rampant:

a forced sex is rape,married or not married

dreeldee:

Is there anything like non-consensual sexual assault/ rape in marriage? Since marriage is a LEGAL union of both a man and a woman intimately, and sexually. Also one primary reason we get married is to procreate and most states will issue a divorce on the No sex ground

rampant:

there is a difference between rape and fornication

dreeldee:

fornication in marriage

rampant:

fornication's got to do wt d word illegal right?

u said since d couple r legally married ,and i said there is a difference between forced sex and fornication

Spousal rape is non-consensual sexual assault in which the perpetrator is the victim's spouse.

Spousal rape is also called marital rape and often wrongly conflated with partner rape or intimate partner sexual assault (IPSA). Because there is a widely held view that a man or woman surrenders consent upon entering a marriage, the law has been slow to criminalize this form of sexual assault. It is now a crime in most parts of the Western world, but exemptions still apply in some places; for example in some places marital rape cannot be prosecuted if a couple were living together at the time of the assault.

dreeldee:

does the law apply in Naija? _{i don't think so}

dreeldee:

it's worst when your wife refuses to give you sex when you want it too

dreeldee:

it's worst when your wife refuses to give you sex when you want it too

rampant:

yea ,but its better he goes masturbate somewhere else and then later sit her down and thrash out the issue wt her,tell her shes going to make u seek sexual satisfaction outside

onyinye2:

oh suck it up. you get over it.

HCH3COO:

It's terrible. Very very bad. Cruel and unusual punishment.

dreeldee:

masturbate after all the years i've waited for the marriage

HCH3COO:

It's terrible.  Very very bad.  Cruel and unusual punishment.  Should be made illegal.

dreeldee:

masturbate after all the years i've waited for the marriage

dreeldee:

don't tell me you're planning to be like that

onyinye2:

It is not food, water, nor shelter. if im not in the mood, im sorry but im not doing anything with you tonight.

rampant:

and after all d sex uve had u still can't calm your hormones down abi?

onyinye2:

It is not food, water, nor shelter. if im not in the mood, im sorry but im not doing anything with you tonight.

HCH3COO:

don't use that argument. rape is not food, water, and shelter either.


dreeldee, it appears the best solution is to have a hooker on the side ???

dreeldee:

naw you must do

onyinye2:

the only thing i have to do is stay black, pay taxes, and die.

HCH3COO:

that makes you a waste of space .

ibkaye:

I'm assuming when you guys talk of your wives depriving you of sex, you mean constantly and giving lame excuses too in order to prevent having sex with you, I'm sure you will allow her to refuse once in a while when she is sincerly tired or not in the mood etc