Pls, i want to ask if it is wrong to woo a girl in church. Many girls always come around me in church but i hv nt had the courage to speak to anyone of them cos i consider it a sin being a member of the choir and others. But if i want a girl for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage, can i go ahead and toast one of those numerous girls flocking around me? Ur view is needed.

If you have good intentions woo her, but it should be outside the church

When its time for you to marry you will know. you hear?

i think not.

Monstertrucks: i think not.

why do u think so

ATMC: When its time for you to marry you will know. you hear?

how will i know. An angel of God will come and tell me?

Spotless180: how will i know. An angel of God will come and tell me?

U dont need an angel, u will just know that's nature for even without spirituality. But wooing a lady lady in the church is not the issue when u are filled with the spirit, when the time is right u will definitely know know where n when u should approach a lady!

Pastor Olu T:

U dont need an angel, u will just know that's nature for even without spirituality. But wooing a lady lady in the church is not the issue when u are filled with the spirit, when the time is right u will definitely know know where n when u should approach a lady!

cant i approach a lady in my church for a relationship?

Spotless180: cant i approach a lady in my church for a relationship?

U can, bt my question is, why would u now?

My advice to u is that any thought that does not have a future, drop it!

castielo: I feel its wrong.. it's "spiritually distracting". especially if you are not ready for marriage.

Yeah that's why one ought to be ready (both spiritual n physical) for it.

@pst. Just to get into a relationship. Of course, it is relationship that leads to marriage. Isn't it?

Spotless180: how will i know. An angel of God will come and tell me?

or yhu can ask google

toasting in the church is allowed but in a coded way

give him the code na lol

how did u meet ur wife?
A. On the streets. She was passg by and i whistled to her
b. At a nightclub/pub, i was high then i approached her
c. In church
d. On facebook


most couples wud luv to say c.
Most girls wont b ashamed of c.
Its d guys tht ar slackg.
The issue is mor of how to do it rather than the venue.
Keep it short, go straight to d point, then go back to concentratg on d sermon . No chit chattg and frivolousness.
E.g if she's sitting in d next seat, during a pause in d sermon or bf d sermon the guy cud excuse her, "excuse me". She'll look at u and ur eyes will lock.
Deliver verbally and cue her.
Be polite to stiffle the token objection she'll put up.
"sorry , i hav to do this but u caught my attention/interest..."
continue,if she doesnt cut u off.
Close .
"can we meet after church in a less formal atmosphere"
or
"i'd like/lov to meet u later ... "
scribble ur number before her so she sees u action isnt pre meditated.
Fold it and hand it to her like its nothing.
Dont ask her to call you tell her wen to call you,like you'd both agreed on who'd call.
"so i'll b expectg ur call btw 5 and 6p in d evening.."
or
"call me btw 5 and 6 , i'll b free then.. "
Service continues. Total time less than 2 minutes.
If she brushes u off, sit there and bear the embarrassment or ask the usher to find u anoda seat or
wait till servce is over to walk her out and try a second time.

@kambo. It is like u are nt a boy in this thing o. Hmm!

Hmm. Serious

I dnt hv bad intention sha.