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| Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
So, I feel lyk creating a topic this afternoon and I was just thinking about a scenario where you get to meet a guy who is all sweet and nice, maybe not too handsome but you both like each other. The problem now is that he doesn't speak good English  You know something like 'I came to check you tomorrow'. Unfortunately, he's the type that likes to express himself anywhere, everywhere and people even laugh at him in your presence  You try to teach but it's like he can't even grab too much as he's used to it already. Anytime you try to talk to him about it, he feels really bad no matter how nice you try to paint the situation, so, you decide not to talk about it again, so as not to keep spoiling his mood!So, what would you do in this situation?  |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by jaybee3(m): 6:01pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Do you understand him when he speaks to you? Are you the type that cares about other people's perception? If you love him then help him get better 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Enegod(m): 6:03pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
"Show Me Your Friends and I Can Tell Who You Are" is like you have cocoanut head that's why you keep on attracting men with cocoanut heads  |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
If he's confident of himself and his uncontrollable blunder, then I'm cool with that. At least he has a very high self esteem. I wouldn't necessarily feel embarassed about this when we're around people or in public, infact, it'll all be funny moments for us... that's if he's worth my love and time  |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
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| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Enegod: "Show Me Your Friends and I Can Sharrap People should not totally assume that this is entirely about me, please! I'll rather we just discuss generally, more like an hypothetical situation!  |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by shizzle11(m): 6:07pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Are you sure you are "just thinking about a scenario" or this is a dilemma you presently find yourself in?. Be sincere  |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
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| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by shizzle11(m): 6:09pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
alutacontinua: We understand  |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
shizzle11: Are you sure you are "just thinking about a scenario" or this is a dilemma you presently find yourself in?. Be sincere Ok, the truth is I ONCE FOUND myself in the situation sometimes ago! But I dealt with it. So, now, can we discuss?  1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
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| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Stånd: U sef!  Ok, some other things were not in place, so, i took a walk! But it wasn't about the grammar, I was ready to bear that, even though it was a bit challenging, it's really not cool when your guy talks and people start tapping one another and laffing |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Enegod(m): 6:14pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Stånd:cocoanut is coconut |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Enegod(m): 6:15pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
alutacontinua: |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by pweetixandy: 6:17pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
i dnt even give such pple d chance.. |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by jaybee3(m): 6:21pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
pweetixandy: i dnt even give such pple d chance..Smh @ "such people" |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
alutacontinua:What is really uncool is being around people without self worth. If those people visited other Anglophone countries, they'd find out that not every graduate speak English language let alone fluent English. Even in London, Australia, N/zealand, Wales, Scotland, et al, where English is the first language, half their population still dont speak perfect English let alone constructing perfect grammar in fluent English 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by shizzle11(m): 6:32pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
alutacontinua:I like the bolded If that was the only the 'turn off' about him, you can put up with it, bearing in mind that man was not created in perfection. Unless of course there are other aspects of his personality that do not suit you fine. alutacontinua:K. Just what I was talking about. In that case, you did your best to accept him. @ bolded It can be very embarrassing |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by shizzle11(m): 6:39pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
pweetixandy: i dnt even give such pple d chance..You forgot to add....unless he is very rich |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Caracta(f): 6:40pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
I'm presently in this situation. The guy is a very good friend and just relocated to Nigeria few months ago. He wasn't really like this when he left so I wonder what happened. He doesn't speak well but I've never laughed at him. If I don't understand his point, I would mention it and he would explain. He talks a lot, I point out few corrections jokingly and we are cool. He is intelligent, kind and fun to be with. Why throw all that away because of his bad English? He is improving and calls me his EP (Error Pointer). |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by shizzle11(m): 6:40pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
dp |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by shizzle11(m): 6:54pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Caracta: I'm presently in this situation. The guy is a very good friend and just relocated to Nigeria few months ago. He wasn't really like this when he left so I wonder what happened. Lol @ Error Pointer.... good to know you two are coping well But that wasn't the only reason why she 'threw everything away'. Maybe you missed this alutacontinua: |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Caracta: I'm presently in this situation. The guy is a very good friend and just relocated to Nigeria few months ago. He wasn't really like this when he left so I wonder what happened. Do you guys ever have to be with other people, like your friends or something. How do you handle the situation? 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Caracta: I'm presently in this situation. The guy is a very good friend and just relocated to Nigeria few months ago. He wasn't really like this when he left so I wonder what happened. The bolded is nobody's fault. This is exactly what happens when you go to a country like Germany for instance, you might have been a champion in English language in Nigeria, but you find yourself in a country where English language is more or less, totally useless. Since English isn't my first language, a generous part of it fizzled away... though I'm still very good at it anyways.So, trying to be as good as the Queen in English speaking isn't something that people with understanding find attractive most times. What's with this dying language and Nigerians sef? |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Caracta(f): 7:38pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
alutacontinua:He has this kind of confidence I don't understand. Our friends laugh and he'll be like, "Idiots, you only speak English, I speak 4 foreign languages and you are laughing at my errors." He is a sanguine. You just can't help but like him. He has a funny accent too. I was at a wedding with him recently and he was invited for the toast, come and see English 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Caracta: Na dt kain public own dey pain pass Mine used to have to give speeches too nd i'll even take my tym to write it down and type it for him, na so he go just get der dey talk d tin from his head dey scatter floor |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by missdebs(f): 7:43pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
no 1 knws 2mao,c our mama peace n jona nw....d fact dt he/she has sme flaws nw, dont mean destiny doesnt hv a plan 4 hm...just hlp hm(politely), wn he flops wt hs anglais |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Caracta(f): 7:44pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
Eminado01: You are right. I used to be bothered about such things before but I've come to realize that people are different and have had different experiences. If you don't like the person, you'd be embarrassed many times. But if you do, it gets to a point that you really don't care. But sha, it's good to speak well Some guys speak so well that you can't help but smile at the movement of their lips. |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Caracta(f): 7:45pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Hahahaha. I can imagine. |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Caracta(f): 7:48pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
shizzle11: Lol...I get your point. I wasn't even referring to her experience. Just saying you can't "throw" away a good person or good qualities because of bad English. |
| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by shizzle11(m): 7:48pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
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| Re: Ladies, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Dec 15, 2013 |
shizzle11: I will not lie, sometimes, i laff too |
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