netotse:


I agree with what you're saying, the babe made decisions, but at the same time, we must not fail to ask why a 25 year old male would feel a 17 year old intern is best suited to quench/sate his sexual desires/curiousities. This was a girl that had finished secondary school (and had not even entered uni) getting involved with a uni graduate(the guy reach to have pg degree sef), in this scenario who owes who the duty of care? I remember how I was at 25, I didn't have a benz but I was confident as heck, a 17 year old coming to look at me with puppy eyes? I will be formatting and resetting her brain like it was a pen drive . Heck even in uni sef, it seemed somehow to be toasting all them jambites when we were in final year the levels of reasoning cannot possibly match.

There has to be something wrong with a mindset that would seek to exploit such a young girl, granted she might have been forming matured and all (I can imagine her saying "I have a 12am curfew" with a flick of her weave ) but anyone with a semblance of responsibility should and would have realized that getting involved with her was off limits.

I think we men need to begin to have conversations with each other on what it means to be a man. We cannot claim the place of authority and then watch people misuse said authority and look the other way. We need to be able to call each others' bluff that way when the feminazis or whatever they're called come there's nothing they can accuse us of that we haven't mentioned ourselves.

tearoses:
Good efning o!

Please can someone tell me the name of a wine that I cant remember what its called.

Lemme describe it

Red wine
South African
In a very unusual bottle - bottle is brown and covered in something that looks like woodchips (rough bottle)
Costs about N1700 in supermarkets
I think it begins with M

Thanks

hariorh:


One red wine I know of like that...
Kagor?

pickabeau1:


Which place of authority do men claim

Have u forgotten this is the new age

We are equal in promiscuity


Equal in everything

freecocoa:
And a man of 25 is equals in everything with a girl of 17 Abi?

tearoses:

Wow That was quick - nairalanders are the best Thank you very much Its the one Dunno where I got the M from and ir wasnt south African after all

pickabeau1:


Which place of authority do men claim

Have u forgotten this is the new age

We are equal in promiscuity


Equal in everything

netotse:
Some babe was in a relationship with the late Kogi state govs son a few years back, it wasn't a healthy relationship, according to her, he made her sleep with his friends and brothers several times and treated her like crap. They met when she was undergoing an internship where he worked years back. He was 25 she was 17. It's the usual naija thing, some people are asking her why she kept going back, some are calling the guy a rapist etc etc.

The recent rash of popularity is because she was jubilating on twitter when the former gov (and at the time of his passing, guber candidate) passed away. The gist had actually come out years ago (she blogged about it).

netotse:


Na from village I go carry wife o...you k ow some of us can't handle these high flying babes.

@mindfulns
Thanks, t'was probably something in the water, I usually don't make sense.

raumdeuter:
Barack Obama was born when his mom was exactly 18yrs and 8months his dad was 26yrs old

Who can guess when they started having sex and what age both of them were

raumdeuter:
Barack Obama was born when his mom was exactly 18yrs and 8months his dad was 26yrs old

Who can guess when they started having sex and what age both of them were

NashvilleTN:
This sugabelly case is interesting.

She is traumatized, scorned and feels used and dumped. She but feel terrible after all that happened. But let's take a critical look.

A young lady continually has consensual sex with the same person and even his friends and then wants to claim rape? She even acknowledged some of the guys involved were younger than her - so who was raping who?

And even after she turned 18 and 19 and 20, she still wanted to get back with the rapist? Statutory rape indeed.

Some people claiming statutory rape have mothers that gave birth at 18. Should their fathers also be charged for statutory rape?

Would sugabelly had dated a 25 year old son of a very poor man. Let's say some ragged guy toasted her, who she have fallen easily? I doubt it.

5minsmadness:


Wishing u all the best in your family endeavours.

5minsmadness:


Wishing u all the best in your family endeavours.

5minsmadness:
Ah,
why was the post hidden na?
I didnt reveal anything did I? I was as ambiguous as possible.

Lol....trying to protect u from your boss!!

tearoses:
So we are officially at war
People please be extra careful
May Gods protection be upon us all and may we not be caught up in this

RoyalRoy:





Lol....trying to protect u from your boss!!

5minsmadness:

Ranka dede sir!
I've been keeping it in all week
Oh well, I'm used to keeping secrets

tearoses:


Logically what you said made sense
However this girl was/is damaged.
I read her background and didn't wish that on anyone.

pickabeau1:


Wish what exactly

The main issue is the age

If she was 18...will u bat an eyelid?

5minsmadness:


Are we?
Any statement from the mallam?

tearoses:


The main issue to me is that this man took advantage of a clearly damaged and vulnerable gitl who was looking for love and acceptance
Even if she were 23 I will still condemn what happened
She has a mental age of only God knows
She was raped by her mothers bf
no father figure
and she had low self esteem

The man knew that and took advantage
the wife he married did he give her round to his friends and brother to sample first?
No . . because he knows right from wrong but choose not to do right by firmly closing the door to such an unhealthy relationship with sugarbelly or whats her name.

He could have treated her like a kid sister and firmly walked her out of his life bit he choose to take advantage of her vulnerability.