rooney2525: which part of Esan are you from? Cos dis is d first timeam seeing an Esan babe on nairaland.

chronique: Bros,I nor be babe;I be bros like you

tpia@:
I am surprised bini people are refusing to take up this open challenge.

Had it been some other tribe who started this thread, it would have been war by now.

Hmm, na so una fear calabar reach, ok then.

The ' binibot' which alerts some people everytime bini is mentioned on nl, seems to be non functioning?

I see none of the warriors yet.

So na for only non calabar folks una dey get power.

koolpapa: I think is your sister that encourage her husband to have more kids.




why she no do family planning,Abi she no sabi dat one as well.

koolpapa: I think is your sister that encourage her husband to have more kids.




why she no do family planning,Abi she no sabi dat one as well.

ednut1: let me say presticibe ie as quickly as possible ur sis husband cannot send 10 children abroad na so e easy

Sweetlemon:




You guys really need to take a chill pill really. If I were making fun of Edo people then that's a different thing. I'm only doing a research on what I have noticed!

Your fellow Binis here are taking it cool and even providing historical reasons for it. But you guys prefer to fight non-existing battles.

Or maybe you just don't comprehend what I'm trying to say here. When I say large families I don't mean polygamy ooooooo! I mean the need to have up to 6-10 kids from just one wife. If it's polygamy then I would have mentioned the Urhobos as the perfect case study!

Seun should consider adding some kind of app which can enable people understand posts in their native language since English is so difficult these days....

bokohalal:

So you dey climaxxx from all dem tribal fights before? Sorry my dear,you go dry from this thread. According to my Isoko neighbours ' we (egg) failure'.

I think the superlative "most", even " more" should have been inserted in the heading .

Pennywise: ^^^
Tpia, yoruba amazon and irredentist. Dont you ever get tired?

osigiepurr:

Hey, what's ur business counting and monitoring d number of kids innocent couples are having in their matrimonial homes?......it truly shows ur jobless and insensitive towards the affairs of other people. Besides, u are still yet to marry, pple like u may end up not getting a husband or even having kids of ur own...Oba gha tokpere!

chronique: Sweetlemon,sweetest lemonade. Your sister has done well by marrying one of us. Why not follow suit? Marry me and I promise we won't have too many children. Me,I will pity you. . I really can't say cos I'm not bini per say;I'm esan. But I know from way back,it has always been a thing of pride for our men to father many children(since polygamy was almost like a culture to us). It used to be pretty rare to see an indigene who was born and bred in that state,who didn't have more than one wife. Guess the love for kids and a large family plays a major role in that. Most Edo men believe in their names living long after them. Hence,the large army of kids. You can imagine a family like the popular bello-osagie where most of them are doing well. Today,even those who do not belong to that family,but answer Osagie,have some kinda reputation cos most people tend to think they're from that family. All through my time in school,I was always faced with the challenge of telling people I do not belong to a certain Ighodalo family who happens to be a popular chartered accountant from my state. I'm from a large family also and my dad has as much as 15 kids(amongst which are 4 medical doctors/surgeons,1 accountant,1 lawyer,1 pharmacist,2 economists,2 engineers,2 business mgt graduates,etc) You do the maths and imagine how many grandchildren he would have. Eventually,when all his kids succeed and become popular,he would eventually become one of those popular names from the state.

I just think we like to create dynasties.

Pennywise: ^^^
Tpia, yoruba amazon and irredentist. Dont you ever get tired?

Nosu:

I am beginning to think dat she is on Seun's payroll. If not some drastic steps would hv be taken to curb her

Nosu: Ur finding isnt true. I have Lived in lagos and some other part of the west and I can say that it is the same tins ova there.

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Prettiepearlz: Although I'm neither from Benin nor Edo,I've always loved that state called Edo and the people from there,especially the Benin,because they have a very rich culture,and I love the way they dress,and even their songs and even their names. Ever since I understood what marriage meant,I've always prayed to God to give me a man from Benin or a man from the urhobo,itsekiri(pardon my spelling) part of delta state(although I prefer God's plan for my life),the only problem is mothers with their "don't marry people from here,don't marry people from that". But the truth of the matter is I love Benin and everything about that kingdom.

tpia:

eternal weeper.

LoveDecay:

Respect yourself, have you heard any off them complaining. Do you think those girls are forced to go to Italy ?

You hustle with what you have not what you don't have ....

OP, marry an edo man if you can , enjoy your freedom ...cos that's how we roll..... We don't cuff our chicks

xp17:
bini men knows how to Spend money on women, so more women would not mind participating in a bini man's benevolence, hence bini men find it uncontrollable to have one lady. (many ladies, many children) . Real bini men don't patronize d use of condom.

Positivegirl:


When a group of men spend their money easily ... it could be a sign of impulsivity... doing things without thinking through and this would be part of ADHD, Autism etc. Why is it that other groups dont spend their money easily, save their money and communicate more and better with their wives and children. Certain men are not really husbands or fathers... but are in and out husbands meaning they just float around the family and dont really get involved... the women do all the work which is not supposed to be like that... work is supposed to be shared and be fair.

easy mandam. I'll pass your message across to other bini men.