Hi guys, happy new yr. I met this gal last yr September and we started dating, it was like d best thing eva. by then we were still prospective batch c corp members .during Nov when we got to camp, she changed; no longer calling or texting me unlike before. I was bothered and after so much pressure she opened up and said she's confused that she's having feelings for a Muslim guy. the bottom line now is that, she said she's not going to date d guy and she's never going to break up with me but she needs a break just so she can clear her head. so am asking fellow nairalanders, should I still wait for her? cos I really love her

IamDejman: Move on bro...She has definitely lost interest in u.

beta start playing other girls... shez nt coming bk...

In her state of confusion,capital on that,make yourself desirable. Her confusion is to your favour,if she aint in you,she won't be confused about the other guy.

Guy move on, dat girl is not interested in u again. The only way she can trip for u is wen u r able to write her off, dis will be posible by u dating a lady far more sophisticated than her. Suddenly she will get jealous and tink of coming back.

u just wrote here dat she says she is never going to break up with u all she needs is a break den dude give her a break and if after a month she hasn't "cleared her head" den u sit her down and ask her to make a decision either she stays wit u or u guys go ur separate ways.

Yomieluv: In her state of confusion,capital on that,make yourself desirable. Her confusion is to your favour,if she aint in you,she won't be confused about the other guy.

tnx bro for ur contribution. please how do I make myself desirable to her??

viqueta: Hi guys, happy new yr. I met this gal last yr September and we started dating, it was like d best thing eva. by then we were still prospective batch c corp members .during Nov when we got to camp, she changed; no longer calling or texting me unlike before. I was bothered and after so much pressure she opened up and said she's confused that she's having feelings for a Muslim guy. the bottom line now is that, she said she's not going to date d guy and she's never going to break up with me but she needs a break just so she can clear her head. so am asking fellow nairalanders, should I still wait for her? cos I really love her

Yes you can wait for her but wahts your time limit? In the mean time upgrade your self esteem confidence is very attractive and will make you more desirable to her.

viqueta: tnx bro for ur contribution. please how do I make myself desirable to her??

let her see more of you,give her a shoulder to lean,call her more,do things she likes,and bombard her with emotions.she will fall for you like a pack of card.
Ladies are tripped by what they hear.

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andromida:

Yes you can wait for her but wahts your time limit? In the mean time upgrade your self esteem confidence is very attractive and will make you more desirable to her.

do u think she's acting the way she is cos I lack self esteem??

Yomieluv: In her state of confusion,capital on that,make yourself desirable. Her confusion is to your favour,if she aint in you,she won't be confused about the other guy.

Who says she's confused...she might have just bought herself enough time to compare which one of the guys she's going to pick. She's probably going to spend quality time with the muslim guy to find out if he fits as a replacement while you will be thinking she's taking time to clear her head. My advice move on because if she's into you there won't be another guy

nelklyn:
Who says she's confused...she might have just bought herself enough time to compare which one of the guys she's going to pick. She's probably going to spend quality time with the muslim guy to find out if he fits as a replacement while you will be thinking she's taking time to clear her head. My advice move on because if she's into you there won't be another guy

if she truly care about the muslim guy,she wont be in a state of dilema at all.guys can talk a lady out of her current relationship,it takes using the weakness of the other guy to your advantage.

viqueta: do u think she's acting the way she is cos I lack self esteem??

Could be your self esteem, could be anything. I don't know her all i know is we women find confidence very attractive in a man and men with confidence are happier and easier to be with note i didnt say cockiness or arrogance just good old confidence. I can assure you when your self esteem is very high you may not even want her again.

Since you want to wait for her why not become a better man in the interim. The kind of man women cannot afford to leave and a healthy self esteem will do the job for you. Find yourself, know yourself.

She told you she's interested in a muslim guy and she needs a break to clear her head.Leave her alone,she's probably having fun and you're sitting somewhere waiting for her.If you've been a good bf I don't see any reason why she'd want a break to clear her head of what?You or the muslim guy?Try moving on abeg,Girls sef ehn....

OP, why are so particular about the fact that the other guy is a muslim, if you have something against muslims why don't you come out and say it instead.
Smh..

numerical_guy: OP, why are so particular about the fact that the other guy is a muslim, if you have something against muslims why don't you come out and say it instead.
Smh..

I don't and will never have anything against Muslims. she told me that she can never date a Muslim guy

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