I met this pretty girl called joan(not real name) through my nephew over 2 months ago we got talking and we met after a while and her body language was encouraging,so i was thinking she will be mine in no time only for her to have refused my love proposals saying she is not ready for any relationship right now,but anytime we talk on the fone she sounds so interested in our friendship but she does not want to inaugrate my reign of love in her life and am getting really tired and frustrated with the whole thing,i really like(love) her but am getting really fed up...plz i need ur candid and sincere advice,do u think she is playing hard to get and i have hope or i shuld just let her go and move on though it will hurt.

Capisco: I met this pretty girl called joan(not real name) through my nephew over 2 months ago we got talking and we met after a while and her body language was encouraging,so i was thinking she will be mine in no time only for her to have refused my love proposals saying she is not ready for any relationship right now,but anytime we talk on the fone she sounds so interested in our friendship but she does not want to [size=18]inaugrate my reign of love in her life[/size] and am getting really tired and frustrated with the whole thing,i really like(love) her but am getting really fed up...plz i need ur candid and sincere advice,do u think she is playing hard to get and i have hope or i shuld just let her go and move on though it will hurt.

LWKMD!

Nothing way person no go hear for Nland

.....'so interested in our friendship'. I think you've answered yourself by that statement.She might not deem you fit enough as a boyfriend but rather just as a friend which by consequence means you've "unfortunately" been friend zoned.So if you're not strong enough to sail through the tempestous friendzoned waters,then I suggest you just give her the distance.

But wait o....what are you inagurating sef .....This 2015 election tinz don dey enter some people blood come nairaland romance section.

1one: .....'so interested in our friendship'. I think you've answered yourself by that statement.She might not deem you fit enough as a boyfriend but rather just as a friend which by consequence means you've "unfortunately" been friend zoned.So if you're not strong enough to sail through the tempestous friendzoned waters,then I suggest you just give her the distance.

1one: But wait o....what are you inagurating sef .....This 2015 election tinz don dey enter some people blood come nairaland romance section.

1one: .....'so interested in our friendship'. I think you've answered yourself by that statement.She might not deem you fit enough as a boyfriend but rather just as a friend which by consequence means you've "unfortunately" been friend zoned.So if you're not strong enough to sail through the tempestous friendzoned waters,then I suggest you just give her the distance.

tanx bro i have swam out of many murky waters so i will try to do dsame frm dis friendzone

Capisco: but she does not want to [b]inaugrate my reign of love in her life [/b]and am getting really tired and frustrated with the whole thing,i really like(love) her but am getting really fed up...plz i need ur candid and sincere advice,do u think she is playing hard to get and i have hope or i shuld just let her go and move on though it will hurt.

Lool bro are you Igbo??

Big.game:
Friend Zone 101, she already told you that she isn't ready for a relationship. On the bright side, maybe she wants more time to study you, to know if you would be a compatible partner or she is not just into you. If you ain't satisfied with being just friends, Move on! Life is too short.

tanx for ur infallable words of advice

She hasn't told you dat she is seeing someone else or she doesn't want you..... She is just doing dat to see how much you want her, convince her to accept you and probably playing hard to get; so, its up to you to convince her and get her to say yes.



You can fasten thngs up by doing the 'i don't care anymore attitude and start ignoring her'. If she really likes you, she will get worried, ask you why you are avoiding her, you tell her its cos your feelings for her are strong and staying around when you can't have her frustrates u dats why you feel letting go is better. Don't let her tell you, 'we can still be friends'. Don't be rude if she does, just tell her you won't be able to handle it cos of your feelings and she will give you d yes, no or let me think about it answer so you can move on.

Note: it doesn't work all d time Won't work for me especially if i don't like you but you have nothng to loose by trying since you are already contemplating bailing out.

challenge her romanticaly wit a sudden deep kiss when next u mit

babeshayo: challenge her romanticaly wit a sudden deep kiss when next u mit

If she really likes you eh.....d butterflies in her tummy no go get part two otherwise, na dirty slap

@ babyshayo
If na me u just grab and kiss even if u be beauty and i be beast,the kind slap way u go get na earthquake u go think say happen
@Ops
why dont u sit this gal down and let her realise that u are a matured person n u need a matured babe. Tell her that u really need to hear her conclusion on wat u asked her. Stare well into her eyes. If she looks away she's urs but if otherwise move on to the next one.

sweet-tease:
She hasn't told you dat she is seeing someone else or she doesn't want you..... She is just doing dat to see how much you want her, convince her to accept you and probably playing hard to get; so, its up to you to convince her and get her to say yes.



You can fasten thngs up by doing the 'i don't care anymore attitude and start ignoring her'. If she really likes you, she will get worried, ask you why you are avoiding her, you tell her its cos your feelings for her are strong and staying around when you can't have her frustrates u dats why you feel letting go is better. Don't let her tell you, 'we can still be friends'. Don't be rude if she does, just tell her you won't be able to handle it cos of your feelings and she will give you d yes, no or let me think about it answer so you can move on.

Note: it doesn't work all d time Won't work for me especially if i don't like you but you have nothng to loose by trying since you are already contemplating bailing out.

ur advice is so wondaful and i digested evry bit of it and will act accordingly and u wil be d 1st pesen i wil tel wen she says yes..tank u

babeshayo: challenge her romanticaly wit a sudden deep kiss when next u mit

lolz i will try dis ur option after exhausting sweet tease's,tanx

Capisco: ur advice is so wondaful and i digested evry bit of it and will act accordingly and u wil be d 1st pesen i wil tel wen she says yes..tank u

i am honored

Op..How old are you? and you can only be frustrated once your plans to accomplished ur goals in life seens not working and don't tell me you want to waste that energy on ordinary girlfriend unless ur talking about wife here.

chikeorji123: Op..How old are you? and you can only be frustrated once your plans to accomplished ur goals in life seens not working and don't tell me you want to waste that energy on ordinary girlfriend unless ur talking about wife here.

am a yong man,and its not like my life is at a standstil becoz of my pursuit of her,well tanx 4 ur concern

Eyea., chai.

Ije love, no be small tin.

nyere84: Eyea., chai.

Ije love, no be small tin.

am tellin u my dear

it shouldnt be hard for you bro.just let it be.try to see it as never going to happen but enjoy the friendzone.in that way you let your real personality show even when you try to hide some and also she gets to see the real you bare without the benjamins.if it happens then she's worth you.if it doesnt get on with life.she wants to see your personality and you would see hers the more too.

troy20: it shouldnt be hard for you bro.just let it be.try to see it as never going to happen but enjoy the friendzone.in that way you let your real personality show even when you try to hide some and also she gets to see the real you bare without the benjamins.if it happens then she's worth you.if it doesnt get on with life.she wants to see your personality and you would see hers the more too.

tanx bro,dat was a real thotful comment and i wil surely imbibe.

shizzle11:

LWKMD!

Nothing way person no go hear for Nland

Na real inauguration indeed!