Mynd_44:
so what is the problem with ladies? Inherent genetic stupîdity or what?

myndd take ur time ooo

omiobo: Most of the girls think like Esau while the guys think like Jacob.

True talk

cdamsel: myndd take ur time ooo

In my first post, I wrote that by "girls" I mean a percentage not all of them

Adaeze003:

O jeez! Mynd easy jor no need of calling names. Like I said, some girls fall into the wrong hands early. I remember when I was still in secondary school, 15 year olds were already 'dating' 25-30 year old men! .

This is what I'm saying. I guess you were able to know the right from the wrong then. A wise kid will advice his/herself what to do at this point. Either to join the whatsup group or learn from their mistake.

That's silly

More of a proof of irresponsibility.

Funny enough, you will see a man of 45 and a woman of 30(Not yet married) advocating for abortion

Boy: if you love me,you will have sex with me.
Girl: ok.

Girl: i am pregnant.
Boy: if you love me,you will have an abortion. Here's some cash.
Girl: ok.

Girl: my womb is damaged.
Boy: if you love me, you would get out of my presence,cos i want kids of my own.

Silly girls that won't learn.

Op,
To abort or not to abort solely lies in the hands of the lady. Most ladies will rather abort and blame the guy when the relationship fails.
Yes, the guy may deny initially but if you as a lady goes ahead and takes responsibility you may actually turn around and smile in thee future.

;DHummmmmm

xynerise: Funny enough, you will see a man of 45 and a woman of 30(Not yet married) advocating for abortion

Guy you funny.

girls are indirectly demanding for sex when they demand for money from a guy.
don't demand money from a guy and he won't demand sex from you

Mynd_44:
When I make these comments, I am not talking about children who are taken advantage of by grown men who ought to be in jail but I am talking about adults who have brains but refuse to use them.

Would you tell me that a 20 year old girl does not know what's good for her? Yet they keep going for the wrong people. The guys who have no good intention and they come back to blame the guys who already have a mission and they accomplished it

I get your point but that's the kind of society we have. Sometimes I also wonder why girls make wrong choices. What I'm trying to do is to get rid of the 'use and dump' mentality. Truth is, the girls that cry actually allow themselves to be used.

But what of cases where a girl is an a long term relationship with a guy and he claims to love her? How is she to know that the guy is gon dump her after all is said and done?

Ladies when next you are about to open up your legs to that your boyfriend, think about few years from now, think about that man who would be noble enough to put a ring on it. In essence, think beyond this present enjoyment and project into your future. What you are doing to that man aint fair. Nobody wants to eat stale food. Not even you

Adaeze003:

So to you who have decided to have sex, why are you getting pregnant? Yes this question is for the girls and I know you don't impregnate yourselves but with all the birth control methods available I'll say it is all you. And when you get pregnant why do you abort the baby? Yes, that's all you too. And when you abort these babies why do you expect the guys to still marry you? With all the 'quaks' in our society today, there is every reason to question your fertility after an abortion. And have you considered the health/life risks? Guys might tell you 'if you love me you'll abort the baby' because they are not affected in anyway and quite frankly they don't care but we should learn to prevent the pregnancy from occuring.



Source: me and wikipedia.

100000000likes.... dont play the game if you dont know the game!!!

xynerise: Some girls used sex to wish Happy New year

I trust you!

Adaeze003:

I get your point but that's the kind of society we have. Sometimes I also wonder why girls make wrong choices. What I'm trying to do is to get rid of the 'use and dump' mentality. Truth is, the girls that cry actually allow themselves to be used.

But what of cases where a girl is an a long term relationship with a guy and he claims to love her? How is she to know that the guy is gon dump her after all is said and done?

They dont know because they are always blinded to the obvious around them. They chose to put the man on a pedestal and deny any wrong doing on his part. You will hear women see obvious signs and say things like "where do I start from?"

crackhaus: I like the sauce

I love the stew.

Adaeze003:

But what of cases where a girl is an a long term relationship with a guy and he claims to love her? How is she to know that the guy is gon dump her after all is said and done?

You don't know...... I hate that term 'used and dumped'.
The relationship may not be working, do you want both parties (or one) to be in a loveless marriage?
Sex is not a proof of love
Money is not a proof of love
If it works fine. If not fine. As an individual learn to make yourself happy and you will live long.

It is easier to learn the Easy way than the Hard way. Some just look and never learn , and don't just want to think about where the temporary joyride would lead them to. A word is always enough..

Mmmmmmmnmmm

Mynd_44:
And I wonder if they have brains or vacuum inside their skulls

Girls like that have fish brain.

yes OP...abortion is a proof of love.

if a girl loves a guy and "mistakenly" got preggy for the same guy....

if the guy is not ready to settle down...due to some reasons.......(working on a project that requires full attention, masters degree, has not built his house etc,) then the girl should be able to prove her love and abort the foetus before it becomes a baby.

yes.....its a proof of love.

rigarmortis: yes OP...abortion is a proof of love.

if a girl loves a guy and "mistakenly" got preggy for the same guy....

if the guy is not ready to settle down...due to some reasons.......(working on a project that requires full attention, masters degree, has not built his house etc,) then the girl should be able to prove her love and abort the foetus before it becomes a baby.

yes.....its a proof of love.

No need convincing this guy. Something practical would.

Mynd_44: Yeah girls know there are things to do and yet again, they keep falling into the same pit of players who have no regard for them while completely ignoring those who do. That is the major problem with girls these days.

Asin I don't understand them, I know a girl who's dating a player, this same guy told her he has bi;tches and this girl still think about him after the heartbroken. I still always tell her to forget this guy I don't understand some girls.

I get your point but that's the kind of society we have. Sometimes I also wonder why girls make wrong choices. What I'm trying to do is to get rid of the 'use and dump' mentality. Truth is, the girls that cry actually allow themselves to be used.
As long as the dat thing called money is involve it will be difficult.
one thing i dont like about our ladies is the have it by all means syndrome, they always want to be who they are not.

tintingz: Asin I don't understand them, I know a girl who's dating a player, this same guy told her he has bi;tches and this girl still think about him after the heartbroken. I still always tell her to forget this guy I don't understand some girls.

then she is not been sincere to u, she is deriving sometin period.

Lakeshizu: then she is not been sincere to u, she is deriving sometin period.

Hmmm, you have a point there.

Its simple na,use condom if u mus do it,haba

Firstly, Sex isnt a proof of luv. So I dnt xpct abortion 2 b either.