I was a guest at a company end of year get-together held in the last weekend of last year.
There i met this lady that came with a man i knew, we got talking and i was shocked to know she actually knew the man she came with was married, and she was fine with it.

So, to satisfy my curiousity i asked her if i could meet one of her friends who will accept my marital status and she said why not.
She then gave reasons why a single lady will accept a married man.

Finance - That a married man will readily give what a single guy would never give his GF.

Maturity - Married men are more mature and know how to pamper young single ladies having learnt from being married.

Sexual Freedom - She claimed single ladies have freedom to explore sexually, that every lady who has tasted sex crave for it but are restricted due to use and dump syndrome and failed promises from single guys.

So, i asked about when will the single girl now get married and her responce was, things will fall in place with time but before then she has to survive.

hmmm....

Just maybe.

Bottomline is that she just wanna have fun and make some change (or not) while doing so. I blame the married men more though, why leave your wife at home to change skirt all over town?

hrmkz: Just maybe.

pray it makes fp

Mynd_44: Bottomline is that she just wanna have fun and make some change (or not) while doing so. I blame the married men more though, why leave your wife at home to change skirt all over town?

your guess is as good as mine.

Mtcheeew....so she even takes pride in sleeping with other women's husband.

At least she was being honest about the 'she has to survive' part.
This has to be the most solid motivation.

I'm not in support of single ladies dating married men, what will it profit them?

Mynd_44: I blame the married men more though, why leave your wife at home to change skirt all over town?

*looking intently into his eyes*

You dey learn work?

It's all about the money, leave all the explanations the OP gave.

Na soo oda small small gals go dey sleep wit him own hubby if she(mistakenly) marry

Medunah: Mtcheeew....so she even takes pride in sleeping with other women's husband.

And the men are not ashamed to be sleeping with people other than their wife

Diz life ehn! I was tlkin to a lady one day n she told me her bf is a married man. Shocked, I asked her y, she said she prefers married men cos they dnt 'overprotect'. I nw asked ow she wil feel if her husband is sleepin wt a young girl too, she said its nt a big deal n she wnt expect em nt to do so, bt e must knw ow to play his game n not let her knw.
Its so funny ow pple r proud of sm immoral tinz dez days

Lumyboi: Diz life ehn! I was tlkin to a lady one day n she told me her bf is a married man. Shocked, I asked her y, she said she prefers married men cos they dnt 'overprotect'. I nw asked ow she wil feel if her husband is sleepin wt a young girl too, she said its nt a big deal n she wnt expect em nt to do so, bt e must knw ow to play his game n not let her knw.
Its so funny ow pple r proud of sm immoral tinz dez days

my broda if you see the lady in qst, so beautiful and soft spoken that if you come across her you will never imagine she indulges is such act.

Mynd_44:
And the men are not ashamed to be sleeping with people other than their wife

I never said wat d husband is doin is right. Wah am saying is giving those reasons for dating a married man doesnt justify d fact dat she is fornicating with a married man. Any girl in her right senses should know any man who is taken is off limits.

crystalballs:

my broda if you see the lady in qst, so beautiful and soft spoken that if you come across her you will never imagine she indulges is such act.

Na so we dey c dem o. Innocent on d outside, bt wen e reach dia...nna mehn

Doesn't make sense. i bet she wouldn't have said that trash if she saw her dad with one of those small girls

Maycher: Doesn't make sense. i bet she wouldn't have said that trash if she saw her dad with one of those small girls

Then her dad is shameless

Medunah:
I never said wat d husband is doin is right. Wah am saying is giving those reasons for dating a married man doesnt justify d fact dat she is fornicating with a married man. Any girl in her right senses should know any man who is taken is off limits.

I don't think you understand what the op is saying, go back and read again.

koastar:
I don't think you understand what the op is saying, go back and read again.

Maybe i dnt, wah did he say? cos i read again nd i still feel d same way

Maycher: Doesn't make sense. i bet she wouldn't have said that trash if she saw her dad with one of those small girls

E tire me ooo

Judge not lest you be judged first

crystalballs: I was a guest at a company end of year get-together held in the last weekend of last year.
There i met this lady that came with a man i knew, we got talking and i was shocked to know she actually knew the man she came with was married, and she was fine with it.

So, to satisfy my curiousity i asked her if i could meet one of her friends who will accept my marital status and she said why not.
She then gave reasons why a single lady will accept a married man.

Finance - That a married man will readily give what a single guy would never give his GF.

Maturity - Married men are more mature and know how to pamper young single ladies having learnt from being married.

Sexual Freedom - She claimed single ladies have freedom to explore sexually, that every lady who has tasted sex crave for it but are restricted due to use and dump syndrome and failed promises from single guys.

So, i asked about when will the single girl now get married and her responce was, things will fall in place with time but before then she has to survive.

hmmm....

Naija babes-their love for money is steadfast and above all else

At least she was honest, and her reasons are understandable. I think i've read something like that in a book some years ago. But it still doesn't excuse the fact that it is morally unjustified.

Medunah:
Maybe i dnt, wah did he say? cos i read again nd i still feel d same way

With these reasons given by the op, you think a married man will give a girl everything without getting sex in return? He would as well give his wife everything since he's getting the sex free. No free lunch in Freetown.

crystalballs: I was a guest at a company end of year get-together held in the last weekend of last year.
There i met this lady that came with a man i knew, we got talking and i was shocked to know she actually knew the man she came with was married, and she was fine with it.
So, to satisfy my curiousity i asked her if i could meet one of her friends who will accept my marital status and she said why not.
She then gave reasons why a single lady will accept a married man.
Finance - That a married man will readily give what a single guy would never give his GF.
Maturity - Married men are more mature and know how to pamper young single ladies having learnt from being married.
Sexual Freedom - She claimed single ladies have freedom to explore sexually, that every lady who has tasted sex crave for it but are restricted due to use and dump syndrome and failed promises from single guys.
So, i asked about when will the single girl now get married and her responce was, things will fall in place with time but before then she has to survive.
hmmm....

Women generally want things that re off limits n beyond their reach. Women like this make me get scared of marriage.

uj_sizzle: At least she was honest, and her reasons are understandable. I think i've read something like that in a book some years ago. But it still doesn't excuse the fact that it is morally unjustified.

i was baffled with her honesty and sincerity.

If she dated a married man before marriage..she won't stop after marriage...the real reasons are greed,pride and lack of contentment

Mewa nsele - (ten is happening)

greedy Bea.st of Africa... karma never sleep na

Married men are also easily monitored and because of their family single ladies regard them as part time lovers unlike boyfriends who may be a nuisance to them