Something just happened to my girlfriend, it got me wondering  What we do for love  Is it Ok?  Is it being stupid?  Do you think she would regret later?

She comes from an average family.  Her Yahooze boyfriend takes good care of her.  She got a modeling contract that would make her some thousand dollars richer, but the guy feels insecured ie the contract would give her exposure (fame) ,open doors and of course the dough but he didn't tell her point black to tear up the contract papers. 

The babe felt the guy was feeling insecured and of her own accord, tore up the contract. Do you think she did the right thing?

We had a long talk and I told her my fears but she still maintained that shes 100% sure she did the right thing.  Her dad and brothers were mad at her for rejecting the offer, her MUM was in support of her rejecting it though for a different reason, she's a pastor and her church forbids a pastors daughter being semi-nude on billboards 

What do you all think  _{please people,the deed has been done, i wont be going to persuade my girlfriend to have a change of mind (it's her life and biz at the end of the day), just seeking for opinions}   

Tell your girlfriend she is crazy.

ifyalways:

Something just happened to my galfriend,it got me wondering what we do for love Is it Ok?is it being stupid?do u think she would regret later?
she comes from an average family.Her yahooze boyfriend takes good kia of her,she got a modelling contract that would make her some thousand dollars richer but the guy feels insecured ie the contract would give her exposure(fame) ,open doors and ofcourse the dough BUT he didnt tell her point black to tear up the contract papers.The babe felt the guy was feeling insecured and of HER own accord,tore up the contract.do you think she did the right thing?
we had a long talk and i told her my fears but she still maintained that shes 100% sure she did the right thing.Her dad and brothers were mad at her for rejecting the offer,her MUM was in support of her rejecting it though for a different reason,shes a pastor and her church forbids a pastors daughter being semi-nude on billboards
what do u all think _{please people,the deed has been done,i wont be going to persaude my GF to have a change of mind(its her life and biz at the end of the day),just seeking for opinions}

I think she did the wrong thing. She should be her own person instead of hanging on her boyfriend. She just blew one chance of standing on her feet.

I don't fully understand what a yahooze bf means, but I think it means 419 bf, if am correct, then someday the guy may decide to play the girl, then she will regret not having enough to stand on her own.

haa,agaba,u dont mean it do u?why  do u think so?  

ify see that guys response above. He is echoing my views

@ogb,Yes yahooze = 419
They are even making plans to marry,just that the girl wants to be tru with school first.
ewww,she did blow the chance,all that money  
@agaba,Her argument then was that her love life comes b4 anything else.Her happiness,she claimed shes happy with her guy and wud do anything within her power to make the guy happy.my fear is,wud the guy do same?
lol,agaba,smile small now,shuoo di tin don vex u too mush

your friend whats to marry a 419, wish her luck.

I wonder why some women prefer crooks,

She would rather marry a crook than earn her own money, women still baffle me

OGB you talk sense my bros.

I cannot figure that out.

ogb,am     
i don't know her reasons too women and dramas
so far,it seems like my views and tots were right,shes bleeped up big time.

thats the 1st Bleep up. the next will be marrying the guy.

Love is blind children say, but adults know is not true.
Your friend better open her eyes fast b4 its too late

ogb5:

thats the 1st Bleep up. the next will be marrying the guy.

Love is blind children say, but adults know is not true.
Your friend better open her eyes fast before its too late

Gbam. odabara adaba
word

treading on fire she is

Mustay:

treading on fire she is

Fire is cold may be threading on Iran's nuclear site is more like it

Haaaaaaaaaaaa!

Ify, you know a yahoo yahoo and you didn't call EFCC on his @$$?

she said a friend of hers

She did not say she knows the person. Prolly one of the busybody NL friends

Ohhh, ok.


But it's her friend, her friend's bf, nvm sha

her friends friend

Ruby_Pearl:

Haaaaaaaaaaaa!

Ify, you know a yahoo yahoo and you didn't call EFCC on his @$$?

shuoooo 
Both parties are non-Nigerians,the girl is an asian babe,the guy a lebanese,whats my biz with a friends friend/coursemate?shes just a friend.I can't hate her for keeping friends with whoever she so choses.

Ruby_Pearl:

Ohhh, ok.


But it's her friend, her friend's boyfriend, nvm sha

i don't get this 
@Ogb,Mustay and agaba,You guys have said it all.shes bound to regret.

Talking of love and happiness,will she still love the guy when he eventually runs into problem or if his money eventually goes into the drain,
Its obvious she's very comfortable wih the way her guy is making his money but i really think a little bit of idependence is good for her.
Chances are she will regret it in later life.

OK

tell your friend to stop toiling with her freedom or let her read the replies on this thread

your girlfriend is ssssoooo dumb! well, wish her best of luck with her 419 boyfriend, its her life not mine

IS SHE MAD?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh she will regret it like crazy. If there's one thing I know, the guy is only worth it if he truly loves her and if he's trustworthy. Anything else and she's in big big trouble. I hope he doesn't shatter her heart in a billion pieces by the time she finally figures it out.

ifyalways:

shuoooo
Both parties are non-Nigerians,the girl is an asian babe,the guy a lebanese,whats my biz with a friends friend/coursemate?shes just a friend.I can't hate her for keeping friends with whoever she so choses.i don't get this
@Ogb,Mustay and agaba,You guys have said it all.shes bound to regret.

Ify, my bad o.
I don't mean you should hate your friend, aha ha, that's asking too much of me.
I tot it was your friend's boyfriend. Usually, friends know their boyfriends. That's what I was thinking.

Anyhow, That gurl is crazy/stupid.
So what happens the day her bobo gets caught by EFCC? where will she be getting money from?
Crazy, I tell ya, crazy

@J-girl,trustworthy ke?   judging by the kind of biz the guy engages in,i think words like "trust" does not stand a chance there.
well,its her lyfe,i just wish she gets to her senses !
@Toyin,no long tin,Yes friends,close friends do know each others buddy.Friends get levels nah,shes just a school mate,we arent all that close.nyways no stress 

The story seems to be more than what has being written here!!

Yahooze bf, hmmm, i would imagine, she's comfy with the guys "yahooze" returns!!

She's an adult,

I'm out!!

ifyalways:

@Toyin,no long tin,Yes friends,close friends do know each others buddy.Friends get levels nah,shes just a school mate,we arent all that close.nyways no stress

lol, ok.
Just make sure when EFCC comes and get him, he won't be at your house/dorm o.
Cuz I won't send bail money to anyone abeg

ifyalways:

@J-girl,trustworthy ke? judging by the kind of biz the guy engages in,i think words like "trust" does not stand a chance there.
well,its her lyfe,i just wish she gets to her senses !
@Toyin,no long tin,Yes friends,close friends do know each others buddy.Friends get levels nah,shes just a school mate,we arent all that close.nyways no stress

We don't know o! The guy might be trustworthy in other things. It's always nice to hope for the best, abi?
I hope she gets to her senses too. It might be too late though.
Experience is the best teacher anyway

Ruby_Pearl:

lol, ok.
Just make sure when EFCC comes and get him, he won't be at your house/dorm o.
Cuz I won't send bail money to anyone abeg

hehehee
Yes maam. 

j-girl:

We don't know o! The guy might be trustworthy in other things. It's always nice to hope for the best, abi?

i do doubt that  Its good to hope for the best sha but no this is more like sitting atop a time bomb to moi,it surely would explode,sonner or later.Experience isnt the best teacher anymore,its the worst teacher.

ifyalways:

i do doubt that Its good to hope for the best sha but no this is more like sitting atop a time bomb to moi,it surely would explode,sonner or later.Experience isnt the best teacher anymore,its the worst teacher.

Once bitten, twice shy.
Let's see if she'll give up another contract for another man if they break up.
At least she believes in love. Maybe it will work out. Let's pray it does because for 15,000 dollars, he better be worth it.

J-girl your spirit is amazing gal Possibilities,probabilities,chances and risks . . . .thats lyfe for u though,anyway,if ever anything goes wrong,she wudnt forget the experiece so easily,the lesson wud have by then,be learnt the hard way.
thanks gal for ur time.

ifyalways:

J-girl your spirit is amazing girl Possibilities,probabilities,chances and risks . . . .thats lyfe for u though,anyway,if ever anything goes wrong,she wudnt forget the experiece so easily,the lesson would have by then,be learnt the hard way.
thanks girl for your time.

Thanks girl and you're welcome
Life is all about learning, You stop learning, you're dead, Maybe this is even a lesson to me. Should I give up a 1 billion naira contract for a guy? _{There is NO WAY i would do that except i'm kidnapped} but it's going to be a good story of sacrifice if they get married.

haaaa
who added the poll? its def. not me