sunnydayasaba: How can u be a baby mama for a guy u like who am sure don't even like u, cus that's stupid. U rather stay single girl, Na rubbish oh, if he likes u in return, he will not even suggest such at all.

IamDejman: So u mean to say there isn't a guy in d whole world dat u can say "I do" to?

peren:

I already missed out on some, as at today 2nd jan 2014, anyone i say i do to will be on management bases.

anselm791: First of all, you two are way too old to be watching MTV. That poo like homosexuality is for the white folks, we don't get it and we won't accept it.
Secondly, for someone with commitment issues, I think wanting a kid is the biggest joke of the year, its like me hating heights and still wanting to be a pilot.
Finally, I'm not sure what you really want in a man, but I know we are what we attract, so work on yourself.

peren:
Help nairalanders,

Am gonna be 30 this year and I am not yet married or in any serious relationship. A friend of mine who is also unmarried, but with commitment issues, suggests that I should be his baby mama, and then we see where it goes from there. I would like to know what you guys think about this, you may leave out the spiritual aspects as I already know these. I am more interested in logical reasoning with respect to this issue. I think I have been way too picky with guys waiting for love(if that still exists). I still have some guys that are interested but am not very attracted to them or i am not interested in them. So the question is should I settle for some guy am not really interested in, or do i accept to be the baby mama of a guy i like.

sweetestguy: Y do I always think that if ure beautiful and hav a nice xter,u wil neva complain of bein single,men will rush u,,

IamTitanium: because u have a r3tarded mentality

sweetestguy: Y do I always think that if ure beautiful and hav a nice xter,u wil neva complain of bein single,men will rush u,,

anselm791:

Like Linda Ikeji and Genevive nnaji?

sweetestguy: no I don't,jus my opinion, if ure beautiful and hav a nice xter, y wud u be single?eh? @least I knw this is d first two tins guys check out for in a woman,,and meanwhile learn to reply people without insultin dem,cos frm my analysis if dias some1 wit a retarded mentality,I tink its u

mayapop: Why would you wanna be a baby mama to a guy you're not really sure if he wants to marry you? Remember he said, "let's see where it goes" um think about it, you don't wanna do something you'd regret in a way when he's ready to put a ring on it, then you can be more than a baby mama, that's way more better.

Danhumprey: Why on Earth will you wanna be a baby mama? Gaddemit! You are signing up for slavery. Use your head for once! You don't just miraculously have feelings for the opposite sex. You develop it,nurture and grow with it and see where it lead. Don't be desperate,at the same time,don't be picky. I won't advise you to be a baby mama.

sweetestguy: Y do I always think that if ure beautiful and hav a nice xter,u wil neva complain of bein single,men will rush u,,

IamTitanium: I'm sorry

anselm791: I'm sorry for my crazy assumptions, actually I do watch MTV and homosexuality which is now a culture by the way was made cool by the media and same thing is happening with babymamas, in fact there's a reality tv 'me and my baby mamas' now showing on MTV. I still think its a bad idea though, that fella you like needs to grow up cause maturity comes with responsiblities and being commited to them. Now I'm not sure what your problem is, and yes you do have one, find it and fix it, please don't play that "someone will love me for me" card, you don't have the luxury of time.

peren:
Help nairalanders,

Am gonna be 30 this year and I am not yet married or in any serious relationship. A friend of mine who is also unmarried, but with commitment issues, suggests that I should be his baby mama, and then we see where it goes from there. I would like to know what you guys think about this, you may leave out the spiritual aspects as I already know these. I am more interested in logical reasoning with respect to this issue. I think I have been way too picky with guys waiting for love(if that still exists). I still have some guys that are interested but am not very attracted to them or i am not interested in them. So the question is should I settle for some guy am not really interested in, or do i accept to be the baby mama of a guy i like.

Uyi Iredia:

Hmmn. So far you can take care of the child and you are sure you want to have the arrangement_fine. But have you considered adoption, in order to be a 'baby mama' without further contradicting your religion ?

peren:

You think wrong! Doesn't work that way, and what happens when they rush you but u are not interested in those coming