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Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Forwetinnah: 7:48pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Imagine excuse 'when has wife become girlfriend'..yet you want to do everything married couples do with your GF(chopping kpomo unlimited and even getting her pregos)..if you can't take care of your GF na wife you go fit take care of? I bet then you'll tell your wife that you would rather take care of the kids not her..excuses, excuses excuses! Most of you are just plain self centered that's all 3 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Forwetinnah: 7:53pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
princessayesha: oh ok...u know they are not wives and u keep bleeping them hun? No mind am joor..check out him profile, na so so women naim him dey FF, JayJay lol. He doesn't fornicate..yes! And I'm still in my mums uterus..yay!! |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by buJu234: 8:01pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Begging spirit of naija babes.. That's how one say that I am d one God sent her way to help..only 2wks of knwing her oo. Come and see demand that even included her mother's debt; senior brother's daughter naming ceremony etc.. At the end I told her that am not her father neither am I angel gabriel.. I chased her away very fast!! |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by jmoore(m): 8:30pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
For wetin nah?:sex for money= prostitution. Btw, dating is not mating. 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 8:35pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
For wetin nah?: And I'm suppose to educate you on the obvious ? Nah.. I'm even surprised the gold-diggers association of Nairaland haven't offered you "Likes" in numbers!! (still waiting on that though) But amidst your ballyhoo talk and analogy of a rich girl scenario you still didn't deny the fact that its still possible for her to hangout/date/ffUckk/marry/play/eat/smile/laugh/shhiit/relate with a ffUckking broke niqqa huh ? Knowing the norms in reality and living it just like an uneducated and uncivilized being doesn't make it right,does it ? So I'd leave you and hope you and your category of abnormal creatures are in the minority. Oh God Please save this country from sophisticated hobos like this. 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by SHAAWA: 9:11pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
In a food chain, there must always be a supplier and a consumer. it depends on who sit on top of the food chain. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by faceit: 9:59pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
[quote author=kadas-01]Both (greed and poverty)! I still believe the average Nigerian girl needs to be empowered so as to help erase this retrogressive mentality that many of them posses presently! If this can be achieved, our society would be a better place![/quot most nigerian guys are also like that. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by vikkyboboski(m): 10:40pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
will say is wrong orientation and stupidity! most kns is wrong yet can't deceit from it! |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by cheezypeachy(f): 11:11pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities ofIt's greed especially, I have some here talking about what car(s) they want to drive, houses they want to live in in the next 2years; laying down. I'm feeling so irritated |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by frank043(m): 11:56pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of Its poverty,greed and others!!!...most of our naija babes are all out 2 wretch we guys!!!!! |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by frank043(m): 12:02am On Jan 06, 2014 |
cheezypeachy: It's greed especially, I have some here talking about what car(s) they want to drive, houses they want to live in in the next 2years; laying down. I'm feeling so irritated Hmmm!ur types' kinda rare right?I wudnt mind hv'n u as my gurl...I wnt v 2 spend much,right??#winks# |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by frank043(m): 12:26am On Jan 06, 2014 |
j.tenna: Kul!!!...sensible tlk,i need ur type 4a GF cos I'm single,buh nt seriously searching.wat do u say?no offence,pls. Na wa 4u oo!...I askd wat u tink,n u r liking my post...hmmm.I guess u r either hookd or nt seriously searching lik moi...oya,like dis 1 as well.lolz 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Jesuspistol(m): 12:40am On Jan 06, 2014 |
idu1: poverty and laziness. FTC. They should know that asking for things diminish their value A LOT. Giving does the opposite. But if you have nothing to give then lower the asking and receiving rates. Sex is not giving. The feeling of sex is mutual..that's fair enough. But asking for money for this and that makes u deserve no emotional honor..rather makes guy see u as penis latrine. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Dietrich92(m): 3:18am On Jan 06, 2014 |
Wow sounds similar to American women I think Westernized morals of putting too much dependence on money and modern conformity is the culprit. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Broschocolata: 6:42am On Jan 06, 2014 |
thymedcurry: If a guy is bold enough to ask a woman for sex, the woman should be bold enough to ask him for money. is this all that your brain can produce |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by prince13: 8:24am On Jan 06, 2014 |
POVERTY AND IGNORANCE: sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by bibiking7(m): 9:32am On Jan 06, 2014 |
hollandis: comparing the standard of living in naija to Canada. . Don't do it. People will think that you are either a professional dumba55 or you gat beginner's luck. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by bibiking7(m): 9:43am On Jan 06, 2014 |
Adaeze003: Thank you very much. Nice comment. I mean the occasional gifts are okay. (birthdays, valentines day, Halloween, even synco de mayo if you like). but what's with the money to make my hair, money for books, I want to go shopping, money for bis. Crap. And most of these girls believe that they have paid for the money with their pu**ies. And they refuse to be called hos. Issokay. Even gifts sef them no dey buy. Na only to receive. It is well. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Afroconnect: 12:34pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Poverty is to blame. To a civilized contented person,time is the most important-hence she won't waste her time with a fool if she can get her own money-she would only spend time with a man she genuinely likes. 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by wltz: 12:56pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Like some mad chic told me if she has to travel with me on business or woteva, it has to be outside 9ja, that she doesnt travel by bus, so i asked her, if it is somewhere like ibadan or ogbomosho that has no airport? You need to see demands eeeehh... Then i said within me "E be like say na poverty kill diz geeh 4 her 1st life"...SMH sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Prittygift(f): 1:35pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Mtcheeeeeeew ruuubisssssshhhhh if it is her parent responsibility plssssssssssss dnt!!! Ask her what you can't ask from your mum....................a real man dont rant over little expenses for his girl if truly he loves her....................it is those people with dick without money dat talk rubbish....................u guys like good things but u can't mantian it.... Indi. Ara. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Venchy: 5:37pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Loooooooooool, umm you make me laugh my head off, rolling on the floor. With my experience, it's absolute poverty combined with Greed....Sad sad sad while some of Nigerian Men are also doing the same thing. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Aphrodite4(f): 7:33pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
I feel very sad for the girls here tht base their argument on "u hv sex wv us so u must pay up".. If you can think that then you're no better than a prostitute.. I mean the least you can do for a guy is to help him be frugal with the money he mks evn if d relationship dsnt lead to the altar he'll forever think highly of you. 1. He's not your father 2. He's not your husband (even if he was imagine how useless you'll look whn all you do is spend his money and not helping him grow a dynasty) 3. You all really need to drop the wh.ore mentality, it degrades u. 4. The more you do this the less likely it is u'l find your soulmate. 2 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Amandobolt(m): 7:55pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Aphrodite4: I feel very sad for the girls here tht base their argument on "u hv sex wv us so u must pay up".. If you can think that then you're no better than a prostitute.. I mean the least you can do for a guy is to help him be frugal with the money he mks evn if d relationship dsnt lead to the altar he'll forever think highly of you.thank u very much for that nice and true statement. gals of nowadays are holes n prostitutes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Theblessed(f): 9:20pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
[b][size=16pt]Yes, you're right - Poverty and the entrenched culture we have, are to blame. Poverty you can eliminate via good education and a good job = a decent lifestyle for the family. However, we have a lot of changes to make in the direction of our cultures. Nigerian women are raised with dependency mentality whereby, they expect a man to do everything as long as they lay on their backs and face the ceiling for your pleasure, comfort and bringing your children into the world - check it out!!!! Therefore, to make a Nigerian woman dependent on self, (if ever it will work), catch them young from HOME through SCHOOL - and show that they are capable of taking care of themselves without looking into the hand of a man for support, in everything. That way you will be able to instill in them, confidence and independence but hey, knowing Nigerian men and their ego problems - can they handle it, when a woman stand on her own feet and demand respect? You see, Nigerian men are not emotionally and psychologically mature enough, to deal with this kind of values (a Nigerian woman's independence) that you seem to be suggesting. Until then don't even think about it because if encouraged, it will throw open alot of worms, from the can - can you take it? [/size][/b] |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by jakesund(m): 10:21pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Prittygift: Mtcheeeeeeew ruuubisssssshhhhh if it is her parent responsibility plssssssssssss dnt!!! Ask her what you can't ask from your mum....................a real man dont rant over little expenses for his girl if truly he loves her....................it is those people with dick without money dat talk rubbish....................u guys like good things but u can't mantian it.... Indi. Ara. huh?? ask what he can't ask from his mum I suppose you're talking about sex... pls tell me what prostitution is again the only good thing worth maintaining is a car women are not "MAINTAINED" they are taken care of this your mentality NA WAH 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by jakesund(m): 10:23pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Theblessed: [b][size=16pt]Yes, you're right - Poverty and the entrenched culture we have, are to blame. chop knuckle well said you're truly blessed as your name implies |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 10:34pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Theblessed: [b][size=16pt]Yes, you're right - Poverty and the entrenched culture we have, are to blame. I love your input on the said matter,however i do like to correct that notion of Nigerian men not being able to handle women in the future for being independent, because independence is not a reason to cry nor fight,it doesnt yield that,it brings freedom and the mind of free will to assume responsibility when faced with it. You dont see men fighting each other for being independent, why should women differ ? The main issue is ,as you mentioned education earlier, our women might misconsrue the meaning of independence thus defying the order of nature and wanting to cut the man[husband] headship which isnt gonna be acceptable in the least form. So i employ they get the necessary and sufficient education they lacked in the first place hence the dependent-like-mindset, so as to actually conform and consent with the term ''independence''. Thank You. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by PreciousBro: 10:47pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Aphrodite4: I feel very sad for the girls here tht base their argument on "u hv sex wv us so u must pay up".. If you can think that then you're no better than a prostitute.. I mean the least you can do for a guy is to help him be frugal with the money he mks evn if d relationship dsnt lead to the altar he'll forever think highly of you. ooh dear i love you for this.... Its good to see the likes of you sticking your guns out on what you know, believe and advocate to when faced with adverseries of same gender as you. Preach and live by your principles dear, thats what matters the most,because its filled with all the virtues attached to womanhood by default. Men adore,cherish and love women like you even though some help in conveying the bad norms along side the bad females in the society, they still search for women like you to settle down with, God bless your stride. 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by jakesund(m): 11:08pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
Aphrodite4: I feel very sad for the girls here tht base their argument on "u hv sex wv us so u must pay up".. If you can think that then you're no better than a prostitute.. I mean the least you can do for a guy is to help him be frugal with the money he mks evn if d relationship dsnt lead to the altar he'll forever think highly of you. this is the best opinion so far... May GOD continue to grant you wisdom if all women were like you most guys won't see women as sex for money object ... you have my respect.... p.s... the other girls coming here to bark like dogs with rabies are only upset cuz the thread owner is sabotaging their YOU MUST BUY ME EVERYTHING SO FAR I'M GIVING YOU SEX MINISTRIES SORRY TO SAY...BUT YOUR MINISTRY WOULD NEVER MOVE TO THE PERMANENT SITE |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by freshdude: 11:44pm On Jan 06, 2014 |
squaddy: It is what it is brothers and complaining about it won't solve anything...nobody likes spending recklessy even bill gates himself...once in a while guys may show off and squander huge sums of cash but believe me they don't like it...now since this mentality of the BF automatically becoming the parents of the girl(totally disregarding the amount of effort we put into satifying them sexually), my advice to you brothers is to be the nigga by the side having a bite of the cherry once in a while...I mean we all know that no matter the amount of love you show a lady she will always seek an extra d.I.c.k to experiment on...now allow them have their BF(since she is still going to cheat on you if you are the BF) and let him do all the spending while you be the nigga by the side who comes in as a substitute to score the winning goal for little or no charge...works for meDude I get what ur saying. But at a point, u will get tired of having a sip of the juice. U will want your own juice not minding the fact that she might cheat on u. So sonner or later ur still gonna spend heavily on the one u call ur own, while the side Nigga take a sip once in a while. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Li2jully(f): 1:07am On Jan 07, 2014 |
bigger boiz dnt mk noise wen dy spend 4 deir woman. |
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