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Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by mikyke(m): 9:49pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Being sincere to U is enof reason to over look wat she did in the past. We all hv our ugly past, so free the babe jor and love on! 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by adavetee(m): 10:24pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Like a poster said, virtually most ladies in their 25 have passed through such condition either conciously or unconciously. So no need to form saint here. Getting impregnated in the course of any relationship isn't preplaned. Funny enough, many marriages begins with " I MISSED MY PERIOD AND I DON'T WANT TO GO FOR ANOTHER ABORTION". So getting married to someone who has once aborted isn't a new thing. The question is what if she had not told you the truth? I'm you wouldn't come here to ask this question. Go for your heart man. I have seen "olosho(s)" who go for D&C on monthly basis yet they are the once blessed with better hubbies than the so called "SU(s)". |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by andyanders: 10:29pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
jhendor: Honestly can you get married to someone that has done abortion before. Either done it once or some couple of times. Listen, if she has opened up to tell you this truth, she is a very positive person and you should trust and marry her. Let her confess her sins and ask for forgiveness from God for her past and God will forgive her. If she had lied to you, you wouldn't have known.So, telling you is a blessing to let you know how open and truthful she is. Good luck |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Saraha1(f): 10:33pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
andyanders:well said. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by akmid(f): 11:38pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
90 percent of nig ladies 've done at least 1 abortion, am a Dr so take it as a statement of fact. so be happy she even told u d truth,d 10 percent left r mostly d ones who marry as virgins or got disvirgined really late when they were wise enough to use contraceptives |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Paschal007: 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
I dunno if I wanna know that the kind of info. Things are not going to be the same for sure. That's why I don't blame guys that hit first before strolling down the altar, girls of nowadays are something else. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Frankenstein: 1:00am On Dec 22, 2013 |
Inosenduatall:Ogbeni. Why did you abandon your 'hopeless romantic' diary?? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by duni04(m): 4:26am On Dec 22, 2013 |
Vessi: do you think every lady agrees to sex before wedding?lol. sex b4 marriage? someone that has done abortion. what was she now aborting? immaculate baby? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by duni04(m): 4:29am On Dec 22, 2013 |
Skinni10ne:He and his ex? shey man dey follow woman do abortion? any gal that kills her baby is on her own. its her body, her choice |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Nobody: 5:54am On Dec 22, 2013 |
Inosenduatall: oga inosend, abeg what happened to your story on nl? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Nobody: 5:58am On Dec 22, 2013 |
Frankenstein: Ogbeni. Why did you abandon your 'hopeless romantic' diary?? we will de-rail ds thread and any oda thread he posts in unless mr inosend gives us d date wen e wil continue wit the story! 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Homguy(m): 8:27am On Dec 22, 2013 |
If it was medical abortion it doesnt affect her child bearing ability ,but surgical d&c(dilation and curetage) doest carry risks of substantial uterine incontinency or hypertrophy if improperly done or carried out by a quack. BOTTOMLINE; If you want to be rest assured take her for an examination. Also, she might have aborted more than once. Ladies seldom own up to the real number of abortions they have had. Cheers! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Inosenduatall: 8:46am On Dec 22, 2013 |
David_Kissinger: Not a cynic, a realist. And once again I said most, not all. Cheers. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Inosenduatall: 8:52am On Dec 22, 2013 |
akmid: 90 percent of nig ladies 've done at least 1 abortion, am a Dr so take it as a statement of fact. so be happy she even told u d truth,d 10 percent left r mostly d ones who marry as virgins or got disvirgined really late when they were wise enough to use contraceptives The person I just quoted is a lady right? So what are you guys saying here? That is not to say I wouldn't marry someone who has an abortion before. The important thing is that she can conceive. Also, the fact that she confessed to you doesn't make her a good person or a bad person. That's left for you to discern. No one really wishes to have an abortion. Don't sweat the small stuff biko. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Inosenduatall: 8:54am On Dec 22, 2013 |
Frankenstein: Ogbeni. Why did you abandon your 'hopeless romantic' diary?? Hahahaha... you followed that thread? Will 'forgive me for my sins' suffice? Working on that plus more next year. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Inosenduatall: 8:57am On Dec 22, 2013 |
bheegsam: Lol...You guys mean business. *scratching head* where did I stop again? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Frankenstein: 3:29pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Inosenduatall:Update the story today!!! It's not fair to abandon a nice story just like that. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Frankenstein: Update the story today!!! It's not fair to abandon a nice story just like that. I and Frankestein hereby declare war on this thread until Mr Ino send pays his dues!#GBAM# #team derailers# nani! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by LajaLaba: 11:13pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
U mean u are dating a woman for good 4 months and u never taste the cherry?My God!Is everything alright with the ministry |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by 190theclown: 11:34pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
akmid: [size=28pt]90 percent of nig ladies 've done at least 1 abortion,[/size] am a Dr so take it as a statement of fact. so be happy she even told u d truth,d 10 percent left r mostly d ones who marry as virgins or got disvirgined really late when they were wise enough to use contraceptives Na wa oh!! Make God help us *Wife these days don scarce finish* |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Nobody: 1:40am On Dec 23, 2013 |
190-the-clown:if all "All Nigerian" men didn't impregnate them, "All Nigerian" girls will not do abortion. So you see, both sexes are guilty. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by 190theclown: 10:04am On Dec 23, 2013 |
berem: if all "All Nigerian" men didn't impregnate them, "All Nigerian" girls will not do abortion. So you see, both sexes are guilty. where this one from follow come |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Nobody: 10:06am On Dec 23, 2013 |
@ Op,take her 4 a medical check up,after that, encourage her,2 see a clergy 4 delivrance ,believe it or not,she is a murderer. D blood of the innocent child she killed is at God's feet crying 4 revenge jst like that of Abel. Go 4 deliverance,and contionusly ask God 4 mercy. Why deliverance is important,is because,after been certified medically fit 2 reproduce, her hands are soiled with blood,d devil will capitalize on that and deal with her. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by Saraha1(f): 8:54am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Adaobi12: @ Op,take her 4 a medical check up,after that, encourage her,2 see a clergy 4 delivrance ,believe it or not,she is a murderer. D blood of the innocent child she killed is at God's feet crying 4 revenge jst like that of Abel. Go 4 deliverance,and contionusly ask God 4 mercy. Why deliverance is important,is because,after been certified medically fit 2 reproduce, her hands are soiled with blood,d devil will capitalize on that and deal with her.take it easy now! That means you have never committed any sins since you came to planet earth? 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has Once Done Abortion? by bettercreature(m): 12:44pm On May 28, 2015 |
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