I am leaving work and headed for home I will pick up this discussion in about an hour with a glass of wine next me but here is my question:

What makes a man think that it is ok to toast a married woman? When men see my wedding ring they still toast me. when I tell them I am happily married they still try to toast me.

Is there something I am doing, saying, some vibe i am putting off that gives the impression that toasting this married woman is ok?

Is that just the way it is here in the States?

How many other sistas have had this done to them?

I look forward to reading the responses when i get home.

well u aint d first and u aint going to be d last,some pple go thru worst situations,so don't complain

Maybe they trying to get some of that booty, trying to see if hopefully you will fall for it, many people do, nookie tonight, wussy wussy

ibkaye:

Maybe they trying to get some of that booty, trying to see if hopefully you will fall for it, many people do, nookie tonight, wussy wussy

omo yi o fi style yawo sha

Same ere.
I come across same prob almost errday.
Sm jst won't understand yhu're married.

i Highly Highly doubt that is the way of the people in the states. Then again you live in New England so that is whole different story. it is just probably some fellas that just want some sex. dont let it faze you.

HCH3COO:

omo yi o fi style yawo sha

lol

onyinye2:

i Highly Highly doubt that is the way of the people in the states. Then again you live in New England so that is whole different story. it is just probably some fellas that just want some sex. don't let it faze you.

what do you mean 'way of the states'? it happens everywhere, whether china na pluto

It is just a game to many and marriage aint what it ought to be, many sister get laid a nite after the wedding ceremony, so if you aint one, just keep up with the fight of rejecting their offers and be ready to deal with them stepping it up with nice rides and gifts to lure u to bed.

It's all about competition. They want to know if they can get you to cross over to the other side, so that they can accumulate another notch on their belt.

2 Reasons

1) The Ring - You already have one, so they don't have to promise you one to get in your pants.

2) The Ring - Tells them you are married and as we all know, married sex is BO.OO.OO.RI.NG!! So they figure you'll be up for some excitement, a l'll sontin sontin, a wham, bam, thank you ma'am, back seat of a car, no string attached, lose my number afterwards kinda sex.

nailing a married woman is the apex in the game.

if you can nail a married woman, then ur game is extra-tite.

Nijah0, some sistas too are to be blames, how could a sister be rolling them as)s or the booty-clapping while walking and expect the dude to face the north side, haba.

Missy B:

Same ere.
I come across same prob almost errday.
Sm jst won't understand yhu're married.

sharaaappppp diaaaaaa

gabe, such game is nonesense, and i am sure one day, someone will play on ur field too with a tighter game

gabe_logan:

nailing a married woman is the apex in the game.

if you can nail a married woman, then your game is extra-tite.

NO, your game is extra weak and sad.

Sisikill:

2 Reasons

1) The Ring - You already have one, so they don't have to promise you one to get in your pants.

2) The Ring - [b]Tells them you are married and as we all know, married sex is BO.OO.OO.RI.NG!! [/b]So they figure you'll be up for some excitement, a l'll sontin sontin, a wham, bam, thank you ma'am, back seat of a car, no string attached, lose my number afterwards kind of sex.

Truly questionable!!!

$$Rhino:

Nijah0, some sistas too are to be blames, how could a sister be rolling them as)s or the booty-clapping while walking and expect the dude to face the north side, haba.

and wen a ring is visible on the finger,why cant d guy cut his face off?is it now a crime for a married woman to shake her waist while walking?

gabe_logan:

nailing a married woman is the apex in the game.

if you can nail a married woman, then your game is extra-tite.

dats a perfect example of a lazy man,who cant go out to struggle and get his own girl,but would rather go for a ready made,such pple shouldnt be called men but cowards

rampant:

sharaaappppp diaaaaaa

Werin?

IF SM1 DOES NOT STOP ME NOW,M GON DEAL WIT DIS CHIC MERCILESSLY

so much hatred targeted at my response!!!!!!!!

my assertion is true cos married women are the hardest, in most cases, to get

rampant, there is a big different walking and clapping dem as*s, most sisters just wanna tempt dem brovas, some of the sisters sometimes wanna know if she still got game, if she can still make the broda commit.

gabe, u are wrong, married women aint as hard as you think, however, i advice all brovas to stay off married woman, just aint kool

$$Rhino:

rampant, there is a big different walking and clapping them as*s, most sisters just want to tempt them brovas, some of the sisters sometimes want to know if she still got game, if she can still make the brother commit.

so because shes married she should watch the way she walks abi?wat if dats her natural way of walking?i see no crime in it,they r thousands of single women out there so y should any useless guy be interested in a married woman?

i still don't get it, why the hell wud u want to toast a married woman just to prove ur game is tight.am not against sex but "Infidelity". hurts like a bitch

$$Rhino:

rampant, there is a big different walking and clapping them as*s, most sisters just want to tempt them brovas, sOME OF THEM SISTERS WANTS TO KNOW IF SHE STIL GOT GAME,IF SHE CAN STILL MAKE THE BROTHER COMMIT

If yhu're female,ARE YHU TALKING FRM XPERIENCE?



If yhu're male,I NEED

Missy B:

Werin?

IF SM1 DOES NOT STOP ME NOW,M GON DEAL WIT DIS CHIC MERCILESSLY

sharapppp diaaaa , married ko married ni,or r u a transgendered   how come ur profile says male and u r here telling us how men toast u

rampant:

so because shes married she should watch the way she walks abi?what if that is her natural way of walking?i see no crime in it,they r thousands of single women out there so y should any useless guy be interested in a married woman?

some married women are extremely hot and irresistable. plus they do not act like most of the nairaland girls wey dey form unnecessarily

gabe_logan:

some married women are extremely hot and irresistable. plus they do not act like most of the nairaland girls wey dey form unnecessarily

how do the nl women form?

gabe abeg hear urself wella,so its now a crime for a married woman to look hot for her husband abi?or u expect her to start dressing like mgbeke wt a mary amaka dress cos shes married?

dont get me wrong, married woman shd still do her thing, infact, if no man hit on my wife, i will be worried, cos that means, i am the only one that ssee what i saw in her.
All i am saying is u cant blame no one, it is just how God has created us all, so shall a man check out the woman and the woman shall make him commit and so shall it be forever, somebody shout amen.

rampant:

sharapppp diaaaa , married ko married ni,or r u a transgendered   how come your profile says male and you're here telling us how men toast u

so people dey change Sex for Nairaland.Nice One

pc guru, maybe the dude hasnt had game in a while and now confused as to his or sex, so no vex.

rampant:

sharapppp diaaaa , married ko married ni,or r u a transgendered   how come your profile says male and you're here telling us how men toast u

MISTAKES ARE INEVITABLE JO.
I meant WOMEN JST REFUSE TO UNDERSTAND M MARRIED
DEY KEEP PESTERING ME.