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Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by Melahou(m): 3:29am On Dec 20, 2013 |
Let him try using sex lubricant,it rily helps ease penetration.u may feel slight pain but after awhile you are good to go. |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by Melahou(m): 3:29am On Dec 20, 2013 |
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Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by Melahou(m): 3:29am On Dec 20, 2013 |
I'll b rite bak |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by josite: 5:51am On Dec 20, 2013 |
Mary_John247: @Oluafolabi, Funny enough, I went to see one in Lagos. Its in one of this famous private hospitals and the guy told me to try and relax. That it all in my head, and If I continue this way I will loose my husband. I never went back. The experience put off seeing anyone in Nigeria. But if you have any recommendation I will gladly consider it. I plan on going to the UK to see one but also not certain if thats the best solution as well..ur hubby and d doctor told u it is ur head and u ignore both of them cos u hav a closed mindset on ur issue,that it could be anywhere but ur head.i support ur hubby and d dr who told u to relax dat its in ur head.d way u are intellectualising d issue will make ur hubby looks elsewhere eventually.get hold of ur mind .d mind is d real sexual organ.d demands of marriage is putting too much presuure on u and u may have to solve dis issue withou being married.u girls shuld state ur condition to wold b husband.now u see d result of being clever by half. |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by Beey(f): 7:25am On Dec 20, 2013 |
Am Kenyan by nationality.We have a popular sexologist in Kenya who has TV shows & has some clips on YouTube as well .Her name is Gertrude Mungai.Find her on Facebook & am sure she'd be in a position to give you counsel on this issue. |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by joecooper(m): 8:24am On Dec 20, 2013 |
nice |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by babsomotde(m): 8:31am On Dec 20, 2013 |
Bellong, I can read in between lines of your comment. What has Christianity has to do with this? You may say Churches but not Christianity @op. See a medical experts on Sex stuffs, you know. I think pre-intimacy should be involved. bellong: |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by atundeola2020: 9:14am On Dec 20, 2013 |
Moshkom: Lobatan!!!You just have to relax your mind is not really an issue you will soon get over it but try to play more romans with ur hubby and get lubricated and tell ur hubby to dig it with constant digging ur vigina will open and you will enjoy sex and save your home but if this doesnt work consult your Doctor |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by Bmahn: 9:36am On Dec 20, 2013 |
[quote author=dayokanu]Try lubricants like Aboniki[/quote |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by drbunmi(f): 10:12am On Dec 20, 2013 |
i will help u w a sexiologist send me a mail contactdrbunmi@gmail.com |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by OILOFGLADNESS: 10:34am On Dec 20, 2013 |
Effiwizzi: IF YOUR HUSBAND HAD INSISTED YOU BOTH HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, YOU WOULD HAVE TOLD HIM NOOOO! PLSSSS, I ADVISE YOU, WHENEVER YOU DONT HAVE ANY THING OR DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY PLW, KEEP YOUR MOUTH, ITS NEVER COMPULSORY TO COMMENT. SOMEONE IS ASKINF FOR AND ADVISE, ALL YOU DO IS TO BLAME HER, AND THE WORST PART IS THAT YOU BLAME BLINDLY AND IGNORANTLY. 2 Likes |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by teemy(m): 12:24pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
@op get a vaginismus set from zeevirtualmedia.com or to save costs insert objects and work your way up to his penis size or extend pre-intimacy with inserted finger and use oil for lubrication till muscles can take him in. with time it will relax more. |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by Kerilyyz(m): 1:15pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
oh no!! |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by tolukem(f): 3:28pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
liloelawwal: A female friend of mine had d same problem when she got married,she got married as a virgin too n pased tru same tin u ar pasing tru now bt she eventually got pregnant n after delivery d whole pain went away.I totally get u, happened to me too got married as a virgin, but since I had my baby, sex life as been better even menstrual,pain, @ OP try to see a specialist,plus I also believe twould be better after child birth, cos after pushing a whole human being up, surely a d*** (pardon my french) shld be routine |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 2:12pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
MaryJohn247: God created you, created those genitals and joined you in Holy Matrimony...that God has the manufacturer's manual for your bodies...go to that God in Jesus' name and you'll unearth many treasures of marriage! |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by aspirebig: 11:41pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Op, pray about it and it will become history. Have faith. Put God first before seeking medical solution. 1 Like |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by Juzzybabe(f): 3:04pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
Unless there's more to it,but I think as a normal woman once aroused,u are naturally lubricated as your 'honey hole' gets wet which makes it easier for a 'rod' of moderate size to slips in. If u don't get wet before penetration,your stated complain would be the result. Try serious pre-intimacy including oral,and make sure your mind is at it. Love making works smoothly when the mind is fully involved. 1 Like |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by IDERAWOLE(m): 8:04pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
I don't envy either you or your husband. Your husband will be highly frustrated,coupled with the fact that we are really patient to talk it through. However, please take time to read my post below on another topic. The recommended product there will turn around both your sexual like life & marriage https://www.nairaland.com/2002182/how-vagina-odor-fought/8#36820238 |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by hottadiva(f): 5:22pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
naijathings:COW |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by IDERAWOLE(m): 11:57am On Sep 16, 2015 |
aaronson: Big time lies filled your post here. You should have just stayed with your advice than quoting scriptures. Imagine; God asking a man to lie just to evade punishment from a fellow mere mortal- BLASPHEMY. if they had sex before marriage; would that have solved the virgina problem? Just by having sex? It sounds dumb. In addition to other advice; see a good female gynaecologist or a reliable male gynaecologist, for physical examination. There is a solution to your problem. After the examination; & knowing the actual problem, give a shout, many fantastic food supplements are available in Nigeria for use; though Malaysian products. See the picture of two of such products. The first one is called PERMATAR SURI- For all gynaecological issues. The second is called- ROYAL JELLY; Popularly described as Queen Bee's food. Does a lot of corrective works in the body system; it's also anti-ageing. Many other powerful benefits also included.
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Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by cbravo2: 4:40pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
There has been a lot of issues relating to sexual immorality, failed marriages and destroyed families in the global world using the FCT Abuja Nigeria as a case study and if not for moral theology. In the society as a whole, sexual immorality, failed marriages and destroyed family life would have been a rare panacea but western civilization in Nigeria has broaden demands for moral standards in the youth class, through this research work which is crystal clear the Theological Subjectivism to Sex, Marriage and the Family. The research adopts primary meanson the issue of moral standards. The study recommends for the religious, educational and parental bodies to achieve further progress in their quest to alleviate such distortions from the Biblical views of such institutions and to take Christians back to the true definitions of these institutions and God’s original sayings and permissions. http://www.bravoprojecthelp.com/philosophy/theological-subjectivism-sex-marriage-family/ |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by jabojafa(m): 9:41pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
liloelawwal:a married lady telling u a man abt her sexual problems with her husband.... She try ooh. |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by sulealabi: 1:20am On Sep 07, 2016 |
The way couple handle marriage nowadays cause for alarm. Well, just go to http://savethemarriagesystemreviews.com/ |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by cbravo(m): 8:50am On May 29, 2017 |
THEOLOGICAL SUBJECTIVISM TO SEX, MARRIAGE AND THE FAMILY http://www.bravoprojecthelp.com/philosophy/theological-subjectivism-sex-marriage-family/ |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by cbravo(m): 8:16pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
This study will examine the Biblical view of sex, marriage and family in comparison to the worldly view of these institutions and guide Christians to what is morally right In God’s this is an incomplete article, it’s a product of a high quality project researched work.Click on the link bellow to get the complete work THEOLOGICAL SUBJECTIVISM TO SEX, MARRIAGE AND THE FAMILY |
Re: Problems With Sex Is Ruining My Marriage by frozen70(f): 9:13pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
MaryJohn247: Hmm, well let me ask you a question are you a virgin if yes with time you will come over it, if not a virgin, you better talk to your self and relax yourself so that those muscles will relax too and cooperate with you before you loose your treasure. |
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