on whatsapp... yes I mean it.... for friend only... Nothing more I swear. I like chatting everytime especially to female. 08100582110. add me if u don't mind

Guy, how old are you

xxxtedyxxx:
Morning ma people.

judajix:
Who is available ooo
I need help Djboosting abeg
There is gal, I had this thing with with she left me cos I didn't/couldn't get to her sexually and couldn't do the role playing thing.... Either way I read this whole thread yday, fast forward we started talking again yday after about a month without any contact, she still loves me dearly , so today now now she asked me how is my gf and I replied they are fine, and replied with shock face and said it is well, I wanna have her back.....please I need help on what next to say.....don't want to bleep up

darkmata:
Guys, I need una analysis 4 dis mata. we all undastand d importance of a lady investing in a relationship. there is dis lady I've bin dating 4 a year nw, n we agreed in a "no sex relationship" (but deep down I ain't kul wit it). She does most of d investing like , calling more, texting me first, there was a time she got me a gift self, wen there wasnt really any occasion sef, but afta all dis I haven't kissed her( we do cuddle though) i hav gone 4 a kiss a couple of times, but she do back out. we do even sex chat most times. But my confusion is dis , since I haven't really kissed her, I do feel a times DAT I have been friendzoned. am I right? have i bin friendzoned?