This is my story

My high school crush became my boyfriend when I was in part two in the university, after we both realised we liked each other very much, and we dated for almost 4yrs. We experienced what every other people gain and lose in a relationship, but there was a point my boyfriend told me he was not promising anything and I guess probably he doesn't want to break my heart. So I let some important things slide, after some years I knew we were serious about each other but anytime I tell my bf to let us discuss our future,to him we were young and why discuss the future when there was time. Then I got pregnant and I resorted to abortion, I made that decision not him because I didn't want to embrass myself or my family, nor do I want to be the girl who trapped him with been pregnant.
After that nothing seems to change but everytime I see a kid, I wished I had mine. Things didn't change between me and my bf but then I got pregnant again! I was sure I wasn't ready to abort but who was I kidding? I went through with the second abortion and that time I put an end to the relationship, but we made up again.
Things changed and I knew as much as I loved the guy, I love myself more. I knew breaking off my relationship which I thought would lead us to our happily ever after would kill me inside but I did it anywhere because we both will keep living in sin and every time an unwanted pregnancy occur we will resort to what we always do. So I did both of us a favour, especially me because a man has NOTHING TO LOSE.

I decided to share my story after reading a lot about we women sacificing our body all in the name of love and a story a guy put up on linda ikeji's blog about dumping a lady after six abortion because she might give birth again. And again in the end we the women are the ones who have everything to lose, I pray those of us who have done abortions get God's forgiveness but not ever having to be in that postion depends on US.
Sorry for the long epistle I just thought I should let out whats on my mind, we women have to stop been our own worse enemy.

Hmmmmm The the rate of abortion nowadays dey fear me.

Killing as if we can give life.


whats wrong with this generation.

last sin on my mind is ABORTION.

The fact dat guys av little or nothing to lose in case of a failed relationship is d more reason why a lady needs to be more careful especially when u perceive it wouldn't lead to marriage instead of putting one's life on d line in d name of love

Rhemar: The fact dat guys av little or nothing to lose in case of a failed relationship is d more reason why a lady needs to be more careful especially when u perceive it wouldn't lead to marriage instead of putting one's life on d line in d name of love

And the same fact makes them trample over our feelings and emotion.

You haven't really given an advice here! You didn't want it but it happened anyway, you could have prevented it but you didn't.
I think you're feeling bad that you terminated them, well you shouldn't because it wouldn't make sense if you bore a child and you cannot give the best to that child. If I were that child I might curse you.

I think the p here is if you don't want to get pregnant use protections or contraceptives or tell your nigga to pullout. It's easier to not get pregnant than being pregnant and having to think of abortions, trapping the man with it, San arranged marriage or other P's, but if after all this you still get preg and you don't want the baby get the abortion done in the best place possible to avoid complications.
This days we can hardly rule out the practice of celibacy until marriage becuz to me mehn its harder than whole other commandments.

In order to avoid complications in a relationship, one has to know what he/she really wants and stand by it. And one should also be ready to accept the consequences that comes with the decision he/she makes in a relationships.

If you want a future with your boyfriend and its obvious he isn't ready for a future with you, it simply means you have to leave. The earlier the better.
Getting pregnant for the first time can be seen as a mistake but after abortion and all the sad feelings, getting pregnant the second time can be seen as negligence.

I know of guys who threaten their girlfriends with breakup if they don't let them DO IT skin to skin and those girls succumb just cause they feel they are in love.
My dear ladies, whoever does that to you does not love you and deserves to loose his joystick because asides getting pregnant you could contact STDs

@Op we all do make mistake you know. And dont feel bad you will have your kids too someday.
Thanks for sharing your story

What are we suppossed to learn? That you and your ex don't know how to prevent unwanted pregnancies? Or that you were gullible enough to sleep with him again, unprotected even, after he hadn't taken responsibility for the pregnancy after years of courtship?

Just wondering

is contraceptive that expensive that ladies always go for abortion as last resort.
I keep telling people that relationship,and sex isnt for toddlers,most girls cant cope with the excitement and demands,and they always end up the looser.

"Part two"
Hehehe... Na nigerian film?

@ op iz it that you have never had of conceptives before or you just enjoy to be ignorant?

Please what's the title of the movie?

Speechless, life very cruel @ times

Op sorry oh!


Abortion scares the hell outta me

Better do abortion than born that nuisance that might be a terrorist or rapist or even a killer.

We have over 170million people. we are not lacking in human bodies so you don't have to add an unwanted kid into this Cesspool.

look around you you will see touts,agberos,cultist,corrupt politicians and etc. abortion would have save us from their scourge even though some of them were wanted pregnancies.

Birth Control needs to be initiated very sharply for the sake of development.

@OP..don't be hard on yourself. No need bringing in a child that will upset the balance of your life. Trust me.
you can always get pregnant in future and the dude leaving you- Don't let it break your heart.

When you see the almajiri horde and the disaster they are capable of, only then will you see the need for abortion/birth control..Abortion has a place in a sane society.

Next time you might want to use protection(prevention is better)

my opinion.

ciao!

Mprex:
Op sorry oh!


Abortion scares the hell outta me

it's really wrong and dangerous don't try it pls

Eeyah

Nne, biko, who cares Infact, asked for your story in the first place? Your grammar needs a healing spell first!

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