Theblessed: [size=16pt]
That way you will be able to instill in them, confidence and independence but hey, knowing Nigerian men and their ego problems - can they handle it, when a woman stand on her own feet and demand respect?

You see, Nigerian men are not emotionally and psychologically mature enough, to deal with this kind of values (a Nigerian woman's independence) that you seem to be suggesting.

Until then don't even think about it because if encouraged, it will throw open alot of worms, from the can - can you take it? [/size]

frank043:

Kul!!!...sensible tlk,i need ur type 4a GF cos I'm single,buh nt seriously searching.wat do u say?no offence,pls.

black_beau: So,when its time to wash your clothes,cook your meals,keep your house clean ,grace your bed and in some cases,go to your parents place to help out,there are no complaints. Abi,u don't know its your mothers responsibility? When its tym to foot her bills,it automatically becomes her fathers responsibilty. I'm not saying its right for a girl to put all her financial responsibility on her bf but if she decides to,keep quiet and take care of it.she puts up wiv all your 'nonesense' afterall

~PreciousBro~:
^^ By "Really cool guy" I'm sure you mean one that buys all you demand ? .. lol

jakesund:

I read your post thoroughly and truth be told I'm not surprised... the thread owner was stating his opinion and was asking what we all think about the Nigerian girl over dependent mentality..

if you were so different as you're trying to portray your Ill mannered self, courtesy demands you politely state your opinion and leave...

you went all out calling the thread owner "DAFT" for stating his opinion which last time I checked he's entitled to...

it hurts when you see people talking about the kinda person you are... which is over dependent and greedy...

THREE ADVICE FOR YOU...

-GET SOME MANNERS...

-STOP BEING DEPENDENT ON YOUR BOYFRIEND

- AND STOP TRYING SO HARD TO PROVE YOU'RE DIFFERENT JUST TO GET A BOYFRIEND ON NAIRALAND


NO ONE GIVES A DAMN ABOUT YOU

j.tenna:

see me see wahala oh! Trouble dey sleep yanga wan wake am. Well, am not gonna wake dude. U are just like most of my stingy ex bfs dat can't even boost of having spent up to 20k on me. For the record, am a very independent chick and i don't need to inform any man b4 i eat! :-P

frank043:

Hmmm!ur types' kinda rare right?I wudnt mind hv'n u as my gurl...I wnt v 2 spend much,right??#winks#

~PreciousBro~:


Wake up jor I want you to wake. lol

Speaking of .. ex BFs ? So them many like that, and they haven't spent up to 20k on you ? Awww Maybe they feel you don't deserve "up to" 20k worth spending considering your sense of reasoning isn't up to per... after all, they are many and you're independent na ,so why should they spend ? . As for me being stingy in your minds eye just because I dey talk true ..lol ,I don't know o
but I'm guessing you have a knack to be deeply imaginative of ones life via disagreement

There must be something attractive in a local girl,I'm still searching,you seem interesting!

j.tenna:

arrgh!!! Now you just poured me a cold bucket of water, i am so fully awake.
Not only do you have a defective reasoning, you also have a gutterish mind. Can't a girl who have had just 3bfs in her life refer to them as ex-bfs? Uhmmm.
Really? You are a really nas.ty guy for writting that maybe they feel i dont deserve up to 20k. Wow! I must confess u got me pissed there. U know what, now i see why gals go for the cash. I don't blame them anymore. Talking 4rm personal experience. A girl never really asked for anything except love instead of cherishing her type which is hard to come by, they would take her 4 granted while still asking too much from her. Its guys like u dat change good girls like me... smh
what truth are your talking? Do u think u are really making conversation from your sh.it filled mouth? :-x :-D . . .lol. Funny
and who's a local gal? Pack go one corner or go hit seun's a.s.s. I don't do NL romance. BG tins :-P

addictiv: Think the problem lies with their mentality. Most people get into relationships for different reasons. Its very few who actually date cos they truly love the other half. People should come clean and declare their intentions at the beginning. If you need a guy that ll assist financially, pls let him know at the beginning the capacity you ll want him to assist in. So he ll know if he can bear such task or not.

Skinni10ne:

I dont think we should care about nigerian mens ego. I would rather nigerian girls be known as independent women than money hungry women who sleep with men for money.

The insults from these men are sad. Theres obviously no respect for the nigerian woman and we need to get that back.

xynerise:
Have you seen a dollar or pound since you were born?