I want to knw your opinion about ds, my man doesn't call me for. days, atimes I hv to be d one to brk d silence. btw each time I called him...he sounds so caring, apologetic nd calm on phone, he would almost want to exhaust my airtim cs he has so much to talk about. it has always bin lik dat.....I hav complained about it a couple of times bt he kips blamin it on his tight schedules. right nw...I am contemplatin on quittin d him. Pls wats ur opinion?

When you call him, you just woke him to consciousness about some other side-chick and of course , he has to be so romantic and caring to keep alive the hope of punny from your end.
I wise man told me, every man and woman crave for affection every single day no matter how busy he/she is, if he aint calling you then he must be calling another.
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If he is caring and generous, I think you should just manage with the situation , at least for the cashflow or you work your way back to being the number 1 cos obviously you are some steps below number 1

OP sis,

Accept it or not.

You are a side-chick.

Perhaps sweetheart, the amount of
attention you feel you require exceeds
the amount of attention he is capable of
giving due to having a life outside the
space surrounding you.
Different strokes for different folks. The
fact he doesn't call doesn't mean he
doesn't care. It simply means he doesn't
call.

Enegod: Perhaps sweetheart, the amount of
attention you feel you require exceeds
the amount of attention he is capable of
giving due to having a life outside the
space surrounding you.
Different strokes for different folks. The
fact he doesn't call doesn't mean he
doesn't care. It simply means he doesn't
call.

I don't concur, nobody is too busy 2 call some1 u claim 2 luv, 4 days for dat matter. Gurl, if he's too busy, den d side chick is u!

There are other ways of communication.

Some guys are just like that!!

Enegod: Perhaps sweetheart, the amount of
attention you feel you require exceeds
the amount of attention he is capable of
giving due to having a life outside the
space surrounding you.
Different strokes for different folks. The
fact he doesn't call doesn't mean he
doesn't care. It simply means he doesn't
call.

hw i so want to bliv this even though its not d case

Strauskhan1: Some guys are just like that!!

Bt they xpect the gal not to b lik dat uh?

sweet-tease:


Bt they xpect the gal not to b lik dat uh?

He who pays the piper dictates the tone not the other way round.

smartmiss:

I don't concur, nobody is too busy 2 call some1 u claim 2 luv, 4 days for dat matter. Gurl, if he's too busy, den d side chick is u!

some guys are not phone ppl. I prefer the
face to face interaction.

sweet-tease:
hw i so want to bliv this even though its not d case

you gatz blv it completely

ITbomb:
He who pays the piper dictates the tone not the other way round.

Pays? what are you paying?

Enegod: you gatz blv it completely

Bliv it now and end up with a shattered heart later ryt?

sweet-tease:

Pays? what are you paying?

O C'mon , dont give me that 'I dont know what you are talking about' face .
We all know the story about how our bf is caring and generous though he beats me sometimes

Back then, as much as I was fond of a lady; I never call unnecessarily and that leaves my phone banging all the time from them. This method maybe childish but that's the fastest way people get to appreciate you.

So dear, it's either you are a side chick or he has found out that making himself scarce makes you value him the more.

sweet-tease:
hw i so want to bliv this even though its not d case

Single lady, since when did you start giving relationship advise?


*hides*

ITbomb:
O C'mon , dont give me that 'I dont know what you are talking about' face .
We all know the story about how our bf is caring and generous though he beats me sometimes

Lmao i dey wait for dat guy wey go strike me.

ms_pee:


Single lady, since when did you start giving relationship advise?


*hides*

Bad belle, i left dat club for you a long time ago

sweet-tease:




Bad belle, i left dat club for you a long time ago

Ta! How can you leave when you're the president?

ms_pee:


Ta! How can you leave when you're the president?

I handed the totem over to you! If only i had known you will deny the group

sweet-tease:
Bliv it now and end up with a shattered heart later ryt?

nobody is gonna shatter your heart...ain't you iron lady again?

sweet-tease:

I handed the totem over to you! If only i had known you will deny the group

Sorry dear, don't shift ya post to me. I don't want it

Presido

Enegod: nobody is gonna shatter your heart...ain't you iron lady again?

Iron ke? Where i take get ore from?

ms_pee:

Sorry dear, don't shift ya post to me. I don't want it

Presido

I yaff resigned lati lati, y'all shuld vote for a new president, am sure your dedication will get you the most votes thou

sweet-tease:

I yaff resigned lati lati, y'all shuld vote for a new president, am sure your dedication will get you the most votes thou

Lmao! You are not well at all. I have harlos. So, I'm not single

Presido answer your name o

It doesn't matter who calls most,the most important thing is if u are in love with him nd he reciprocates the love,yea,there r men who don't call pretty much but they have other way to show affection,some are so in2 chats than voice,u hv 2 define d kinda love u want,if u r dat kinda girl hu loves being glued to her man on phone,den he aint ur compatible...Think d guy cares buh doesn't knw wah u xpect from him,hence if u call n enjoy his talks on fon,den kip calling cos it takes nothing from u sweerie

Calls r overrated....... simple

ms_pee:


Lmao! You are not well at all. I have harlos. So, I'm not single

Presido answer your name o

You can't be me don't make us ask him

sweet-tease:

You can't be me don't make us ask him

No, you're trying to be me. Remember you're my boyfriend's girlfriend.

Oya let's go and ask him sef

ms_pee:


No, you're trying to be me. Remember you're my boyfriend's girlfriend.

Oya let's go and ask him sef

Yes! and bring your hanky to wipe your tears

sweet-tease:

Lmao i dey wait for dat guy wey go strike me.

Praise god, your wait is finally over . Check my siggy below n join my harlem

sweet-tease:

Yes! and bring your hanky to wipe your tears

No wahala. But I can see your butts shaking already. Pele ti e

Put yourself together, the right man will come at the right time. Enugo?