Need you advise nairalanders.DATING A GIRL PRESENTLY AND SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING MARRIAGE.Each time i introduce her to family members and sayshe is from ijebu ode,Their countenances change.They keep saying ijebus will draw away son- inlaw from his family members.That the husband will forget about his people.One of my aunt even said she went to pray and that it was revealed that the Lady is very good and ok but that her mother will use something on me later(juju) to cause me to forget my people,lady is alright but their is a battle in her family.

I am convinced that the lady is a good and nice person without being told.I have not told her yet but surprisingly she told me she is not interested in the relationship again.REASON? She said her pastor told her that am ok but that there is a battle in my family.

Need ur advise pls.

Are u a man or a boy
Its ur life,ur future and ur happiness at stake here.If the lady makes u happy and has gaot everything u seek for in a wife,why dont u go ahead?
Anyway its ur life at the end of the day,think well and decide.gudluck

@ifyalways

Thanks for your reply . I have no doubt about this lady but she is now saying she is no longer interested in the relationship that her pastor told her she should call it quit.

ikaleguy:

but she is now saying she is no longer interested in the relationship that her pastor told her she should call it quit.

oh ooooo
the equation is balanced then,there are doubts and fears in both sides of the camp
u have nothing to worry abt then,case is closed.i hope u find someone else soon.

When i was small i use to hear of Ijabu Ode as where JUJU is their goodmorning.
Now that i have finished growing up its Ijubu garri i use to hear.

Now that am getting gray hair its Ijebu Girls

@poster
i have also wondered as well why people have something against ijebu women/men,my dad is very liberal when it comes to his children choosing husbands/wives,he doesnt mind marrying from either hausa ,ibo,calabar even white but the only thing he wont allow is ijebu husband or wife, maybe its cause of their love of parties,jewelries and ostentacious display of wealth. i dont know

@poster

Each cultural barground has got it's own vices, so there is no big deal in marrying an IJEBU GIRL !

abi o

am an ijebu ode girl, and i can assure u that there is nothing wrong in marrying from ijebu, but u just have to choose the family u want to marry from carefully , but then again nobody can really choose their future in laws family before hand, can they

shuppie:

but u just have to choose the family u want to marry from carefully , but then again nobody can really choose their future in laws family before hand, can they

hmmmn,intriguing, mind sharing why one needs to choose their in laws carefully and what specific types to avoid in ijebu?thanx

What's the balderdash about Ijebu girls? Leave them alone if you don't want them I beg, somebody else will.

I guess the poster also avoids ijebu garri too.

ijebu garri is the best,

shuppie:

ijebu garri is the best,

ijebu garri to kon daada. to wo eyin.

shuppie:

ijebu garri is the best,

lol have to agree

HCH3COO:

ijebu garri to kon daada. to wo eyin.

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how do you know, with very cold water, sugar is not neccessary, anything goes, groundnut, coconut, fried meat (especially ileya meat), fried fish, just name it.

ye! sugar is very neccessary o

Garri Ijebu with smoked fish and a little bit of salt and pepper beside it . Hmmmmmmm, my tommy don dey sing o !

GOD knows say i don miss my town and country.

ibkaye:

ye! sugar is very neccessary o

Very true. i once didn't put any and it was

onyinye2:

Very true. i once didn't put any and it was

lool i cannot enjoy my garri without sugar

shuppie:


how do you know, with very cold water, sugar is not neccessary, anything goes, groundnut, coconut, fried meat (especially ileya meat), fried fish, just name it.

u read my mind
garri ijebu with milk and milo.  ijekuje. ijebu cereal.

ibkaye:

lool i cannot enjoy my garri without sugar

Same here. with out it, it just taste not great at all.

@poster
ill advice you to find out why from your parents because its not wise to outrightly dismiss their concerns seeing as they must have had a valid reason for being emphatic

Yea, my ex's mum wasn't particularly happy about her dating an ijebu boy(me), are non-ijebu indigenes any better than ijebu indigenes?

and when a friend told her mum about me, the mum was all out against us getting involved cos her husband had took an ijebu woman as a 2nd wife,

ibkaye

ibkaye:

ye! sugar is very neccessary o

which time u behghin dey drink garri?
for mallam kano sho abi?

I nor tell u make u no go ther ehn?



Anyway, have u tried it wid HONEY?

garri with honey ke. . haven't tried that at all.

a trial will . . .