So I was with two young ladies who were seriously lamenting over the behaviours of men in ph. One said they act like desperate se x starved people any time they meet a single girl and the other lady has sworn never to date any man who lives or was raised in ph because (according to her ) they have no regard nor respect for women.

I dnt blame the guys though but I still feel there are decent girls out there who should be respected and not treated like a LovePeddler.

A friend visited me one time and was highly disappointed, she narrated a story of how she met a guy(with decent looks) but turned out to be something else. She Said on their first "outing" he wanted sleeping with her, instead of a decent place he took her to a guest inn.... According to him "first date should be cemented by love making" wowwwwww.....

My question is are there decent single guys in portharcourt who can at least be friends with a lady without ulterior motives? Can a single girl find true love in portharcourt? Are there men in ph who atleast respect women? I give up

Lol... PH men no dey dull finally. On a serious note, I don't think you should generalize it because you had bad ecounters with some men. Good PH men like me are still out there.

holyvirgin: So I was with two young ladies who were seriously lamenting over the behaviours of men in ph. One said they act like desperate se x starved people any time they meet a single girl and the other lady has sworn never to date any man who lives or was raised in ph because (according to her ) they have no regard nor respect for women.

I dnt blame the guys though but I still feel there are decent girls out there who should be respected and not treated like a LovePeddler.

A friend visited me one time and was highly disappointed, she narrated a story of how she met a guy(with decent looks) but turned out to be something else. She Said on their first "outing" he wanted sleeping with her, instead of a decent place he took her to a guest inn.... According to him "first date should be cemented by love making" wowwwwww.....

My question is are there decent single guys in portharcourt who can at least be friends with a lady without ulterior motives? Can a single girl find true love in portharcourt? Are there men in ph who atleast respect women? I give up

it is the other way round!

I tried to fit into the usual Portharcourt boy life during my 3 years stay there. I just couldn't get myself to.

My style of my life may not be better, but one thing I know for sure is that a typical PH guy is very fake, heavily indebted and could borrow 20k to pay for a round of punny.

It's only in PH that a guy with a N1m life savings would spend 750k in a night club just to impress a 38 years prostitute.

Oh the girls? Believe me they are worst. PH boys are their best fit.