ednut1: keep makin d home while oga has a nice time outside wit diff babes

ednut1: keep makin d home while oga has a nice time outside wit diff babes

idnoble135: @Topic
It's not the job of the lady. Stop putting burdens on yourself. A relationship must be supported by both parties. Both parties must have their hands on deck to ensure the relationship does not fail.
Men see ladies who try to maintain a relationship as a desperate one. And when a lady makes much investment on a relationship(investment as in time, money, intimacy etc), she tends to suffer a major heart break if there is ever a break up.
Let the man also ensure he does his part.
Relationship founded on the effort of a single partner is bound for the rocks.

idnoble135: @Topic
It's not the job of the lady. Stop putting burdens on yourself. A relationship must be supported by both parties. Both parties must have their hands on deck to ensure the relationship does not fail.
Men see ladies who try to maintain a relationship as a desperate one. And when a lady makes much investment on a relationship(investment as in time, money, intimacy etc), she tends to suffer a major heart break if there is ever a break up.
Let the man also ensure he does his part.
Relationship founded on the effort of a single partner is bound for the rocks.

Rityben:
The success of every relationship or marriage lies hugely on the woman, we are homemakers/builders. There is this general mentality we go with, dat a man should txt first, call first and do so many other things first. If he doesn't then he doesn't love you or care about you. A man should take care of all ur bills else he isn't man enough. Well life and love have gone beyond dat, men have a lot on their mind, so remembering to call first or txt first might not be dat easy, but that doesn't mean they care less. What's wrong if we the ladies do that first? Does it make us less who we are? What's wrong in a woman showing her affection or expressing her feeling for her husband or man? Relationship is not a one-man business, a man equally needs care, love, attention etc. Am not saying the men shouldn't put in effort to make their affair or marriage work. Am saying we the women have responsibilities too that we seem to be ignoring. What's wrong if you buy your man or husband a gift for xmas? For once give and not expect. Stop making men scared of festive periods. Take him out if u have kids, take them all out on your treat. Make them feel loved and wanted. Some men only get gifts on their birthdays, and its not more than boxers and singlets. But we expect more expensive gifts. Am not against the women cause am one, am just saying we all rise up and make a change. A man earns 200k and his wife earns 250k and he is expected to carry the entire family on the 200k and still save, you as the wife what's your 250k for? Cause u still expect him to send money to your family. Let's learn to help, we are helpers not liability. Let's make the men comfortable and not at edge always. Do you know why some men don't tell their women the exact amount they earn? Its the fear of being expected to spend it all on them. Be wise, make your home don't break it. God bless your effort

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aywhy93:

[size=14pt]Really Nice Post... A relationship should lie on both parties though but as you said... I also think it lies on Ladies most, If a Lady's got a nice, caring and wise man, he wont take the lady's investment on the relationship(investment as in time, money, intimacy etc) for being so desperate, but will appreciate it instead... A man like me, [/size]

Rityben:
The success of every relationship or marriage lies hugely on the woman, we are homemakers/builders. There is this general mentality we go with, dat a man should txt first, call first and do so many other things first. If he doesn't then he doesn't love you or care about you. A man should take care of all ur bills else he isn't man enough. Well life and love have gone beyond dat, men have a lot on their mind, so remembering to call first or txt first might not be dat easy, but that doesn't mean they care less. What's wrong if we the ladies do that first? Does it make us less who we are? What's wrong in a woman showing her affection or expressing her feeling for her husband or man? Relationship is not a one-man business, a man equally needs care, love, attention etc. Am not saying the men shouldn't put in effort to make their affair or marriage work. Am saying we the women have responsibilities too that we seem to be ignoring. What's wrong if you buy your man or husband a gift for xmas? For once give and not expect. Stop making men scared of festive periods. Take him out if u have kids, take them all out on your treat. Make them feel loved and wanted. Some men only get gifts on their birthdays, and its not more than boxers and singlets. But we expect more expensive gifts. Am not against the women cause am one, am just saying we all rise up and make a change. A man earns 200k and his wife earns 250k and he is expected to carry the entire family on the 200k and still save, you as the wife what's your 250k for? Cause u still expect him to send money to your family. Let's learn to help, we are helpers not liability. Let's make the men comfortable and not at edge always. Do you know why some men don't tell their women the exact amount they earn? Its the fear of being expected to spend it all on them. Be wise, make your home don't break it. God bless your effort

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Rityben:
Abeg give me ur pin or Whatsapp no

190-the-clown:


One question - U don marry ?

Rityben:
I never see Mr right

Enegod: na for nairaland you de find mr right? there are so many mr lefts here

Rityben:
I never see Mr right

No wonder you dey hustle for prick like this

Its aite - the lawd is your strength

190-the-clown:


No wonder you dey hustle for prick like this

ednut1: keep makin d home while oga has a nice time outside wit diff babes

190-the-clown:


No wonder you dey hustle for prick like this

Its aite - the lawd is your strength

kulyie: Werey

Rityben:
Abeg give me ur pin or Whatsapp no

ireneidiva: Every emeka, kemi and hassan now give advice. Mtchew

Rityben:
Your comment just said a lot abt you.