Ok. It all started last year on October. He normally comes around to see my brother and I really do enjoy his company until one day he ended up asking me out, I said yes! Without thinking about how my brother would feel about it. We kept seeing each and at times even when he comes to my house to see my brother, he was actually there to see me. Now the problem is that he wants us to be official, I was cool with it, but my brother is not. Because I jokely told me that if I date one of his friends would he be cool with it? And he told me that if he sees or hear that I'm dating any of his friends, he'd kill me. But on new years eve, I went out with my brother's friend and that was the first time we kissed! I'm madly in love with him right now, what should I do? I really like him, I want to be with him, to be seen with him, to hang out with him all the time, but my brother is the problem now. Help me guys, thanks!

hmmmm... just follow ur mind bt tak it cool wit ur broda.
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nonysexy: hmmmm... just follow ur mind bt tak it cool wit ur broda.
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why are you giving me your pin?

badGirlAshleyº: why are you giving me your pin?

Because he knows you are a newbie on NairaLand. #IMO

Do same thing all 'bad girls' do... Don't give two fvcks.

I wish I cud mak a cntributn,,, buh sm1 who Shudnt b watchn me z @ close ranqe... Adios

Its a very risky venture. Sorry 2 say buh yur boo is a backstabber, y wuld he ask you out without telln yur broda n yet he claims 2 b yur broda's frnd... I wuld adv you 2 watch "scarface" n you wuld c wah Tony Montana did 2 his bstfrnd who dated his sista..

Ok. What's the age difference between you and that guy? Are you sure he doesn't want to take advantage of the obvious crush you have on him? Ask your brother why he doesn't like the idea, he should know the guy better than you do...personally, I have no issue with my best friend dating my sister. Problem is, I don't have a bestfriend.

@BadgirlAshley, this is simply cool Attraction has no choice Just talk to your brother coolly and promise him that you'll not cross the line. He's simply unhappy and does not want you to go to bed with him because your brother's friend will make mockery of you later. Believe me

sopoundz: Its a very risky venture. Sorry 2 say buh yur boo is a backstabber, y wuld he ask you out without telln yur broda n yet he claims 2 b yur broda's frnd... I wuld adv you 2 watch "scarface" n you wuld c wah Tony Montana did 2 his bstfrnd who dated his sista..

Alright, but I'm not gonna watch the movie , thanks for your advice

slap1: Ok. What's the age difference between you and that guy? Are you sure he doesn't want to take advantage of the obvious crush you have on him? Ask your brother why he doesn't like the idea, he should know the guy better than you do...personally, I have no issue with my best friend dating my sister. Problem is, I don't have a bestfriend.

well the age difference is not that bad, he's the same age with my brother. Thanks! I'll ask my brother why, I hope I don't get punched in the face.

De Tus: @BadgirlAshley, this is simply cool Attraction has no choice Just talk to your brother coolly and promise him that you'll not cross the line. He's simply unhappy and does not want you to go to bed with him because your brother's friend will make mockery of you later. Believe me

um ok! But I'm not thinking about sex

@BadgirlAshley, i didn't say you're thinking about sex but surely, you will definitely fall. A guy who knows what's up can easily make a chick fall or beg for it

Hey girl, your brother really do care about you and he doesn't want you to date any of his friends. He knows what they are capable of doing and he doesn't want you to be a victim, like for example, if they are talking about their girlfriends and shiits they do with them and your brother's friend started talking about you, it's gonna be so weird and why can't he tell your brother about you guys, if he really loves you? So um think about it, but! If you really want to date him, then talk to your brother.

@Mayapop, we've given her the best advice so far because she asked nicely.

De Tus: @Mayapop, we've given her the best advice so far because she asked nicely.

and I did the same too Mr . know all

lol :-D Girl, send me a pm, you could make a good friend :-D @Mayapop

Op...u just av to sit down and discuss wif ur Bro. Obviously he knows him better dan u.
Ma elder bro once dated a friend of mine,it didn't end well. If only ma Bro had informed me B4 asking her out.

badGirlAshleyº: why are you giving me your pin?

lmaooooooo

Ashley here's my own 2cents . . Uhm had this frnd, his name Is joseph . . Anytime I go to visit him wud always noticed his sister making moves, then 2go was d ish, dunno how she did it, buh she add me on 2go and we started chattin, she told me bout how she's madly inlove and shidss . . we started gettin along well . . She later told her brother dah she's inlove with one of his frnd, when she mention krizz, D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ guy nearly kill her, wunt blame him cus we best of frnd n he know our kinda lifestyle . . He was jes protecting his kid sis . . Ashley lemme ask u dis questn will u allow ur frnd date ur bro, when u know she's a player??

mayapop: Hey girl, your brother really do care about you and he doesn't want you to date any of his friends. He knows what they are capable of doing and he doesn't want you to be a victim, like for example, if they are talking about their girlfriends and shiits they do with them and your brother's friend started talking about you, it's gonna be so weird and why can't he tell your brother about you guys, if he really loves you? So um think about it, but! If you really want to date him, then talk to your brother.

GBAM!

Brocode rule number 1



Stay away from a brother's sister


Rule 2


Stay away from a brother's girlfriend



He broke the first rule, sometimes it's difficult to forgive when one hurts family

Your brother has his reasons

There's this friend that asked same question in 2011. I knew of the breakup in 2012. She's been avoiding the topic. I care less what happened, I only want to know if her brother and his friend are still friends

It's not about the rightness or wrongness.. It's about the 'ego'. Can't just determine if the guy's right or wrong for you. Only God, he and yourself can do that. Just know your brother would NOT like it for every goddamn reason, if he's a TYPICAL Nigerian man.

Some love tho...I don't like such scenario,my sis dating my best frnd,u know we guys hv our way of disclosing our luv adventures among one another. Biko my love,reverse that ur love n seek it elsewhere,not ideal 4 me